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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2016, 03:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,057
Posted By concerneddad32
the order states "7. Section 7 expenses for the...

the order states "7. Section 7 expenses for the children shall be consented to prior to being incurred and consent shall not be unreasonably withheld. Advance notice of 30 days requesting any...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2016, 03:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,057
Posted By concerneddad32
how do I determine how much tax benefit needs to...

how do I determine how much tax benefit needs to be deducted, because part of my order is that I am to pay ANY daycare and physical activities directly to the provider in order to use it for tax...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2016, 12:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,057
Posted By concerneddad32
FRO - arrears

So my ex pulled a great one this week!
I received a letter from FRO with a $4000+ in arrears in extra ordinary expenses.
So I am up to date paying an extra $200+ a month in child support, with a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-18-2015, 10:59 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 665
Posted By concerneddad32
stopping proceedings

I am the applicant on a process which we have a temporary order for. I have dropped my lawyer and now wish to stop this proceedings, is this possible without going to Trial?
I am now self...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-30-2015, 09:15 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,311
Posted By concerneddad32
I have offered to meet both on the Friday and...

I have offered to meet both on the Friday and Sunday half way and she refuses to do any driving!
I was also willing previously to give up the $60,000 in question for the transportation issue to be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2015, 02:49 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,311
Posted By concerneddad32
There was nothing in our separation agreement as...

There was nothing in our separation agreement as to moving or transportation. And I did refuse to return the kids and made her come pick them up and every visit after that she refused me access...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2015, 02:35 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,311
Posted By concerneddad32
When I moved the 85kms away I did 100% of the...

When I moved the 85kms away I did 100% of the driving and didn't question that I should. However when my STBX decided (without my permission or consent) she refused to do the driving, so I have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2015, 01:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,311
Posted By concerneddad32
opinions - Re transportation

Well had a Case Conference this week, and still have limited results of course! I did get Spousal support taken off her list of "musts" but she still is not willing to do any transportation!
So...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2015, 02:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 992
Posted By concerneddad32
Yes I actually just have a pin, not a case number...

Yes I actually just have a pin, not a case number as of yet. So I am waiting on that, however she has post dated cheques, so that concerns me as I don't want double payments taken, or i won't be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2015, 01:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 992
Posted By concerneddad32
I started the Application, so I am waiting for...

I started the Application, so I am waiting for responses etc to proceed, and her to supply her financials. I am doing everything with due dilligence. My only mistake is thinking the good of someone...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2015, 10:36 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 992
Posted By concerneddad32
FRO - involvement

Hi there,
If it isn't something from my STBX it's another. So I did my review with CAS and it went smoothly, she claimed physical abuse from one incident back in December, also claimed I shouldn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 01:46 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
Thanks again for the positive support!

Thanks again for the positive support!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 11:41 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
Thanks Rockscan, I am truly trying to do that....

Thanks Rockscan, I am truly trying to do that. and the end of this and good over coming bad is what keeps me going. I also come from a split family, but I never knew of my parents battles (and they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 10:46 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
Thank you all for your advise, this is all so new...

Thank you all for your advise, this is all so new it's good to have tips, I had trusted her previously but that is not out the window, I will start taking a witness with me, even if it's just my step...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 10:42 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
it's taking everything in my being to keep calm...

it's taking everything in my being to keep calm but I have been! we will take it one step at a time for sure!
I just hope a judge sees what she is doing and it's def not in the best interest of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 09:04 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
My problem with the lack of police involvement,...

My problem with the lack of police involvement, is that my kids could have been taken by my STBX, since she was not home not answer phones, basically MIA and that was ok because she is has primary...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2015, 07:27 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
So my lawyer send her lawyer a letter asking for...

So my lawyer send her lawyer a letter asking for the contact info for the case investigator, if we dont have that today i will ne calling myself! My kids talked to me last night like normal, so i...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2015, 04:29 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
I am not sure if you are being sarcastic, it is...

I am not sure if you are being sarcastic, it is new for me. Not sure if it happens often, I certainly hope not!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2015, 03:17 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
They have no contacted me, this came in an email...

They have no contacted me, this came in an email from her lawyer to my lawyer, I am new to all of this and very distraught. My kids are my world and I missed last weekend with them and don't want to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2015, 03:05 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
No, I drove down to pick up the kids for my...

No, I drove down to pick up the kids for my scheduled access and she was not there, would not answer the phone, respond explaining where she was, I didn't know where she was if she had taken off with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2015, 02:57 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,649
Posted By concerneddad32
CAS investigation

Well I have had to break down and hire a lawyer, my STBX backed out of Mediation (shocker NOT) So my lawyer has advised me that we need to get an Order, which we have begun. After getting wind of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2015, 05:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 899
Posted By concerneddad32
She is telling me I can not pick them up on...

She is telling me I can not pick them up on Friday morning. She hasn't done it yet, but she is claiming she will. It's a 3 hour drive to pick up my kids and 3 hours back so when I can't there I do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2015, 04:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 899
Posted By concerneddad32
Access Denied!

I am curious, previously I have posted about transportation issues. So my past access I picked up the kids (as stated in the current agreement) but send my soon to be ex emails saying you can pick...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2015, 09:25 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 739
Posted By concerneddad32
what if access is refused

I posted previously about my soo to be ex wife and I disputing transportation. I have a visitation coming up this weekend, she is refusing to bring them to the current pick up and drop off point,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-26-2015, 05:49 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,842
Posted By concerneddad32
She moved, and I have asked to pick them up...

She moved, and I have asked to pick them up friday from their house and she pick up at my place on sunday and she still is not agreeable.
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