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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 83
Posted By tilt
I highly recommend Gary Direnfeld.

I highly recommend Gary Direnfeld.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2020, 08:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 207
Posted By tilt
No, the court order says the YMCA (and usually...

No, the court order says the YMCA (and usually has the address), you can’t unilaterally change it any more than the other party can. It isn’t contempt to follow the Order. If it isn’t a mutual change...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-14-2020, 08:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 295
Posted By tilt
You make a chart: First row: year (eg 2017) ...

You make a chart:

First row: year (eg 2017)
Second row: income from NOA (eg $75,000)
Third row: monthly Child support due (get the amount from the Child support tables)
Fourth row: yearly child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2020, 02:06 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 744
Posted By tilt
I disagree with those above that he should get...

I disagree with those above that he should get 50/50. Keep documenting what is happening. Boys tend to bond with their fathers and it sounds like there is some toxic masculinity being thrown in there...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-09-2020, 11:05 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 272
Posted By tilt
There was a decision today that found a parent in...

There was a decision today that found a parent in contempt of court for overholding a child past the agreed dates in the separation agreement/order. It appears it was their first time violating th...
Forum: General Chat 09-07-2020, 04:12 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 122
Posted By tilt
Non-urgent court dates were scheduled back in...

Non-urgent court dates were scheduled back in July in my courthouse. A limited number, but according to the daily trial list, less then 50% of available slots are being used. I know the court is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2020, 04:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,005
Posted By tilt
Yes, but ONLY if it is a major issue AND you have...

Yes, but ONLY if it is a major issue AND you have already discussed it in writing with the other side and they have been unreasonable.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2020, 07:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,005
Posted By tilt
When you ask for Orders, you list the one you...

When you ask for Orders, you list the one you want most at the top and for the others you can preface them with “In the alternative” for your second/third choice Orders. You can also, at the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2020, 11:34 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 463
Posted By tilt
That maternity leave may affect their career,...

That maternity leave may affect their career, definitely affected their retirement as their CPP and any private pension was unfunded for a year, and may entitle them to spousal support, especially if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2020, 12:12 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 149
Posted By tilt
As quoted in the recent Chase v Chase, York...

As quoted in the recent Chase v Chase, York (Newmarket) is one of the busiest Family Law court in Canada. I believe Toronto has more resources and would have a faster turnaround. (Source:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2020, 12:03 AM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,411
Posted By tilt
Court records are public. You can get copies of...

Court records are public. You can get copies of his other file, including affidavits and his filed financial statements, as far as I am aware. You can also ask his ex to commission an affidavit for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-01-2020, 11:53 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 463
Posted By tilt
To clarify, neither parent took parental leave? ...

To clarify, neither parent took parental leave? The child was in childcare right after birth (and, assuming this was a natural pregnancy, the birth parent went back to work the day after giving...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-30-2020, 11:01 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 2,411
Posted By tilt
From everything you have written, you need a new...

From everything you have written, you need a new lawyer. This one is not meshing with you and you have spent too much time and money going no where. 2.5 years and not even having a case conference...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2020, 03:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 295
Posted By tilt
The tax year is Jan-Dec, regardless of when you...

The tax year is Jan-Dec, regardless of when you got the NOA. So you can calculate the monthly amount for Jan-Feb in 2019 based on that NOA.

From Nov 2016 to September 2017, use your 2016 NOA to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2020, 08:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 295
Posted By tilt
Make a table with five columns: Year ......

Make a table with five columns:

Year ... income ... amount actually paid ... Table amount ... difference/arrears
2019 ....$106,000 .... $1,000 x 12 = $12,000 ... $1,545 x 12 = $18,540 ...$6,544
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2020, 02:41 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 930
Posted By tilt
According to the notice, you need to make a case...

According to the notice, you need to make a case for why you need the motion BEFORE you file the motion:

"A party which proposes that a more complex motion should be heard shall provide a notice...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2020, 02:28 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 463
Posted By tilt
You would also be looking for the term "inputting...

You would also be looking for the term "inputting income" "inputted income". Usually in the context of CS but I have seen it for SS as well. Basically the judge detiremines that they could be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2020, 11:42 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 930
Posted By tilt
Did you read the notice to the profession? It is...

Did you read the notice to the profession? It is pretty clear language and filing is simply a matter of emailing the correct documents labeled correctly. I didnt take a deep look at the Notice but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2020, 11:22 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 463
Posted By tilt
Its really hard to get accurate advice on SS...

Its really hard to get accurate advice on SS because judges do really look at each case individually. It isnt really looked at for relationships (Cohab+ Marriage) of less than five years. So a six...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-26-2020, 12:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 649
Posted By tilt
Send the papers with a florist, lol. Shell be so...

Send the papers with a florist, lol. Shell be so curious who is sending her a huge arrangement she will open the door. The papers can be discreetly placed in the arrangement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 10:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 120
Posted By tilt
The dates of service/filing count back from the...

The dates of service/filing count back from the actual appearance date of a 14 motion. So you arent out of time. If it was a 14b motion from the other side (which are not heard in person), then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2020, 06:43 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 288
Posted By tilt
That case involved having the child around a...

That case involved having the child around a large number of people indoors while the provincial regulations were still limiting contacts. If the cottage trip had been just the father and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2020, 06:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 293
Posted By tilt
I agree. But that is also throwingbthe kid under...

I agree. But that is also throwingbthe kid under the bus as the other parent will interrogate the child about the rule-breaking. Can you get into co-parenting counselling (ideally) or, a poor...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2020, 06:08 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 614
Posted By tilt
If she never worked then she had no access to...

If she never worked then she had no access to money. Her not working is considered a joint decision since they didnt seperate as soon as she was not working. So paying the property bills out of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2020, 03:55 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,000
Posted By tilt
Even if you aren't being emotional - he is...

Even if you aren't being emotional - he is perceiving you as being emotional and gets a little thrill thinking he is in control. That is why he wants to have all this contact with you, toying with...
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