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Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2014, 11:02 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,439
Posted By davidm
Is this shared parenting??

My friends ex husband is an airline pilot and has an erratic schedule. He is only guaranteed 11 days off per month and wants other days as flexiable days.
he also is overseas for 2.5 months of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2013, 08:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,911
Posted By davidm
Thank- you all for your posts. Bottom line is I...

Thank- you all for your posts. Bottom line is I have to not care what others think and realize who my ex is.
I did end up writing an email to her lawyer voicing my concerns regarding the children....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2013, 11:27 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,911
Posted By davidm
Thanks for the comments. I wish my skin was...

Thanks for the comments. I wish my skin was thicker. It's bad enough getting glares from the other mothers at the school, but my kids hearing this garbage is a different story.

I think I will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2013, 09:17 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,911
Posted By davidm
Do I have any recourse?

My ex wife continually spreads lies about me to other parents and the other day my 6 year old asked me why I left mommy for the nanny.

I left my ex two years ago because she had an affair with her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2013, 03:02 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 608
Posted By davidm
What does this mean?

My ex filed an application against me for more support, no longer wanted a shared parenting plan and a divorce.

All issues were resolved with a new agreement and judge made final order, but no...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-24-2013, 12:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 959
Posted By davidm
Per Diems as Income

Hi,

I am in the transportation business and receive per diems when away at work. I get paid $55 per 24 hours regardless of how much I spend.
I have heard some guys at work say that their ex's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2013, 12:15 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,513
Posted By davidm
Thanks for the replies. I feel better with...

Thanks for the replies.

I feel better with my decision to go. This forum is great place to float ideas and not $300 hour like my lawyer:)

Thanks again
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2013, 08:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,513
Posted By davidm
Advice on removing children from school for vacation

Hi,

I have a shared parenting plan with my ex and would appreciate some advice.

Unfortunately with my career I am not senior enough to have any summer vacation Christmas vcation or march break....
Forum: Financial Issues 06-01-2013, 09:50 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 845
Posted By davidm
Child support adjustment question

Hi
Our separation agreement states that we are to exchange noa by June 1 . It turns out that I will make an adjustment of paying $80 more per month.

Does the $80 start June 1st or do I owe retro...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2013, 10:38 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,909
Posted By davidm
Thanks for responses. Like everything in family...

Thanks for responses. Like everything in family law....no rules or if they aren't followed no repercussions.

So my ex considers emails not about kids as harassment. Her lawyer won't answer my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2013, 03:28 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,909
Posted By davidm
There is nothing in the separation regarding...

There is nothing in the separation regarding contact. There is no reason for such a restriction other then my ex is very angry and "wants nothing to do with me". I only communicate thru emails and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2013, 09:18 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,909
Posted By davidm
Need advice on Communication with Ex

My ex is represented by her friend who is a lawyer = $0. I have a lawyer who is $350 hour. My ex brags to her friends that her and her friends plan is for me to have big lawyer bill.

Anyways, I...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-21-2013, 08:58 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,957
Posted By davidm
Eligiable dependent and SS- claim denied by CRA

Hi,

I just received a notice of re assesment from CRA. They have disallowed my claim for eligiable dependant if I claim spousal support.

We have joint custody and shared parenting 50/50. My...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 04:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 847
Posted By davidm
Thanks for the replies. I have tried to explain...

Thanks for the replies. I have tried to explain to her about legal fees and pension evaluations. I then received a letter from her lawyer that I am harassing her and all communication not involving...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 06:57 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 847
Posted By davidm
should I open separation agreement?

so we have a separation agreement after 4 months of mediation last year.
ex now doesnt like it and is taking me to court (i am dating now). there arguement is we exchanged financial data, but not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 05:41 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,972
Posted By davidm
awesome. great job. nice to see we live in a time...

awesome. great job. nice to see we live in a time where father's are recognized as equal parents.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 01:51 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 897
Posted By davidm
Thanks taken My ex s arm is hurt not my...

Thanks taken

My ex s arm is hurt not my child. She said because her arm is hurt she can't hold daughter down to administer orally. That's why I said I will keep daughter till she (mother) is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 09:25 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 897
Posted By davidm
ex not giving child supplements

as noted in previous threads my ex is taking me to court to try and get sole custody saying i dont do my share of parenting (complete bs). and have our separation agreement thrown out. our oldest is...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2012, 08:00 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 780
Posted By davidm
Pension question- value

hope this isnt too confusing.....

i was married 6 years. half way through the marriage I switched companies so have 2 pensions to consider.

pension 1 : i was employed at this company for 8...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2012, 09:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 697
Posted By davidm
thanks mess, just to clarify, we do have a...

thanks mess,

just to clarify, we do have a separation agreement with joint custody. she is trying to change it to sole.
ever since i have started dating again things have gone off the rails with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2012, 08:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 697
Posted By davidm
that since separation agreement she has been...

that since separation agreement she has been primary parent. not sure how they claim that as i have had them more nights, provide daycare and after school care, enrolled them in all sports and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2012, 08:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 697
Posted By davidm
i had co signed on her new condo as she didnt...

i had co signed on her new condo as she didnt have credit. i wanted my kids to have a nice place. when i did so the bank changed their mind and said now i no longer can remove her from my mortgage....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2012, 08:04 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 697
Posted By davidm
need advice

So I was served papers by my ex saying they are challenging our separation agreement and she is going for sole custody.

would it be best for me to counter with a sole custody request also or...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-18-2012, 01:18 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,208
Posted By davidm
custody.. question 8 violence

my ex has filed an application for sole custody amongst other things. I am preparing my answer and will also be seeking sole custody.

on question 8 it asks if I am aware of any violence or abuse...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 09:37 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 848
Posted By davidm
No good deed goes unpunished by my ex wife. was...

No good deed goes unpunished by my ex wife. was trying to provide my children for a nice place when they are not with me.

alot of good that did me.
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