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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 07:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
He can ask for costs too. Its standard. He files...

He can ask for costs too. Its standard. He files his response asking for what he wants and he sends an offer to settle asking for what he would probably get ordered. Then they go through the dance....
Forum: Financial Issues 09-21-2018, 02:31 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 621
Posted By rockscan
Why is he even going that far? Child support...

Why is he even going that far?

Child support works out to $x. I paid the amount I owed and you can either pay me $x immediately or I will begin subtracting it from the monthly child support.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2018, 01:19 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 122
Posted By rockscan
Criminal courts and family courts are not...

Criminal courts and family courts are not necessarily the same.

She was acquitted because they were unable to demonstrate the proof of assault to cause bodily harm. In family court it is cas who...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 06:56 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 259
Posted By rockscan
Tayken as always you know exactly what to say. ...

Tayken as always you know exactly what to say.

We are now shaking our heads at her. Its just sad that she has the kids believing her bs and thinking their dad doesn’t care.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 06:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 79
Posted By rockscan
Having the kids on a step parents plan benefits...

Having the kids on a step parents plan benefits everyone as the costs are reduced. In your case, if you both dont have benefits you would be splitting $4000 in expenses. If the step parents have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 11:59 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 120
Posted By rockscan
This is between mommy and daddy and we love you...

This is between mommy and daddy and we love you and will always be here for you. There may be some changes as a result of the divorce but that doesnt change how we feel about you or what we both want...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-18-2018, 09:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 87
Posted By rockscan
You add the two and divide your salary by that...

You add the two and divide your salary by that total.

For instance: parent a) 50,000; parent b) 100,000.

50,000 / 150,000 = 33%
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 09:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 259
Posted By rockscan
Yes I will do that but I dont want her to think...

Yes I will do that but I dont want her to think she had that power.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 08:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 259
Posted By rockscan
His financial statement is clear. Shes using my...

His financial statement is clear. Shes using my social media posts as a way to prove he is living outside his means. She wants to know EVERYTHING about our life including my income and what I spend...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 05:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 259
Posted By rockscan
Its my social media. The ex is using things I...

Its my social media. The ex is using things I post as examples of my spouses financial situation and how he is frivolous with the needs of his kids. Its part of her argument as to why she is entitled...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 04:21 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 259
Posted By rockscan
Going after new spouses

Any recourse for new spouses when the old spouse uses their public info in court documents? Or when they use a common law relationship as an excuse to extort money?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 10:10 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Yes so treat it like a school day. Drop them off...

Yes so treat it like a school day. Drop them off at her place at the same time as you would for school.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 07:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Why would they interrupt your stretch? They would...

Why would they interrupt your stretch? They would go to daycare or a day camp. Its your time.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 04:07 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,975
Posted By rockscan
Youre hurt and angry, thats natural. Know though...

Youre hurt and angry, thats natural. Know though that what has happened with your kids is brainwashing and you cannot stop or change it. What you can do though is continue to be in their life by...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 01:01 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,975
Posted By rockscan
My mother did this to us. Granted my father was...

My mother did this to us. Granted my father was not even remotely interested in being a father. He took off and didnt want anything to do with us until his financial obligations were over. Im not a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Having a separation agreement is somewhat of a...

Having a separation agreement is somewhat of a moot argument. Agreements are normally the first thing to not get followed. For spousal and child support, you can survive with an order. Ditto for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2018, 02:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 161
Posted By rockscan
Have you just started the process? Why has he not...

Have you just started the process? Why has he not been ordered to pay support? That is normally the first thing ordered in the process...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 03:48 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By rockscan
I wonder if you can request he pay his arrears in...

I wonder if you can request he pay his arrears in full before he files anything in the future. I think that has been used as a deterrent.

He’s only doing it to upset you. As long as you don’t let...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 01:02 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By rockscan
So you go to the case conference and you get the...

So you go to the case conference and you get the judge to tell him what for. See if there is an order that can be made at that point. Once youve gone through the conference, file for a motion date...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 12:59 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By rockscan
You may need the police. Hes bordering on...

You may need the police. Hes bordering on requiring an order against him like a peace bond or a cease and desist. Plus if you were to sue him for slander or harassment you would need them.
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Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2018, 12:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 168
Posted By rockscan
There is a lot more to this than just she gets...

There is a lot more to this than just she gets half. How long were you married, did she give up her career to support yours, is she entitled to spousal support etc.

In a divorce, a pension is seen...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 12:08 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By rockscan
First document everything. Second, respond...

First document everything.

Second, respond to his motion with a request to dismiss. The kids are 19 and 17, no judge will force them out of your house.

Have you spoken to the police about...
Forum: Introductions 09-12-2018, 02:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 210
Posted By rockscan
Janus likes to pretend he’s all tough and shit...

Janus likes to pretend he’s all tough and shit but he’s a softie.

Welcome, hope *we* can help you out!
Forum: Financial Issues 09-11-2018, 10:05 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 387
Posted By rockscan
I asked my partners lawyer about this and he...

I asked my partners lawyer about this and he explained the rarity and the reason for it. In almost all cases its ordered for the four months only and as an average over the year to be paid every...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-11-2018, 07:46 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 198
Posted By rockscan
Yes its a reasonable request. You should be...

Yes its a reasonable request. You should be requesting updated income information for proper calculation as she has received employment in her field and her income has changed from June 1.
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