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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 11:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 130
Posted By youngdad91
HOw much weight is given to a parenting plan?

Hey guys been trying to ask this a few times but don't think I've been to clear. How much weight would the courts give to a signed parenting plan witnessed by both lawyers ?

The access portion is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 09:34 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 163
Posted By youngdad91
per parenting time.. right now we are doing...

per parenting time.. right now we are doing 5.5.2.2 out of court.. it's the childs access schedule. we agreed on it in mediation and started it without a court order. the parenting plan says this is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2018, 02:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 163
Posted By youngdad91
turning a signed parenting plan into a court order

tried asking this earlier but I don't think I was clear enough.

I have commenced a motion to change custody and access. We have, through mediation, in a parenting plan, agreed on, inter alia, on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 02:22 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 87
Posted By youngdad91
signed parenting plan vs court order?

so parenting plan has been signed off by both of us, and witnessed by our lawyers. It includes joint custody and 5-5-2-2, as well as the other items.

It was written by a social worker, so the...
Forum: General Chat 09-29-2018, 12:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 490
Posted By youngdad91
oh boy. these must be some deep sincere emails.:p

oh boy. these must be some deep sincere emails.:p
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2018, 09:40 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 110
Posted By youngdad91
requesting present income for offset?

former spouse has a new job with higher income. only has provided last year return on her old job. would the courts ask her to provide a recent paystub ? I'm seeking an offset as we have started a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2018, 09:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 198
Posted By youngdad91
right of first refusal wording

so we've agreed to rofr. If a parent needs daycare for at least 2 hours, then other parent gets the time. if it is for 2 hours or less on a consistent basis, then the other parent gets the time. ...
Forum: General Chat 09-23-2018, 07:35 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 490
Posted By youngdad91
condescending messages from ex?

I think we could all agree our exes know us the best, know how to write things to get under our skin, and what things can get our skin. For an ex who does this, what is the best way at avoid being...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:23 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 238
Posted By youngdad91
Big mistake letting her go to court first. But I...

Big mistake letting her go to court first. But I assume you planned on going to court anyways before she commenced this child support stuff. She just beat you to it.

Those access denials and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 09:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 200
Posted By youngdad91
Isn't she entitled to the ones that fall on her...

Isn't she entitled to the ones that fall on her Fridays?

Well the PD Fridays are random and unpredictable year by year . I just requested that they fall where they fall. If they're on her Fridays...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 11:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 200
Posted By youngdad91
PD Fridays on a 5-5-2-2 schedule?

How do parents mostly handle these? I am the Wednesday and Thursday parent so this year 5 out of 7 PD Fridays would basically interrupt my 5 day stretch.

Would it make sense to agree to allow the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2018, 12:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 459
Posted By youngdad91
That is not what he said. He said the split in...

That is not what he said. He said the split in schedule that the OCL referred to as "50/50" is laughable.



Nothing really ever screams about father's that they are unfit when they are only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2018, 11:55 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 277
Posted By youngdad91
ever heard of the saying "what's good for the...

ever heard of the saying "what's good for the goose is good for the gander?"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2018, 11:51 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 215
Posted By youngdad91
No but I have not heard anything good about CAS. ...

No but I have not heard anything good about CAS. They operate under quotas (similar to the police). The more children they take away the more grants (money) they get from the government. They also...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2018, 03:24 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 459
Posted By youngdad91
Initial thoughts, female social worker who has...

Initial thoughts, female social worker who has made friends with mom and is trying to help her out.

LOL. Is a text message that reads out "chill out" seriously the data the OCL is replying upon to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2018, 10:22 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 199
Posted By youngdad91
you can agree to your own amount in a shared...

you can agree to your own amount in a shared custody arrangement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2018, 09:57 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 277
Posted By youngdad91
..or it could be purely a control issue on your...

..or it could be purely a control issue on your part.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2018, 11:00 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 521
Posted By youngdad91
The only 2 ways women can be ordered to pay child...

The only 2 ways women can be ordered to pay child support are:

1. both parents are in a shared custody regime where the father has at least 40% access and and offset in child support applied (and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2018, 02:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 521
Posted By youngdad91
Oh yes, right. offset child support. Of course....

Oh yes, right. offset child support. Of course. He must be one of the rare and lucky 0.05% of all dad's with an offset payable to them.

I still wouldn't judge him (and call him dirty) based on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2018, 01:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 521
Posted By youngdad91
I wouldn't have that type of attitude towards...

I wouldn't have that type of attitude towards dad. Dad is probably a clean person. His place could be much cleaner than the mothers.

Also, not fair to place any blame on the father only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2018, 12:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 234
Posted By youngdad91
I would not pay them any interest. There can't be...

I would not pay them any interest. There can't be any delay on your end if it is being enforced by the FRO. It is their responsibility to collect it. If you were not cooperating with the FRO, then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2018, 12:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 259
Posted By youngdad91
I would ask for involvement of family bridges...

I would ask for involvement of family bridges program and reversal of custody. If the courts don't do that then stop paying child support and make the judges life as miserable as they have made...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2018, 09:50 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 763
Posted By youngdad91
Not what I said. It depends on the circumstances...

Not what I said. It depends on the circumstances of the case. In my case, the judge basically told "fuck you" to my ex and her high conflict pipsqueak advocate (a female lawyer) when they requested...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2018, 09:30 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 763
Posted By youngdad91
There could however be an agreement by the...

There could however be an agreement by the prosecutor to drop one or more charges. So if there is (so we are told) 2 counts of uttering threads and 1 count of assault, he could walk away with one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-30-2018, 04:25 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,219
Posted By youngdad91
Yeah I hated having to go through the OCL...

Yeah I hated having to go through the OCL process. Took us over 8 months, and another 4 months just to get the report. Hold the OCL rep accountable, mine kept complaining that she did other things...
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