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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 94
Posted By Stillbreathing
Welcome to family law. This is called a stalling...

Welcome to family law. This is called a stalling strategy. My ex has used the same strategies which he has applied to all sorts of things he has agreed to. He agreed to an examination by a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2018, 01:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 122
Posted By Stillbreathing
A judge will likely order counselling and...

A judge will likely order counselling and reunification therapy. Supervised access with a family member, or clergy would also be encouraged. At 9 a child is no where near being able to decide if they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2018, 01:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 161
Posted By Stillbreathing
Sold our home 4 years ago. The proceeds are still...

Sold our home 4 years ago. The proceeds are still in trust. Funny thing about this “trust” account is that you shouldn’t for one minute “trust” the judges when you have such an account. They stick...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2018, 08:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By Stillbreathing
Actually I found the clerks to be both helpful...

Actually I found the clerks to be both helpful and unhelpful. When I was helping my lawyer by filing her materials the clerks once told me my lawyer was doing it wrong ( they were wrong not my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2018, 08:56 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 275
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have s video sent to me by a neighbor of my...

I have s video sent to me by a neighbor of my STBX damaging property on the marital home. Made several copies and my lawyer fully intends to use this in arbitration. The neighbor is also willing to...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-08-2018, 09:25 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 326
Posted By Stillbreathing
We are into our 8th year of hell separation with...

We are into our 8th year of hell separation with no agreement. Not one single issue has been resolved. The matrimonial home was sold 4 years ago and the proceeds have been sitting in trust for that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 147
Posted By Stillbreathing
Hello there. I have pm’d you in response to your...

Hello there. I have pm’d you in response to your query.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2018, 09:58 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 505
Posted By Stillbreathing
Yes a parent can unilaterally enroll a child in...

Yes a parent can unilaterally enroll a child in extra curricular activities and then demand payment from the ex. Even if the ex was was not consulted. See the case of Young v Zaatri. It all depends...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-27-2018, 09:49 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 350
Posted By Stillbreathing
Congratulations but don’t be surprised if the...

Congratulations but don’t be surprised if the other dude tries to have the order overturned or a new one made in their favour.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-20-2018, 07:18 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 540
Posted By Stillbreathing
You should either 1) go to the justice of the...

You should either 1) go to the justice of the peace and get a restraining order or 2) bring an emergency motion without notice to family court asking for a restraining order and that your ex be court...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-16-2018, 08:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 614
Posted By Stillbreathing
You sir are not involved in a case of “mild”...

You sir are not involved in a case of “mild” domestic violence from what you describe. You are living in an extremely dangerous situation.. For your own safety I highly advise you to leave...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2018, 05:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 431
Posted By Stillbreathing
Why is he asking for a DNA test? That won’t get...

Why is he asking for a DNA test? That won’t get him off the hook for child support even if he is not the father because he has been the acting father figure in her life and such will still have to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-03-2018, 09:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 453
Posted By Stillbreathing
My ex asked for police enforcement. One of the...

My ex asked for police enforcement. One of the custody assessors recommended police enforcement . The judge got really angry. Said that under the circumstances there was no way he was going to order...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-01-2018, 04:21 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,069
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your ex can legally do whatever he wants with the...

Your ex can legally do whatever he wants with the kids on his parenting time. That being said, refusing to take them to activities may not be in their best interests but is his prerogative. From what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2018, 08:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 309
Posted By Stillbreathing
Our motion judge became our case conference judge...

Our motion judge became our case conference judge and then our settlement conference judge. He also heard 3 motions for us.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 08:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 339
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have a video my neighbor took of my ex...

I have a video my neighbor took of my ex destroying matrimonial property, burning furniture, etc. The other side is aware I have this video and I have every intention of using it for our settlement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2018, 01:11 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,169
Posted By Stillbreathing
In my case each of the four reports recommended I...

In my case each of the four reports recommended I have sole custody. Duhhh...didn’t Need to spend $25000 to determine a violent, catastrophically brain damaged parent who himself needs 24/7 care for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2018, 10:40 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,169
Posted By Stillbreathing
Wholeheartedly agree with Tayken! Same thing...

Wholeheartedly agree with Tayken! Same thing applies to custody and access assessors who are usually social workers or psychologists. We have had 4 such assessments because my ex was deemed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2018, 10:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 238
Posted By Stillbreathing
In 2004 a criminal court judge ordered no access...

In 2004 a criminal court judge ordered no access to the children or I for my ex. This was before I knew what was wrong with him.

First time I filed an emergency motion with family court was in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2018, 11:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 238
Posted By Stillbreathing
That’s the problem with family court. They are...

That’s the problem with family court. They are way too lienient. He would most likely be given an adjournment if he asks unless you have been to court and an order has already been made. I have been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2018, 09:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 238
Posted By Stillbreathing
The implications to him are not dire at this...

The implications to him are not dire at this point. All he has to do is ask for an adjournment to file a response and it will be granted. If he continues not to respond then it all depends on whether...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-21-2018, 10:51 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 136
Posted By Stillbreathing
Man kills ex’s lawyer and then himself

Newspaper article in the Calgary sun about a man in the US who killed his ex’s lawyer then himself just after his divorce was finalized. Very sad.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 11:52 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 263
Posted By Stillbreathing
You did the right thing... however, that being...

You did the right thing... however, that being said... my heart bleeds for you and your child. You have entered the realm of family court where abusers reign supreme and the child’s best interests...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:52 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 681
Posted By Stillbreathing
To the OP you have several options open to you...

To the OP you have several options open to you each of which has likely consequences that flow from them.
1. Continue emailing and documenting your requests perhaps even sending a registered letter....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2018, 11:55 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,521
Posted By Stillbreathing
Janus have you ever lost sight of the best...

Janus have you ever lost sight of the best interests of the children. Not of the parents or the father or the mother but the children! It’s not the fathers parenting time or the mothers parenting...
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