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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2013, 11:08 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 20,094
Posted By susiecanoe
Unfortunately in the end, I lost. I just ran out...

Unfortunately in the end, I lost. I just ran out of money and the emotional toil was too much. If I had the energy I would advocate for a change in the system, the problem is though, that most of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2011, 11:16 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,158
Posted By susiecanoe
Access Scheduling

Your ideas have merit. If the idea is to ensure that Dad gets the kids 40% of the time to ensure a more fair distribution of child support obligations, why not have Dad have extended access time in...
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 11:43 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,179
Posted By susiecanoe
Cool. I guess between my three jobs I should...

Cool. I guess between my three jobs I should start writing letters. :)
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 11:40 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,179
Posted By susiecanoe
You have a point that I cannot argue with. Maybe...

You have a point that I cannot argue with. Maybe I think it won't make a difference. But certainly, I will give your comments some serious consideration. What the hell do I have to lose now anyway,...
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 11:15 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,179
Posted By susiecanoe
Yep, that's how it works, you spend every dime...

Yep, that's how it works, you spend every dime you save to get an order written and a judge who will listen and then you get to spend thousands more trying to enforce it. The onus is after all on...
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 11:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,179
Posted By susiecanoe
Member of Parliament

Yes, but who has time when we are bogged down in writing affidavits, tracking all the details of the alienation, filing motion after motion for unpaid child support, asking for help and documenting...
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 10:53 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,179
Posted By susiecanoe
Sad but True

An overhaul is needed yes, better yet, a system that does not allow lawyers to gauge people at the expense of the children. Mandatory arbitration is a must and although this may piss some people...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-06-2011, 10:28 PM
Replies: 192
Views: 46,082
Posted By susiecanoe
Let's get some facts straight. Yes, the court...

Let's get some facts straight. Yes, the court order is the order of the day. Police will not force apprehend a child and have them returned to their custodial home UNLESS your court order...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2011, 10:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,527
Posted By susiecanoe
In my opinion, the law states reasonable...

In my opinion, the law states reasonable expenses. That means just what is says, My ex is getting off paying anything for my son's two years of university because he claims he cannot afford it, and...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2011, 10:09 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,157
Posted By susiecanoe
Personally, from experience, they do not ask when...

Personally, from experience, they do not ask when you got married when filing your income tax return, so if it were me, I would keep 2010 the same, then when you go to file your 2011 tax return,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-23-2011, 10:23 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,809
Posted By susiecanoe
Child support offset by arrears?

I have the same question ( I think) in reference to child support. My ex has rarely over the 12 years been required to pay child support. He has not filed his income tax in 10 years. He has ignored...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 03:57 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
The three oldest are my husband's children and...

The three oldest are my husband's children and all are out of the house - long gone and don't want to get involved. My husband was able to successfully share week about with them for all the years...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 03:42 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Thanks. I have to say that this has not been the...

Thanks. I have to say that this has not been the most joyful experience of my life. I am tired, I am worn out. Somehow, I will get through this too. Right now, I am just trying to figure out what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 01:08 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Yep, she posts things like that and more. ...

Yep, she posts things like that and more. Comments posted on her own public wall such as " well since this is readable by some undesirables ( meaning me) "she" ( meaning my daughter) must feel like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 12:23 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Thanks, that does make sense. I know the grass...

Thanks, that does make sense. I know the grass may appaer much greener on the other side. Her brother is there, her step brother is there. It It has been rather lonely here since her brother left. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 11:46 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Not really. But then again unless you have lived...

Not really. But then again unless you have lived it, it would sound unbelievable. If I were her and I was afraid that if I didn't go live there, I would be shunned or abondoned ( which is what she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2011, 11:42 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Help getting her counselling

Ok, so forget all the history about who is right, who is wrong. My error, should not have put the title - Help, My daughter want to go live with Dad. I should have put " help - how do I get an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 10:39 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
I really did not need this. I am upset enough...

I really did not need this. I am upset enough and to be honest, if I had the answers to what or how this happened, I would not be seeking help for both myself and my daughter. I am not Mother...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 10:32 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Very Mature Response. Please do not respond to...

Very Mature Response. Please do not respond to my post further.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 10:15 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Dad to the end: Your comments are not helpful nor...

Dad to the end: Your comments are not helpful nor truthful. If you had read the post you would have read that parental alienation has been ongoing for years ( like calling CAS on me regularly, like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 10:03 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Like I said, it is a complex situation and it is...

Like I said, it is a complex situation and it is impossible to tell the whole story in a short forum. If you read the post you would have seen that I erased all arrears in CS. This is not about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 08:42 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Oops, meant all I want is for us to build on our...

Oops, meant all I want is for us to build on our relationship. Take out the not.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 08:41 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
I didn't imply I knew her reasons. What I stated...

I didn't imply I knew her reasons. What I stated was that their is a pretty scary pattern happening here. This forum cannot possibly divulge all of the facts and as I stated, I am the one who has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 07:55 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Yes I know all those things. Why suddenly? Well...

Yes I know all those things. Why suddenly? Well when a child has been slowly alienated from the other parent over time, its not hard to answer why. The history sort of speaks for itself. As for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2011, 04:48 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 7,560
Posted By susiecanoe
Help- My child wants to live with Dad

I am not new to this forum, but it seems to take me forever to find where to post a new thread. My situation is complex so please don't make assumptions or judgments, but I do need some help and I...
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