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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 01:45 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
Well her original question was about a limit on...

Well her original question was about a limit on an equalization application so I have a feeling there was a date and she continues to drag her feet and now wants to delay further.
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 01:32 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
It depends on what is in the agreement. If you...

It depends on what is in the agreement. If you havent followed it or it didnt involve the sale of the house, he can still do that. Or if he needs disclosure for calculations and you wont provide...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 01:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
You need to provide your disclosure. He provided...

You need to provide your disclosure. He provided what he was obligated to give you and you failed to provide yours. He is well within his rights to say not until you pony up everything. Quit stalling...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 12:02 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
Except trueblue doesnt want things to change. She...

Except trueblue doesnt want things to change. She wants to stay in the house with her ex paying for everything. He wants to sell and get on with his life. She already goes in without clean hands!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:11 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 130
Posted By rockscan
Theres three things here 1. Judges work...

Theres three things here

1. Judges work the government. The government run schools. A judge is not going to say one school is better than the one his boss runs.

2. Sole decision making is not...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2022, 11:35 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
Is anything you asked for an obligation? Because...

Is anything you asked for an obligation? Because if he isnt legally obligated to provide it, he doesnt have to. What you want isnt necessarily what the court expects.

Also, two wrongs dont...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2022, 11:23 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 185
Posted By rockscan
Well if you arent providing disclosure and being...

Well if you arent providing disclosure and being unreasonable you are probably not going to get extended.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2022, 07:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 130
Posted By rockscan
Did the judge give a set reason why they said no?...

Did the judge give a set reason why they said no? That may give you a good idea.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2022, 10:29 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 264
Posted By rockscan
You wont. You have given her enough warning and...

You wont. You have given her enough warning and have it writing that you requested it. She would more than likely file with FRO and then you would need a court order to change it which you will...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2022, 08:07 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 102
Posted By rockscan
Its form 20 request for disclosure. When you...

Its form 20 request for disclosure.

When you send it you advise that you will file a motion for disclosure if he refuses to comply and you will seek a repayment of any overpayment of support plus...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2022, 04:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 264
Posted By rockscan
I agree some hills arent worth dying on. Clothes...

I agree some hills arent worth dying on. Clothes and school lunches are not the hill to die on. Medical and educational expenses are the hill to die on.

A lot of divorced kids arent lucky enough...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2022, 03:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 114
Posted By rockscan
In that case I would send an updated offer to...

In that case I would send an updated offer to settle with your motion response.

Also, never ever EVER communicate agreement of items under negotiation by text message. For gods sake always put...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2022, 02:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 114
Posted By rockscan
Do you have anything in writing where she agrees...

Do you have anything in writing where she agrees to things in the OCL report?

I would respond to the motion to adjourn and point out all the reasons why it needs to continue as scheduled or have...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2022, 08:42 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 97
Posted By rockscan
Can you get a letter from the mediator outlining...

Can you get a letter from the mediator outlining that due to a refusal by one party they cannot complete mediation and they are closing the file?
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-24-2022, 08:27 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,343
Posted By rockscan
I think its three years. Im sure the info is on...

I think its three years. Im sure the info is on the federal justice site.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-23-2022, 01:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 164
Posted By rockscan
I also want to note that not being notified is...

I also want to note that not being notified is irrelevant now. It happened. You would have received some notice for garnishment purposes and that should have triggered some action. Claiming ignorance...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-23-2022, 01:08 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 164
Posted By rockscan
Call FRO first (not FSO) and ask them about this....

Call FRO first (not FSO) and ask them about this. You will probably also need to file a motion to stop enforcement. But the first step is to understand how long this has been accruing and why. A lot...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2022, 12:14 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 256
Posted By rockscan
Technically they can force the kid to go and its...

Technically they can force the kid to go and its their job to do it BUT you cant force them to force the kid to go and taking it to court is a waste of money and resources. Unfortunately both the...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-22-2022, 10:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 164
Posted By rockscan
The case was filed with FRO when? Was there...

The case was filed with FRO when? Was there anything in your agreement about support stopping? Do you have proof you paid (cancelled cheques etc)?

Have you tried speaking to someone at FRO?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2022, 01:52 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 326
Posted By rockscan
My husbands ex had to pay him a second...

My husbands ex had to pay him a second equalization payment a few years after their divorce was finalized, funny when she took him back to court she wouldnt accept the amount he owed her, wanted it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2022, 08:20 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 234
Posted By rockscan
Tell him he can do it himself!!!

Tell him he can do it himself!!!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 11:49 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 326
Posted By rockscan
I mean ignore her bs. You will get adept at...

I mean ignore her bs. You will get adept at managing her and by ignoring her, it takes a lot of wind out of her sails.

If I had a dollar for all the times my husbands ex ignored items in their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2022, 10:37 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 326
Posted By rockscan
Bogdan, the problem is you are dealing with...

Bogdan, the problem is you are dealing with someone who lied and manipulated from the point of conception. She sees you as a bothersome thing she has to deal with and will continue to treat you that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2022, 03:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 326
Posted By rockscan
I have never seen anything similar to this. I...

I have never seen anything similar to this. I have seen cases where hundreds of thousands of dollars of costs have been awarded or cases where only minimal costs were awarded. I believe the judge...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 01:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 234
Posted By rockscan
Youre in a no win situation. If you tell him no...

Youre in a no win situation. If you tell him no the kids will be mad. If you dont tell him no, he will keep doing it. So your big decision is be mad yourself or make your kids mad.

It was...
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