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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 03:00 PM
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Posted By Underdog
Thank you Nadia

Thank you Nadia
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 10:21 AM
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Posted By Underdog
Sorry Blink for taking my frustrations out on...

Sorry Blink for taking my frustrations out on you... Must admit though... It's helping me de-stress...

I suggest we end the hostilities so I can finish my breakfast and you finish maintenance on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 09:47 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
I see you ladies are all over that comment... But...

I see you ladies are all over that comment... But completely ignore what brought me to this conclusion...
Very familiar reasoning process.... You and my ex should get together and form a club.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 09:38 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
Geeez Blink... You should get tested for ADD... ...

Geeez Blink... You should get tested for ADD...

You just used "Committed Parent" in a sarcastic way in your last posting... I was leveraging that to make a point...

Your inability to pick up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 09:22 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
It's amazing how people like my ex (and I'm sure...

It's amazing how people like my ex (and I'm sure you are capable of inflicting similar damage, Blink) can take a loving caring father and turn him into a "Committed Parent..."
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2010, 08:11 AM
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Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
Tugofwar - There are as many permutations to the...

Tugofwar - There are as many permutations to the act of separation/divorce as there are people. Every story is different.

Frankly, I'm starting to think that this whole fight is a big waste of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 10:27 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
True... Now I'm trying to approach it from the...

True... Now I'm trying to approach it from the Daycare angle.

I know you are probably a good mother and trying to see my ex's actions from that perspective. But a lot of what she is doing is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 10:01 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
She said she was quitting her job and moving with...

She said she was quitting her job and moving with her parents because of the support they will give her in raising our daughter.

I could have easily provided that support.

I see my daughter...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 08:11 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 5,989
Posted By Underdog
Hello NBDad and tugofwar, My daughter is...

Hello NBDad and tugofwar,

My daughter is in that daycare since Jun 21st.

Ex quit her high paying job and now working only 3 days a week, and she takes care of our daughter the rest of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 01:07 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
I'm still in the process of formulating my...

I'm still in the process of formulating my application and motion. Going to court tomorrow to speak to duty councel.

Can I file an unfinished application to get a court date then update it once...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 12:54 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
I have plenty of evidence that I'm not in any way...

I have plenty of evidence that I'm not in any way shape or form able to gain employment with previous salary. And there is her admission that she quit her job and currently working for peanuts. All...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2010, 12:17 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
Blink - I also can not find backing to your...

Blink - I also can not find backing to your argument in all the case law and other commentary that I read so far, about a parent intentionally underemployed being given the thumbs up from the judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 11:09 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
My story never changed... I have 6 hours / wk...

My story never changed... I have 6 hours / wk today.

But I'm planning to ask the court to allow me to take care of the child while ex is working - it was suggested that this is close to 40/60 in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 10:08 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
Ok Blinkandimgone... I have a feeling that what...

Ok Blinkandimgone... I have a feeling that what you just described is going to be my ex's argument in court.

Her last correspondence noted that she wants Sole Custody and to keep my visits...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 09:53 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
EI pointed me to an organization called VPI that...

EI pointed me to an organization called VPI that provides funding for retraining in Oakville.
Not only that they rejected my application (as well as many others) due to lack of funding. They also...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 09:38 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
Ok.. I do pay child support based on my EI...

Ok..

I do pay child support based on my EI benefits, and ex is asking me to pay for half of daycare expenses.

Ex keeps her cards close to the chest but did say once in mediation that she is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 06:59 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
She quit her job and moved in with her parents 2...

She quit her job and moved in with her parents 2 hours away - To be close to her parents - That's the only thing close to a reason that I got from her. I bet she will have a reason that I will only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 05:17 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
I'm sure she will NBDad... The only...

I'm sure she will NBDad...

The only difference is that I lost my job before separation, sent out 100+ resumes without success and now having to retrain to get a job.

And she quit hers.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 01:57 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
Yes I understand that very well. I have a...

Yes I understand that very well.

I have a whole argument prepared based on child development experts opinions, new trends quoted from case law and both parties history as parents.

However,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 12:50 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
Thank you Mess, So you are saying that I...

Thank you Mess,

So you are saying that I should leave my requests for orders in section A of the application on a higher level... More general in nature.

Child Support - Order to offset Child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 11:40 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
You are correct dadtotheend... It stands at...

You are correct dadtotheend... It stands at 36/64. (60 hours a week)

and yes my NDI was off...

Should I go for Shared parenting then ? (Is there a primary residence in shared parenting) ?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 11:35 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
hmmm.... I read about this a bit... ONdad...

hmmm.... I read about this a bit...

ONdad - So you're saying that because I don't have primary residence that the proper calculation will be as follows:

$75,000 - withheld income tax, CPP EI...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 11:14 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
I found this regarding NDI : Family Law...

I found this regarding NDI :
Family Law Toronto :: Family Law - Spousal Support :: www.familylawtoronto.com (http://www.familylawtoronto.ca/spousal_support.html)

WITH CHILD SUPPORT
The With...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 10:57 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
We were together for 10 years. How do you...

We were together for 10 years.

How do you calculate NDI (Net Disposable Income) ?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2010, 10:07 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,711
Posted By Underdog
My application: Custody: Joint with primary...

My application:

Custody: Joint with primary residence with the ex

Access: ex will leave our child with me during her work hours (3days a week) + visitation on alternate weekends. (Saving her...
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