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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:58 PM
Replies: 18
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Posted By LovingDad1234
Not in my experience. Went through numerous...

Not in my experience. Went through numerous judges, which was frustrating. And each one was the same sceneó-it was obvious the judge DID NOT read a thing. Unless you are 1st in line on your court...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 04:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 208
Posted By LovingDad1234
I wouldn't get a trial for 1 to 1.5 years from...

I wouldn't get a trial for 1 to 1.5 years from now seeing how clogged the court system is. By the time I reach trial, the time that I am fighting about will be behind me. I get 50/50 in 2 years so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 208
Posted By LovingDad1234
So you are saying I need therapy because I desire...

So you are saying I need therapy because I desire my fair share in an equitable division of assets? Suggesting I am high conflict because I desire for what I am legally entitled to in the division...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 208
Posted By LovingDad1234
Yes, I AM bitter when I get totally screwed by a...

Yes, I AM bitter when I get totally screwed by a schemer. Totally played the system to her advantage. Held all the cards and used our kids as bargaining chips to get what she wants. What she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 11:26 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 208
Posted By LovingDad1234
I know I don't have control of what she does with...

I know I don't have control of what she does with CS. My issue is that she dragged her heels using our kids as bargaining chips to prolong CS for as long as possible to personally profit. Rather...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 10:23 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 208
Posted By LovingDad1234
Mandatory Financial Statement to be filed?

Hi All,

Nearing the end of my saga that has dragged 3 years and cost a ridiculous amount of money due to my STBX being so unreasonable, and having an equally unreasonable lawyer. OCL recommended...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 487
Posted By LovingDad1234
I am not as experienced as others in this group...

I am not as experienced as others in this group so will defer to them to provide better insight. However I do have my own experience of going through 4 settlement conferences over a 2 year period. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2020, 12:17 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 487
Posted By LovingDad1234
To add to this comment, do NOT get stuck in...

To add to this comment, do NOT get stuck in endless cycles of settlement conferences when one of the 4 persons involved (either party or their lawyers) are being unreasonable. That's what bankrupts...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2020, 05:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 374
Posted By LovingDad1234
Sorry to say this and I know its not the answer...

Sorry to say this and I know its not the answer you want to hear, but the things you have stated are not reasons to deny 50/50. Denying 50/50 would be due to incredible distance between your 2...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-07-2020, 12:28 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
Appreciate the feedback. I think the point...

Appreciate the feedback.

I think the point is being missed. 50/50 shouldíve occurred in near future, so it would be fair game. I have my salary, you have yours, and we do week on/week off, have...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 11:09 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for all the support, it is very...

Thanks for all the support, it is very appreciated!

With regards to pocketing all the CS, she actually told me that she opened an RRSP account and my CS is going in there. Yes, she is using HER...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 09:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
Isnít there anything I can do regarding unjust...

Isnít there anything I can do regarding unjust enrichment? I mean, it was VERY evident she tried to delay 50/50 for as long as she could, over a large number of phases, with a lame excuse that she...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2020, 09:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for the advice! It is unbelievable how...

Thanks for the advice! It is unbelievable how some people are so shameless out there. Clearly just want the $$ and CCB as though itís lottery. Want kids to themselves and keep father out of kids...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2020, 06:19 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for the advice. The system is messed up. ...

Thanks for the advice. The system is messed up.

My ex gets rich while I struggle. She knew what she was doing though. Knew that CS would eventually be offset so stretched to get CS for as...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2020, 03:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 343
Posted By LovingDad1234
CS not used on kids

I know you arenít supposed to question how CS is utilized and trust your ex to use it to provide for the kids. I regularly pay CS and am happy to provide it as I see it as belonging to the kids. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-04-2020, 08:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 157
Posted By LovingDad1234
Your time starts when it starts. For example, if...

Your time starts when it starts. For example, if you are to have the kids starting Friday at 4pm till Sunday at 6pm, your time starts on Friday at 4pm. No BS that she is busy and can only get you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 12:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 232
Posted By LovingDad1234
I heard that going through FRO is a nightmare. ...

I heard that going through FRO is a nightmare. Kind of like getting a cable bill rectified. The wrong amount comes out, or not at all, or comes out twice in the same month. You will be constantly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 12:14 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 383
Posted By LovingDad1234
The status quo is that you are incrementally...

The status quo is that you are incrementally increasing access to 50/50 parenting, that is what is in place.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 09:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 383
Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for sharing. Iím in the same boat where I...

Thanks for sharing. Iím in the same boat where I gotta wait 2 years, itís funny how their arguments make no sense on why it canít be 50/50 now. Iím patiently waiting the 2 years, but in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 08:54 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 383
Posted By LovingDad1234
That is great news! Congrats!!! I am in the...

That is great news! Congrats!!!

I am in the same boat having to wait 2 years to get to 50/50, because apparently itíd be too much for my kids to handle too, despite what OCL says. To me, itís...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-01-2020, 12:56 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 822
Posted By LovingDad1234
Itís a tricky area to try to file a complaint...

Itís a tricky area to try to file a complaint over a judge. With family court being so adversarial and parents constantly fighting for more time with kids, itís inevitable you will find yourself in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-27-2019, 07:09 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 169
Posted By LovingDad1234
This is what I hate about high conflict...

This is what I hate about high conflict separation/divorces. Normal people would say ďSure, no problem, have a great time!Ē. Offering extensions of niceness knowing itís enriching the kids life. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 05:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 497
Posted By LovingDad1234
Family Court is a joke. Only winners are the...

Family Court is a joke. Only winners are the lawyers. I could not believe how much of a farce it was, an expensive farce. Donít know what to do about unethical lawyers whose MO is to purposely run...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 10:06 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 497
Posted By LovingDad1234
The worst is a greasy legal aid lawyer. They are...

The worst is a greasy legal aid lawyer. They are all too happy to keep you and your lawyer returning to countless Settlement Conferences to rack up your legal bill. Be very aware of this tactic. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 07:37 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 165
Posted By LovingDad1234
Sorry to hear the coparenting relationship is a...

Sorry to hear the coparenting relationship is a battleground. No, the mom cannot do what she does. ROFR means that if she cannot take care of kids, the other parent is given the first contact to...
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