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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-29-2022, 01:45 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 589
Posted By rockscan
Stop letting him hold you hostage. You have an...

Stop letting him hold you hostage. You have an order for him to have supervised visits for a specific time. You tell him to set up the time with the supervisor in accordance with the order and you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-29-2022, 12:26 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 589
Posted By rockscan
If he wont give you 48 hours notice then go out...

If he wont give you 48 hours notice then go out with the child. Get an email program that shows he read the message. Tell him you will not be responding to text messages any further. He can email...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-29-2022, 11:48 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 589
Posted By rockscan
But hovering is still interfering. Hes had his...

But hovering is still interfering. Hes had his opportunities for his five visits and he refused them. So from now on you tell him he needs to make an appointment with the supervisory for the time...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2022, 10:52 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
Use the highest one. Attach it as your document...

Use the highest one. Attach it as your document as well as your proof you said you have. Make an offer to settle in the mid range.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2022, 09:51 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
The amount of lies people put in affidavits would...

The amount of lies people put in affidavits would keep a court busy for centuries. And judges know it. Not to mention that many people focus more on being morally right rather than just getting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-28-2022, 06:51 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 589
Posted By rockscan
I would think if you were sending your child off...

I would think if you were sending your child off for an outdoor visit at noon you would prep the child including feeding it and putting sun screen on.

Theres also this battle between not wanting...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2022, 11:59 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
Having her punished for lying is a waste of time...

Having her punished for lying is a waste of time and money.

I believe you could file a motion to update child support (and spousal if permitted) and provide the income information as proof to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2022, 09:20 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
And thats what you can use as well. If she is...

And thats what you can use as well. If she is telling credit card companies her income is that high then she is lying and you can dispute her claims she needs more spousal.

Child support is based...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2022, 07:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
It depends on your proof and how you approach it....

It depends on your proof and how you approach it.

Plus, if she applied for a loan or credit, that application would show what she claimed her income was.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2022, 10:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 251
Posted By rockscan
You wont get your legal fees back I believe. But...

You wont get your legal fees back I believe. But you could request full disclosure including bank statements and credit applications to show cash deposits as well as what she was claiming her...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2022, 06:22 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 84
Posted By rockscan
So sport number one has increased significantly...

So sport number one has increased significantly which poses a problem for you both. Did you express your concerns with it when she approached you? Have you expressed concerns to her now? Are the kids...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2022, 05:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 84
Posted By rockscan
Did you give then written permission to incur the...

Did you give then written permission to incur the expense before they signed them up? If the answer is no then you dont pay. If you werent putting them in all these activities before separation...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2022, 05:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 57
Posted By rockscan
And request costs.

And request costs.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2022, 02:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
Then youre sort of good! I feel for your...

Then youre sort of good!

I feel for your kids. It isnt easy living in a toxic home with a parent like that. I wish you all the luck!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2022, 12:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
I dont think the police will get involved as he...

I dont think the police will get involved as he is old enough. If she called them they would tell her that and not get involved.

You will still need an order to update child support especially if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2022, 11:22 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
There is a lot to this decision and you need to...

There is a lot to this decision and you need to be prepared to deal with the blowback from your ex. Yes your son is old enough to decide but your ex may put up a fight. Regardless of what you do or...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2022, 08:34 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 207
Posted By rockscan
I did answer your questions, you didnt like the...

I did answer your questions, you didnt like the answers.

When it comes to family law the child is the most important thing. Your family home means nothing to the court. There have been fathers on...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-26-2022, 04:01 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 67
Posted By rockscan
Your ex could argue to have an income imputed. Or...

Your ex could argue to have an income imputed. Or that it is temporary and expected to go back to normal.

The courts dont have much sympathy for the paying parent having anything but full...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-26-2022, 04:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 197
Posted By rockscan
You are looking at it from a January to December...

You are looking at it from a January to December payment plan but it is not. It is a July to June plan. And because you use line 150, it is considered income for all of 2020 paid beginning in July...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-26-2022, 03:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 207
Posted By rockscan
Why should he pay rent when you can pay child...

Why should he pay rent when you can pay child support?

But its not income, its you paying him what you should be paying his mother. Previously you said you dont want to be paying another mans...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-26-2022, 11:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 207
Posted By rockscan
They say that but it doesnt happen. If he is in...

They say that but it doesnt happen. If he is in school full time then he is considered a child of majority. Any additional money you give him is considered a gift in the courts eyes. You still need...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-26-2022, 11:10 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 197
Posted By rockscan
Ontario child support tables. Which tax year's income?

I did answer your question but I will say your confusion over the science (if you will) of the tables is not yours alone. Many people have had the same type of wondering over it and unhappiness...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2022, 10:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 197
Posted By rockscan
Youre already paying an amount of child support...

Youre already paying an amount of child support that was determined the previous year. You update at the same time each year. So you pay each year accordingly. Regardless of how much you made in...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2022, 09:36 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 197
Posted By rockscan
No because you are paying based on the previous...

No because you are paying based on the previous years income. It equals out by December. Thats how the tables work. Regardless of whether you earned the most money in the end of the year or not, you...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2022, 09:34 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 207
Posted By rockscan
Your logic and the laws logic appear to be two...

Your logic and the laws logic appear to be two different things. As long as your son is in school full time he is a child of the marriage and as that, your ex is responsible for his care. He...
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