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Forum: General Chat 08-21-2016, 03:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 586
Posted By Janibel
Take good care of yourself and those lovely...

Take good care of yourself and those lovely children you created together. My prayers are with you (((HUGS)))
Forum: General Chat 05-18-2016, 01:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 618
Posted By Janibel
Nah, mary-jane, ice cappuccino and my pets .......

Nah, mary-jane, ice cappuccino and my pets .... that's my secret to a long and happy life. Seriously.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-12-2016, 09:00 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,454
Posted By Janibel
If ever you do, I'll buy a copy for sure! I...

If ever you do, I'll buy a copy for sure!

I agree that it is satisfying to beat the system. The crown prosecutor for my criminal litigation hardly said a word - it was my testimony, photos,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2016, 12:16 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,404
Posted By Janibel
Even adult children of divorce have a hard time...

Even adult children of divorce have a hard time processing this sort of thing. It's been proven by countless studies (no, I don't have case law or web sites to back my claim, go find it yourselves...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2016, 04:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 521
Posted By Janibel
How about I tell you what you should not do? ...

How about I tell you what you should not do?

Don't leave the house, live in the basement or move into a separate room if you must, as once you leave she can claim exclusive possession of the home....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2016, 04:17 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,404
Posted By Janibel
If anything I would think that the one presenting...

If anything I would think that the one presenting 'intimate' content before a judge only discredits him/herself in the process. This sort of crude evidence should not even be allowed in court unless...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2016, 10:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 568
Posted By Janibel
The best way to react to this blackmail (that's...

The best way to react to this blackmail (that's what this sounds like) is to ignore her as much as possible. Never give in to emotional extortion.

She knows you well enough to use whatever...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2016, 04:16 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 746
Posted By Janibel
Stripes, I was going to PM you and then thought...

Stripes, I was going to PM you and then thought that my story might help somebody out there ... as I wrote above, Al-Anon did do me good as a teenager dealing with an alcoholic father - yet it wasn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2016, 11:21 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 746
Posted By Janibel
Well, it's like you said yourself, bills were...

Well, it's like you said yourself, bills were paid, house was relatively clean, no abuse etc. My father was a hard worker and took care of business, most alcoholics can be very charming and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2016, 09:55 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 746
Posted By Janibel
Al-Anon can be very useful for the family of an...

Al-Anon can be very useful for the family of an alcoholic, if not for the great coping advice, for the sense of community. It helps a lot to know that others have been through the same ordeal.

My...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2016, 05:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 746
Posted By Janibel
Speaking from experience, it is a life-long...

Speaking from experience, it is a life-long commitment for the alcoholic. My ex joined AA several times over the years and each time fell off the wagon after a few weeks of 'soberdom'.

Your friend...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-29-2016, 02:43 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 3,970
Posted By Janibel
LF32, I have to give credit where credit is due....

LF32, I have to give credit where credit is due. Your Ex wife is an expert at getting under your skin, especially when it has to do with D4. Don't fall into her trap. Your anxiety is your ex's...
Forum: General Chat 03-29-2016, 02:30 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,056
Posted By Janibel
^^^ Exactly, your man seems to be stuck in this...

^^^ Exactly, your man seems to be stuck in this eternal cycle of being a victim. I'll bet it was how things were when he was married to her. Her and kids would lay on the "guilt-trip" and he would...
Forum: General Chat 03-27-2016, 07:53 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,056
Posted By Janibel
I wonder how much of this bad behavior is taught...

I wonder how much of this bad behavior is taught by the ex wife? By the sounds of it she has done of fine job of alienating his children against him. If she truly cared about her kids, she would not...
Forum: General Chat 03-27-2016, 12:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 633
Posted By Janibel
My ex seems to have a little of each type though...

My ex seems to have a little of each type though the menace would best qualify his behavior: "Although he is definitely a Bully, it's going to take more than your own Bully to bring this guy down. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2016, 10:12 AM
Replies: 90
Views: 5,906
Posted By Janibel
Well then your biggest problem is not the kids...

Well then your biggest problem is not the kids refusal but getting your Ex to follow what is court ordered - as suggested above, get the communication going with the ex, insisting on your court...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2016, 09:12 AM
Replies: 64
Views: 3,970
Posted By Janibel
132 Something like this? Uncommonly fresh!

132

Something like this? Uncommonly fresh!
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2016, 08:48 AM
Replies: 90
Views: 5,906
Posted By Janibel
Links and Tayken made a valid point and who said...

Links and Tayken made a valid point and who said anything about freeking DisneyLand? When my son was younger we hardly had enough for the basics.

Having a fun environment does not need a lot of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-24-2016, 04:46 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 3,970
Posted By Janibel
Weird weather we've been having lately - must be...

Weird weather we've been having lately - must be a full moon?

LF32, you're kid will do awesome in life, don't worry about the Ex. This is normal behavior for a 4 year old ... this too shall pass....
Forum: General Chat 03-14-2016, 05:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,858
Posted By Janibel
I've been in court enough times to witness...

I've been in court enough times to witness firsthand some more-than-borderline mental disorders ... involving certain lawyers!

As for my Ex, he's perfectly sane, real nice guy (when he's sober!!!)
Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2016, 11:21 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,246
Posted By Janibel
I have made him an offer to buy him out last year...

I have made him an offer to buy him out last year and at a better price than now (also we could have avoided real estate commission by doing so). I honestly feel that he's keeping me guessing out of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2016, 02:16 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,780
Posted By Janibel
For perjury and for contempt of court!!! What's...

For perjury and for contempt of court!!! What's the point in hammering out agreements that are unenforceable?:mad:
Forum: Financial Issues 03-04-2016, 11:48 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,246
Posted By Janibel
You guessed right. He pays off credit cards with...

You guessed right. He pays off credit cards with other credit cards and I'm certain that he owes quite a bit to his lawyers. As a couple, I was the frugal one who kept us out of debt.

Before the...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-04-2016, 10:04 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,246
Posted By Janibel
LMAO! Blink have you met my Ex? You are 100%...

LMAO! Blink have you met my Ex? You are 100% correct about his intentions. During the almost 3 years of negotiations he hired and fired 3 lawyers - the 4th actually quit on him and one mediator...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-03-2016, 09:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,246
Posted By Janibel
Yes I'm in Quebec and I feel the same way that...

Yes I'm in Quebec and I feel the same way that you do - how could the financials be re-negotiated on the listing price only? I mean we both agreed on a 'package-deal' if you will.

He wants to...
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