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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2021, 06:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 284
Posted By Janus
You are unlikely to maintain 100% of the...

You are unlikely to maintain 100% of the parenting time in a disputed custody situation. Parents can make parenting decisions during their parenting time, which would include whether it is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2021, 09:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 189
Posted By Janus
Legally of course you cannot force anything. ...

Legally of course you cannot force anything. The entire point of parenting time is that the other parent does not get to dictate what happens during that time.

That said, you could always...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-09-2021, 02:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 150
Posted By Janus
1) "Family courts are not biased against fathers"...

1) "Family courts are not biased against fathers"

2) A women's group thinks that it would be helpful to women to go to the supreme court to ensure more child support is paid.

One would think...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2021, 04:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,063
Posted By Janus
Don't forget to ask for costs.

Don't forget to ask for costs.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2021, 02:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 170
Posted By Janus
Same question as rockscan, how long has this been...

Same question as rockscan, how long has this been happening?

Given covid, I don't think that even 6 months is long enough. If you make too much noise now, your ex can reinstate the agreement...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2021, 02:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 354
Posted By Janus
Why are you against 50/50?

Why are you against 50/50?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 04:11 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,401
Posted By Janus
Not really. Anybody who does not have 50/50 and...

Not really. Anybody who does not have 50/50 and wants it must propose a gradual plan to get there. In the case of Donald here, that gradual is probably on the order of a year or two. He is...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2021, 02:37 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,081
Posted By Janus
Nothing I said contradicts this statement. ...

Nothing I said contradicts this statement.

Some disability income is tax free. Some disability income is not tax free. If you have disability income that is of the "tax free" variety, then...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-18-2021, 11:38 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,081
Posted By Janus
It depends, if the income is coming from an...

It depends, if the income is coming from an employer-provided benefit, then it is indeed taxable income.

If the income is coming from an insurance policy that you bought yourself, then it is tax...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-18-2021, 11:33 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,401
Posted By Janus
Honestly, I do not see you going from 8 hours to...

Honestly, I do not see you going from 8 hours to 50%. No matte what CAS says, or the cops say, or what almost anyone says... that kind of radical change almost never happens.

To be clear, I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2021, 11:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 215
Posted By Janus
It is unlikely that the schools would allow it. ...

It is unlikely that the schools would allow it. Either you are registered or you are not. If you are registered, and your child does not attend school half the time, the school will start...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2021, 08:18 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,260
Posted By Janus
I think we all understood that. If the mother...

I think we all understood that. If the mother consented to you having sole custody, then you would absolutely get it. However, the mother is clearly interested in maintaining custody, she is just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,260
Posted By Janus
I have a sneaking suspicion that this is the part...

I have a sneaking suspicion that this is the part that is really motivating you. You will certainly benefit from cutting off communication. Kids rarely benefit from losing a parent.



Have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 401
Posted By Janus
During parenting time, parents get to make...

During parenting time, parents get to make parenting decisions. One big decision is "who gets to see the kid". If the parent is trusted with parenting time, then they are trusted to make...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 06:46 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,045
Posted By Janus
Just a quick point that, as a general rule, you...

Just a quick point that, as a general rule, you should never respond to allegations raised by an ex's lawyer outside of court documents.

There is no possible reply that helps your case, but many...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 06:38 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 202
Posted By Janus
Why did it expire? Emphasis mine. ...

Why did it expire?



Emphasis mine.

An offer should not expire before the hearing starts if you want it to be considered for costs
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2021, 07:59 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,115
Posted By Janus
I do remember that one :) Fair enough,...

I do remember that one :)



Fair enough, I can agree with that.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2021, 09:55 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,115
Posted By Janus
Hard to prove that an anonymous username is tied...

Hard to prove that an anonymous username is tied to a specific person. I would just flat out deny it, and laugh at the my ex if she tried to claim that I was Janus.

Even if she knew I was, that's...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,081
Posted By Janus
Just sell the house. Then you do not have to...

Just sell the house. Then you do not have to worry about evaluation, because the market will evaluate it for you.



I think you have confused the terms "bad faith" and "Ex's lawyer is not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-21-2021, 08:09 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 6,890
Posted By Janus
1) I would stand firm on the driving, that's a...

1) I would stand firm on the driving, that's a major issue.
2) A judge might not sign off on the "no child support clause"
3) Timing seems fine

The important thing would be to ensure that you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 974
Posted By Janus
This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges...

This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges the jurisdiction of the court.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 06:00 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 974
Posted By Janus
I thought of that as well, the style certainly...

I thought of that as well, the style certainly reminded me of it. He was missing the arcane rituals though that seem necesary for it to be OPCA.

I think he just does not recognize that not all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,094
Posted By Janus
I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was...

I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was very sick today. You picked up [kid] today at 10am and refused to let her sleep in. I do not believe that this was in the best interest of [kid]. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:03 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,094
Posted By Janus
I just realized that I never responded to this. ...

I just realized that I never responded to this.

I think overall, my main thoughts are:

1) I cannot control my ex
2) I CAN control my reaction to my ex
3) The opinion of my ex is utterly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 07:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 312
Posted By Janus
The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they...

The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they feel will help their client.

If it rattles you and causes you to respond in a way that hurts your case, then that's a win for the lawyer.
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