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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2022, 10:59 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
An update in the event that somebody with...

An update in the event that somebody with questions on this sort of situation comes across the thread.

Assessment is still ongoing, it only actually started 3 months ago, and the assessor figures...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 11:13 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Her and her lawyer have been trying to make me...

Her and her lawyer have been trying to make me give in to their demands by scaring me with how much family law costs. One of those scare tactics was to request that one of the most expensive...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2021, 11:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
In the end the EICC resulted in a consent order...

In the end the EICC resulted in a consent order for the kids to be able to see a psychologist and one parent cannot remove consent now. In addition the practice note 8 parenting assessment will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2021, 06:47 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Thanks for the input Clean, I appreciate it. ...

Thanks for the input Clean, I appreciate it.



That's the most amusing part of everything to me. The first thing her new lawyer did upon being retained is send me a letter stating that if I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-05-2021, 08:48 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Ah right I forgot to clarify that part. Along...

Ah right I forgot to clarify that part. Along with the settlement offer, her lawyer was unaware of the conference in June, and has since withdrawn the new application for docket court. I imagine...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-04-2021, 06:42 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Thanks for the input Arbortrail. Very nice to...

Thanks for the input Arbortrail. Very nice to read that the costs of the assessment had to be paid by the requestor. I hadn't had much chance to look into that aspect yet and had just assumed the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-04-2021, 01:37 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Offer to settle received now... Parenting...

Offer to settle received now...

Parenting assessment to be conducted at an estimated cost of 30,000 split both parties

Allow mother to move with children to Quebec. They were gracious enough...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-03-2021, 04:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Looks as though Rockscan was correct in the goals...

Looks as though Rockscan was correct in the goals here.

I was just CC'd by a new lawyers email to the Queens Bench filing a notice to attend docket court, for psychological care of the children,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 03:23 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
June date is for an 'Early Intervention Case...

June date is for an 'Early Intervention Case Conference', for their attempt at forcing me to attend counselling with her, or a parenting coordinator.


The counselling is just her seeking allies,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 12:43 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,131
Posted By Soiled
Drama never ends.

Background up until today:

2013 - Divorced

Nov 2019 - Then 9 year old daughter starts seeing a psychologist for issues of self esteem and suicidal ideation.

Dec 2019 - Ex leaves the country...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 05:03 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 877
Posted By Soiled
Lawyer Professionalism

I've been receiving emails lately from my Ex's Lawyer which, to me at least, seem to be rather unprofessional. Do lawyers usually phrase things in a manner where it appears to be them making a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2021, 03:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 682
Posted By Soiled
I guess I was a bit unclear, by tens of thousands...

I guess I was a bit unclear, by tens of thousands of dollars I was referring to the 15+ lawyers present on this thing, each one likely charging their client a minimum of $300/hr. That's a lot of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2021, 03:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 682
Posted By Soiled
Well that was quite amazing. It's one heck of a...

Well that was quite amazing. It's one heck of a racket that lawyers have gotten themselves going on with this. 2 hours of sitting around waiting in virtual court, just to schedule... More court! The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2021, 11:07 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 682
Posted By Soiled
I've had that conversation in my own mind...

I've had that conversation in my own mind multiple times over the past few weeks, wondering what is going on in her head, thinking that a forced counseling session(s) would have any real...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2021, 05:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 682
Posted By Soiled
Docket Court this Week

So the last time I posted anything, my ex was wanting us to see a counsellor together, to the point that she used giving her consent back for our daughter to see her psychologist again as leverage on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2020, 12:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,322
Posted By Soiled
Only reason I am going to do the therapy is so...

Only reason I am going to do the therapy is so that my daughter can see her psychologist sooner rather than later after her parents lose a bunch of time and money to the court system. That will be if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2020, 03:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,322
Posted By Soiled
So just a quick update in the event anyone is...

So just a quick update in the event anyone is curious.

The ex's relationship with our daughter unsurprisingly took a sharp turn for the worse with all of this. They spent her week apparently...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2020, 10:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,322
Posted By Soiled
Thanks for the reply Tilt, a few things there I...

Thanks for the reply Tilt, a few things there I had not considered, such as the physician.

Divorce Judgement is pretty bare bones on this sort of issue, basically just states Joint Custody. As I,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-21-2020, 04:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,322
Posted By Soiled
Parental Consent & Psychologist

My daughter(10) has been seeing a psychologist for nearly a year now. The other week my Ex decided to cancel all of her upcoming appointments and withdrew her consent for our daughter to continue...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-28-2018, 09:32 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,760
Posted By Soiled
Yeah, pickups are somewhat simple, though playing...

Yeah, pickups are somewhat simple, though playing hardball while keeping up appearances of being reasonable is a difficult.

Pickups we have some 'power', but drop-offs are the real issue. If...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-28-2018, 05:02 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,760
Posted By Soiled
If only it were that easy for pickups. We've done...

If only it were that easy for pickups. We've done that in the past and still are, but it pretty much guarantee's he will be several hours late for the drop-off, I assume out of spite. Biggest issue...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-28-2018, 01:33 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,760
Posted By Soiled
Consistently Late - Available Options?

So over the years we've had a lot of 'fun' with my wifes ex and his inability to show up on time to pick their daughter, as well as being late for dropping her back off. He chose to move a few hours...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-04-2018, 02:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,984
Posted By Soiled
Dealing with the teenagers themselves, I have no...

Dealing with the teenagers themselves, I have no real experience to base any thoughts or suggestions on for you.

However, addictions and treatment/rehab, I have an unfortunate amount of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 05:49 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,264
Posted By Soiled
You've got one point in there that even has any...

You've got one point in there that even has any sort of relevance to the topic at hand, and you're playing what if games in it, nothing of value.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-21-2017, 02:50 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,264
Posted By Soiled
1 - Falls under the category of Nosy. Highly...

1 - Falls under the category of Nosy. Highly unlikely to change anything even if its a high crime rate area.

2 - That's just a convenience. Gifts can be given during your own time.

3 - Nosy,...
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