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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 9
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Posted By cranberry
Tilt -- I had sole custody, awarded at birth, to...

Tilt -- I had sole custody, awarded at birth, to be reviewed when they turned five. I had no problem switching to 50-50 at that time. But, ex is high conflict and dicked around with my offers. He...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2021, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 354
Posted By cranberry
My ex lives 45 mins away on a good traffic day....

My ex lives 45 mins away on a good traffic day. Too many late arrivals at school to count. Virtual school has helped in that regard. I personally don't like it but that's for me to deal with. Your...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2021, 01:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By cranberry
Talking Very true. This assuming I actually survive...

Very true. This assuming I actually survive double-trouble teens! Lol!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2021, 01:29 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By cranberry
We have pre-teen twins. My ex does not know the...

We have pre-teen twins. My ex does not know the meaning of the word negotiate. He has used the court system for 12 years and blatantly ignores court orders. Its a no-brainer that NOAs must be...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-03-2021, 11:12 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By cranberry
Thank you ! That's what I thought. You'd think...

Thank you ! That's what I thought. You'd think after 12 years he'd know his obligations but he keeps shooting himself in the foot.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-02-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By cranberry
Annual NOA exchange

Not once in our 12 years of being coparents have I ever received my ex's NOA without a fight. He saves them until we are in court and they suddenly appear.

The most recent NOA that I have is for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 02:54 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,094
Posted By cranberry
I am dealing with an ex who has told our boys...

I am dealing with an ex who has told our boys (12) that they can choose who to live with now they are 12. I/we have had an incredibly difficult 12 months since the boys were told this. With...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-10-2021, 12:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 402
Posted By cranberry
The only email account they have is the one...

The only email account they have is the one orovided by their virtual school. Good idea! I will also check out Google Hangouts.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-10-2021, 11:32 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 402
Posted By cranberry
Thanks! Our boys are 12 today and yes, they use...

Thanks! Our boys are 12 today and yes, they use this phone to talk with their dad while here. I have asked them to call me when they are here, they won't.

As mentioned, today is their birthday....
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-09-2021, 01:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 402
Posted By cranberry
Phone numer

My ex gave my kids an old cell phone of his this past summer. He refuses to give me the number. They boys claim they don't know the phone number. I have asked for the number a few times but he keeps...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2021, 12:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
Thanks, Ange. This information will help me...

Thanks, Ange. This information will help me prepare for what might happen. Do you know if VOC report is different from a private parenting assessment?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:40 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal....

Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal. He's a hero for sure. Unfortunately, I cannot do what he did.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 860
Posted By cranberry
I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As...

I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As for pissing into the wind, that's advice better passed on to my ex. But I understand what you are saying.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 03:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have...

Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have admitted they went to extreme behaviour hoping I would eventually give up and agree to let them live with their dad permanently. Keep telling them I am...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 860
Posted By cranberry
Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if...

Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if I have not received an affidavit for him to remove them from my life by the end of that week.

Even though we have been on this roller coaster for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 01:43 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently...

KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently ground zero for Covid! My kids were withheld when things went diwn the drain ladt year. Thankfully, when finally returned, they resigned themselves to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 01:36 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
Rockscan -- the three of us are in counseling...

Rockscan -- the three of us are in counseling regarding our situation. Our kids can quote quite a few clauses in our order, not due to me. Yesterday, after trying to explain we just don't know what a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2021, 05:27 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 860
Posted By cranberry
Mine is on lawyer #6! Has our kids convinced they...

Mine is on lawyer #6! Has our kids convinced they can just up and leave when they turn 12 next month. Yup, high conflict people tend to go through lawyers quickly. However, it really doesn't factor...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2021, 03:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 879
Posted By cranberry
12 yr old choosing residence

How much weight is given to a 12 yr old wanting to live with the other parent?

We had a private parenting assessment a few years ago, 2028-ish. Would another one be ordered? My ex requested and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,599
Posted By cranberry
I had to go through a private parenting...

I had to go through a private parenting assessment. I guess during one of his appointments he was bitching about what I feed our kids, i.e nothing but junk food and I have made them obese. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,848
Posted By cranberry
As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's...

As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's lawyer's office, my kids were home within hours. This lawyer allowed his client to play his game, almost felt like he was encouraging it. But as soon...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-05-2020, 01:15 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,728
Posted By cranberry
Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I...

Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I thought twins were a handful! Lol!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 01:13 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,797
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been...

Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been dealing with this person for 12 years now. I thought I had built that thick skin one needs when dealing with these people. But this week, I just did...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 12:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,068
Posted By cranberry
My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They...

My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They were returned only when the urgent motion documents were filed. In that time he convinced our kids that I am not following protocols, that my house...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2020, 06:24 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,797
Posted By cranberry
Just coming here to vent; its been a week from...

Just coming here to vent; its been a week from hell. Things mommy cannot do because daddy says so:

Go to the grocery store
If I do go, nothing comes in the house unless switched to a new...
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