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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2018, 06:33 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 367
Posted By Berner_Faith
Honestly I would let your ex worry about getting...

Honestly I would let your ex worry about getting the child there and back on his time... who knows this could be short lived when he gets tired of the driving or maybe not and the child will enjoy...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 08:55 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 165
Posted By Berner_Faith
Agreed with moving the schedule to 2-2-5-5... you...

Agreed with moving the schedule to 2-2-5-5... you both should be splitting weekends especially as the kids are in school... you need to do some weekday shifts with school/etc and she deserves some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2018, 06:11 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 167
Posted By Berner_Faith
As much as it sucks Dad will most likely lose...

As much as it sucks Dad will most likely lose this one as he is the one who moved away. Even if it was only 30 min he made that choice. His daughter has been in that dance studio before so her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2018, 05:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
Why not go with it right away? If you donít get...

Why not go with it right away? If you donít get it now youíll have to show a material change to fight it in the future


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2018, 11:31 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
But who will watch the kids while you work an...

But who will watch the kids while you work an additional 1-2 hours? Be prepared to answer all these questions


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Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2018, 09:17 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 372
Posted By Berner_Faith
You have to renew the mortgage but you do not...

You have to renew the mortgage but you do not have to refinance anything. If you donít agree on a renewal term the bank will automatically calculate one for you and itís usually 5 years at whatever...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-20-2018, 07:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
Posted By Berner_Faith
Personally I think kids should always have a...

Personally I think kids should always have a choice in what they want to do, within reason of course. I donít think kids should be in multiple activities at one time but I do think they should have a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2018, 04:57 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 777
Posted By Berner_Faith
I would have to disagree... some kids might be...

I would have to disagree... some kids might be ready at 18 and being mature enough to be able to go to post secondary is one thing but knowing what you want to do with the next 50 years of your...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2018, 11:34 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 777
Posted By Berner_Faith
I actually agree with this... I took a program...

I actually agree with this... I took a program that I regret now and itís totally opposite than the field I ended up in... itís hard at 18 to know exactly what you want to do for the rest of your...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-06-2018, 07:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 882
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iím not divorced and my husband pays full support...

Iím not divorced and my husband pays full support to his ex but I would much rather an involved father than CS... my husband works long hours when his kids are with their mom but he reduces his hours...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-02-2018, 06:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,069
Posted By Berner_Faith
For what itís worth... my husbandís ex was...

For what itís worth... my husbandís ex was adamant they have in their agreement that he must take the kids to their activities on his time... his lawyer told him just to leave it in because it was an...
Forum: Introductions 06-29-2018, 12:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 586
Posted By Berner_Faith
Seems like you created this situation yourself by...

Seems like you created this situation yourself by not responding to her first filing and now youíre not paying child support. That looks very bad on you and you will have a hard time convincing a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 01:48 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 339
Posted By Berner_Faith
Help with what? What are you trying to accomplish...

Help with what? What are you trying to accomplish with this video?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 01:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 767
Posted By Berner_Faith
Even bonuses should be reported on the tax return...

Even bonuses should be reported on the tax return somewhere, sometimes as other income... but I agree you need to see proof of that bonus... does the bonus happen often? Is it usually a big amount? ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 767
Posted By Berner_Faith
Bonuses are most likely included in line 150... I...

Bonuses are most likely included in line 150... I would use line 150 and back out the bonuses received... that will include the base salary and overtime.


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Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2018, 05:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 445
Posted By Berner_Faith
My thoughts however this wasnít really her...

My thoughts however this wasnít really her decision when the company restructured and she is losing her position. Her option would be to move 3 hours away to the other location the company is but...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2018, 07:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 445
Posted By Berner_Faith
Job Change

This is something currently happening with a co worker of mine. Our company is doing some restructuring and eliminating her position all together. They have offered to either pay her a severance or...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2018, 05:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 373
Posted By Berner_Faith
Clearly the wife accepted the appraised value and...

Clearly the wife accepted the appraised value and went forth with the separation. The husband was under no obligation to get a second opinion if the wife was accepting of the value. If the wife had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2018, 07:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 355
Posted By Berner_Faith
What has he provided so far? What are you...

What has he provided so far?
What are you trying to equalize?
RRSPs? Savings? Most financial disclosure like you are asking about is for support purposes. Full tax returns, any and all write offs,...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2018, 07:51 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,258
Posted By Berner_Faith
So this begs the question why your income was so...

So this begs the question why your income was so much less... thatís a huge drop in income... my husbands income fluctuates since he is commission based but only by a few thousand which doesnít...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2018, 06:21 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,258
Posted By Berner_Faith
Bit does FRO do annual adjustments or only...

Bit does FRO do annual adjustments or only enforce whatís in the order?

You should pay something for June... estimate her income and pay that amount... if it should be more she will provide...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 10:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 659
Posted By Berner_Faith
To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or...

To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or Saturday to Saturday, something like that... if it doesnít specify pick up time then thatís something that has to be agreed upon but it should go the same...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 09:09 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,975
Posted By Berner_Faith
No need to get defensive in every post. YOU...

No need to get defensive in every post. YOU mentioned your partner so naturally people are going to comment on that, if you didnít want that to happen then leave that detail out.

You can file for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 07:52 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 493
Posted By Berner_Faith
Is it possible you two are not on good terms...

Is it possible you two are not on good terms because neither of you are flexible?

If you have no plans why say no just to say no? That doesnít necessarily seem beneficial to the kids. Itís very...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-13-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 884
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sure you can but without an agreement even after...

Sure you can but without an agreement even after the divorce she can come back on you and request whatever she wants. Iím not sure what youíre not understanding from the posters here. You are setting...
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