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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 545
Posted By Janus
I have a sneaking suspicion that this is the part...

I have a sneaking suspicion that this is the part that is really motivating you. You will certainly benefit from cutting off communication. Kids rarely benefit from losing a parent.



Have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 263
Posted By Janus
During parenting time, parents get to make...

During parenting time, parents get to make parenting decisions. One big decision is "who gets to see the kid". If the parent is trusted with parenting time, then they are trusted to make...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 06:46 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 553
Posted By Janus
Just a quick point that, as a general rule, you...

Just a quick point that, as a general rule, you should never respond to allegations raised by an ex's lawyer outside of court documents.

There is no possible reply that helps your case, but many...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2021, 06:38 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 143
Posted By Janus
Why did it expire? Emphasis mine. ...

Why did it expire?



Emphasis mine.

An offer should not expire before the hearing starts if you want it to be considered for costs
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2021, 07:59 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,718
Posted By Janus
I do remember that one :) Fair enough,...

I do remember that one :)



Fair enough, I can agree with that.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2021, 09:55 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,718
Posted By Janus
Hard to prove that an anonymous username is tied...

Hard to prove that an anonymous username is tied to a specific person. I would just flat out deny it, and laugh at the my ex if she tried to claim that I was Janus.

Even if she knew I was, that's...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 245
Posted By Janus
Just sell the house. Then you do not have to...

Just sell the house. Then you do not have to worry about evaluation, because the market will evaluate it for you.



I think you have confused the terms "bad faith" and "Ex's lawyer is not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-21-2021, 08:09 AM
Replies: 86
Views: 5,848
Posted By Janus
1) I would stand firm on the driving, that's a...

1) I would stand firm on the driving, that's a major issue.
2) A judge might not sign off on the "no child support clause"
3) Timing seems fine

The important thing would be to ensure that you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 744
Posted By Janus
This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges...

This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges the jurisdiction of the court.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 06:00 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 744
Posted By Janus
I thought of that as well, the style certainly...

I thought of that as well, the style certainly reminded me of it. He was missing the arcane rituals though that seem necesary for it to be OPCA.

I think he just does not recognize that not all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,435
Posted By Janus
I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was...

I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was very sick today. You picked up [kid] today at 10am and refused to let her sleep in. I do not believe that this was in the best interest of [kid]. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:03 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,435
Posted By Janus
I just realized that I never responded to this. ...

I just realized that I never responded to this.

I think overall, my main thoughts are:

1) I cannot control my ex
2) I CAN control my reaction to my ex
3) The opinion of my ex is utterly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 07:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 220
Posted By Janus
The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they...

The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they feel will help their client.

If it rattles you and causes you to respond in a way that hurts your case, then that's a win for the lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 744
Posted By Janus
Given that you are looking to appeal your ruling,...

Given that you are looking to appeal your ruling, I'm guessing that your current win rate is somewhere around 0%.

What makes you think that you are better than most lawyers? Not just some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 07:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 317
Posted By Janus
Generally, the court will avoid giving you 40%. ...

Generally, the court will avoid giving you 40%. If a parent has less than 50%, then the court wants them to pay child support. 40% is ambiguous and causes strife... 38.7% provides clarity.

The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 09:15 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 744
Posted By Janus
That is an extremely general question. What are...

That is an extremely general question. What are you trying to argue? Alternatively, how do you feel that these rulings apply to your situation?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 06:14 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 618
Posted By Janus
It is ridiculous. It is a myth that is mostly...

It is ridiculous. It is a myth that is mostly used as a weapon against fathers.



That was my first point. Kids do not need adjustment time. Their lives are one chaotic hot mess. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 618
Posted By Janus
When people ask for 40% it often is about child...

When people ask for 40% it often is about child support. Of course, when the custodial parent denies 40% it is usually about child support as well.



Kids have no control over their daily life....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 11:43 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 618
Posted By Janus
You can include anything you want in an offer to...

You can include anything you want in an offer to settle. However, I would make this clause severable, so that it does not tank your entire offer to settle.




1. Why are you not asking for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2021, 03:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 356
Posted By Janus
https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2014/2014ons...

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2014/2014onsc1414/2014onsc1414.html
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2021, 03:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 356
Posted By Janus
There was that guy who got a 2 million dollar...

There was that guy who got a 2 million dollar costs award against the CAS in London I believe.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 12:07 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 385
Posted By Janus
I am not sure what you want. Does your agreement...

I am not sure what you want. Does your agreement cover equalization? Let us assume that equalization results in you making a payment of $50,000.

Which of the following do you want:

A) You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 10:24 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 385
Posted By Janus
I wasn't being emotional, just flowery :) On...

I wasn't being emotional, just flowery :)

On point answer: You are separated. Divorce will automatically be granted. Every single one of your other questions is completely irrelevant.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2021, 09:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By Janus
I am not sure, and I have the exact same question.

I am not sure, and I have the exact same question.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 09:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 269
Posted By Janus
He can study on the bus. Alternatively, he can...

He can study on the bus. Alternatively, he can live on residence, and the child support can instead be used to pay for that.

The vast majority of universities have cheap "ghetto" housing...
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