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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2020, 04:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,348
Posted By mom22girls
My experience hasnt been great. My lawyer...

My experience hasnt been great. My lawyer recommended one strongly, and I listened to her.

My ex calls her 15-16 times a month over little issues. She splits the bill 50/50 despite having the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2019, 09:13 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,454
Posted By mom22girls
I agree. My kids are allowed to take anything...

I agree. My kids are allowed to take anything they own freely to the other parents. We try to get stuff back, but it doesnt always happen.

I get around this with electronics, by not giving...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-31-2019, 10:30 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,306
Posted By mom22girls
I think any advice is going to be industry...

I think any advice is going to be industry specific.

I work shift work, and therefore work every weekend I dont have kids, freeing one weekday a week from work. I use that day to get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2019, 10:29 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,645
Posted By mom22girls
I was told that over the counter medications that...

I was told that over the counter medications that we routinely used pre-separation dont need consent.

For joint custody everything beyond that technically needs consent.

When the kids...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-28-2018, 08:12 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,876
Posted By mom22girls
Do you have any mutual friends still who could...

Do you have any mutual friends still who could casually mention the pup tent or bunk bed idea to dad?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-27-2018, 08:38 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,876
Posted By mom22girls
I dont think youre overreacting. Its too bad...

I dont think youre overreacting. Its too bad DS4 couldnt have a blow up mattress on the floor, or something.

I wouldnt want any step-parent of the opposite sex changing in front of my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2018, 08:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 998
Posted By mom22girls
It is more stable to have a fixed schedule like...

It is more stable to have a fixed schedule like 2-2-3 or 2-2-5-5 than to pick random days. It will also lead to less fights in the future.

I know several shift workers that have been able to...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 04:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,726
Posted By mom22girls
I have 50/50 and no child support paid. We...

I have 50/50 and no child support paid.

We each receive 50% of what we would have based on household income. They audited and we had to prove we had 50/50- each parent had to provide proof...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2018, 11:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,977
Posted By mom22girls
It could go either way, but Id consider it...

It could go either way, but Id consider it extraordinary. Getting someone who can handle an autistic four year old, with a car, isnt going to be cheap. Lets say you pay them $20 an hour, two...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2018, 06:50 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,439
Posted By mom22girls
I know a teenage babysitter isnt an option due...

I know a teenage babysitter isnt an option due to special needs, but Im thinking a teenage Grandmas helper would count, especially if Grandma is getting older and is struggling to keep up. That...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2018, 06:13 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,439
Posted By mom22girls
You CAN pay Grandma, but I dont think it would...

You CAN pay Grandma, but I dont think it would count as a section seven expense, especially if shes been doing it for free in the past.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2018, 08:30 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,232
Posted By mom22girls
[QUOTE=Dxhound;231701] I have gone thru...

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I have gone thru the Separation Agreement and the Court order and nowhere can I find or get clarification on this matter, nor does it state anywhere that I am on the hook...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-02-2018, 08:07 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,201
Posted By mom22girls
Heres how I read it: He claimed that mom had a...

Heres how I read it: He claimed that mom had a lower standard of living than him, so his wifes income, as well as his daycare costs etc were included in that calculation.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2018, 12:27 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,057
Posted By mom22girls
52% success rate is NOT high. If you lose youve...

52% success rate is NOT high. If you lose youve basically gotten yourself into a hole you cant climb out of.

If you cant afford to buy the house from him, thats a pretty good indication you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 08:48 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,057
Posted By mom22girls
Are you sure your lawyer isnt taking you for a...

Are you sure your lawyer isnt taking you for a ride? $20,000 seems like it might not cover a mobility trial. And no lawyer can guarantee that youll win. How long were you married for? SS is no...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-26-2018, 09:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,503
Posted By mom22girls
Kids events, we both go and pretend that the...

Kids events, we both go and pretend that the other isnt there. Its better than fighting, so its the best I can do for now.

We celebrate kids birthdays separately, celebrations are frequently...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-26-2018, 01:28 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,522
Posted By mom22girls
If youve hit the point where youre arguing over...

If youve hit the point where youre arguing over a $100 tax benefit counting or not, its time to stop and give your head a shake. $100 of income in either direction is only going to have a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2018, 07:33 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,750
Posted By mom22girls
If they do 2-2-3 or 2-2-5-5, Grandma would only...

If they do 2-2-3 or 2-2-5-5, Grandma would only be doing two nights a week. Thats completely reasonable if shes nearby and willing to do it. Depending on hours, he could still put them to bed and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2018, 07:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,750
Posted By mom22girls
Theres a lot of variables here - how old are the...

Theres a lot of variables here - how old are the kids, are they frequently up at night, what are the hours of his night shift, is his mom willing to come over to his place, or if he has to drop them...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-16-2018, 12:42 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,057
Posted By mom22girls
Photocopy everything you can get your hands on. ...

Photocopy everything you can get your hands on. Income tax statements, bank account statements, car loan agreements etc. Even if you think its not a big deal now, if its paper, photocopy. Keep...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2018, 07:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,004
Posted By mom22girls
In Ontario, you need to be served notice. Is it...

In Ontario, you need to be served notice. Is it possible the relative was mistaken?


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Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2018, 07:34 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,098
Posted By mom22girls
IMO you should both have health benefits, if...

IMO you should both have health benefits, if available, or if one pays but not the other the cost should be split as a section 7 expense. But, whats done is done. Now that youve got a separation...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 04:58 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,498
Posted By mom22girls
Its possible if the steps married or common law...

Its possible if the steps married or common law and have family plans.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 09:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,380
Posted By mom22girls
To get the proceeds of the house without a full...

To get the proceeds of the house without a full separation agreement signed, my ex and I signed off on the money details of the separation agreement and took it to the real estate lawyer. I was told...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 05:23 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,826
Posted By mom22girls
You may never actually figure out what shes...

You may never actually figure out what shes currently actually making. Id focus on imputing an income, since clearly shes able to stand, set up, take down etc herself, so not disabled. Minimum...
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