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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2013, 07:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 833
Posted By AlienatedDad
Speaking of trials, I am scheduled to go in a few...

Speaking of trials, I am scheduled to go in a few weeks, although presumably there will be another settlement conference sometime in between. I contacted my lawyer last week and was told that she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2012, 06:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 734
Posted By AlienatedDad
Excellent! All good stuff.

Excellent! All good stuff.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2012, 08:13 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks for your reply caranna. I am just worried...

Thanks for your reply caranna. I am just worried about cost. I am tired of being bleed to death by the whole "misery industry." How much will it take to bring a new lawyer up to speed? My case is two...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2012, 07:44 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
I am talking to her tonight and plan on bring up...

I am talking to her tonight and plan on bring up a lot of these issues. I don't think I am intimidated by her, but when she comes up with all sorts of reasons (excuses?) why she hasn't done something...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2012, 01:33 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks for the advice arabian. I really don't...

Thanks for the advice arabian. I really don't want to get into the habit of calling her everyday . . . it's my dime after all. I am just frustrated that we had months to prepare for the settlement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2012, 12:54 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
I agree with you about the busy part, but when...

I agree with you about the busy part, but when this starts to have an impact on quality, this is a problem. As this appears to be what is happening in my case, as she has missed a filing deadline and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2012, 12:02 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks caranna. As said, my lawyer asked re other...

Thanks caranna. As said, my lawyer asked re other side for an extension to file until Monday. They refused and wanted to adjourn. Mum lawyer says this might not be possible since the case is supposed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 04:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
Good points. All. Still, I'm concerned that she's...

Good points. All. Still, I'm concerned that she's never had a case with a custody evaluation. Aren't these increasingly common?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 04:11 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
My lawyer asked for an extension to file my...

My lawyer asked for an extension to file my brief. It was due Friday but she asked to file Monday. My ex has refused. I don't know who to be more upset with at this point. As I told my lawyer, we had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 03:18 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
The lawyers fees should be hers, and hers alone....

The lawyers fees should be hers, and hers alone. If she thinks I'm paying, there's no incentive to economize on these from her perspective. Furthermore, as of the date of separation, assets are to be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 02:37 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks for the advice. I'm a little calmer now....

Thanks for the advice. I'm a little calmer now. My lawyer said, and I agree, that my ex is living in the past. The judge doesn't care about all the shitty things we did to each other, as long as they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 01:59 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
An update on this . . . I received my ex's...

An update on this . . . I received my ex's settlement conference brief last week. My lawyer said it was over an inch thick and so only sent me the relevant parts (at least what she considered to be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2012, 01:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 813
Posted By AlienatedDad
I would tend to agree. The problem is that these...

I would tend to agree. The problem is that these things were given over a number of years and so it's hard to determine. I certainly don't want anything from her side of the family, I wish she would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2012, 11:00 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 813
Posted By AlienatedDad
Morals are sorry lacking in this case I'm afraid.

Morals are sorry lacking in this case I'm afraid.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-15-2012, 04:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 813
Posted By AlienatedDad
Oh yeah, she wants to keep everything from my...

Oh yeah, she wants to keep everything from my side. She claims that some of these were given to her as gifts (which may be true, but I'd still like them back). Others were given to "us" or me. She's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-15-2012, 12:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 813
Posted By AlienatedDad
Family Heirlooms

Anyone know how family law treats these? I am of the opinion that I should be able to keep family heirlooms from my side of the family and she should keep the ones from her side of the family.
Forum: Divorce Support 11-15-2012, 11:42 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,346
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks. I did this and nothing came up for my...

Thanks. I did this and nothing came up for my current lawyer. Putting other known names in their brought up a lot of cases. I guess I can assume that she has never been to trial. Is this correct?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2012, 02:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 989
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks. But doesn't this assume that I will stay...

Thanks. But doesn't this assume that I will stay at my current job and collect the DB pension benefits according to the actuary's assumptions? If I quit my job, the value of the pension is what I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2012, 01:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 734
Posted By AlienatedDad
Parental mediator . . .

Can a parental mediator be ordered by the court?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2012, 01:49 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 989
Posted By AlienatedDad
Pension valuation

Hello all,

I have a question and I couldn't seem to find the answer on these forums (at least the little bit of digging I did).

Just curious as to how defined-benefit pension plans are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2012, 11:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,537
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks. Looked at a few of these. They really...

Thanks. Looked at a few of these. They really don't say a whole lot, other than the judge agrees with this or that aspect of Weinberger's report, that he has been retained by the parties, etc. Will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2012, 11:54 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,537
Posted By AlienatedDad
Dr Alex Weinberger -- custody evaluator

I have searched the forum, but have not been able to find anything on Dr Weinberger.

Does anyone have experience with him doing a custody evaluation? I would like to hear the good, the bad, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2012, 12:11 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
I was forced to live in the same house with her....

I was forced to live in the same house with her. I did my best to try to come to some sort of arrangement where we share the house, or at the very least would spend alternating evenings away from...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-06-2012, 10:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,346
Posted By AlienatedDad
Thanks. I checked it out, but couldn't seem to...

Thanks. I checked it out, but couldn't seem to search by lawyer. Is there a trick?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2012, 10:54 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,356
Posted By AlienatedDad
I agree. I know people aren't always well behaved...

I agree. I know people aren't always well behaved during a divorce, but she makes up her own reality. I can hardly wait to see the motives she come up to justify her actions. I had access to her...
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