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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 11:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By arabian
Baby mother's mother is likely pissed that she is...

Baby mother's mother is likely pissed that she is looking at a future paying/supporting her daughter and granddaughter.

Perhaps the best thing that you could do at this point is to have your son...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 10:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 114
Posted By arabian
Lawnmower parents

Just spotted this article:

http://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/2018/09/18/lawn-mower-parents-are-new-helicopter-moms.html

So I guess we now refer to them as "lawnmower parents"

Times they are a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 10:18 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 194
Posted By arabian
probably good to provide specific dates...

probably good to provide specific dates (timeline) for readers on here

confusing.. for example, you lived common law for 7 or 4 years?
When did you purchase the home?
Whose name was the mortgage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 09:29 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,923
Posted By arabian
you have fought hard for 3 years now/ I...

you have fought hard for 3 years now/

I believe your ex capitalized on the domestic violence charge and made her move immediately.

I wouldn't give the lawyer another dime. Your kids are at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 09:18 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,923
Posted By arabian
yep they really like that home equity... they can...

yep they really like that home equity... they can lien the money in the trust fund is why.

Business is business. No pay no work.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 07:10 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,923
Posted By arabian
I don't understand why your lawyer was not on top...

I don't understand why your lawyer was not on top of this? If something was not filed by the other party in time your lawyer should have known that at the deadline date or shortly thereafter. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 06:46 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,975
Posted By arabian
Sorry to hear about your situation. Regroup...

Sorry to hear about your situation.

Regroup and put "Plan B" into action.

Try to see your kids, even if just for an hour or so. When you do see them talk about exciting times ahead. If you...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-16-2018, 08:32 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By arabian
^great... he's racking up your legal bill. ...

^great... he's racking up your legal bill. That's something i endured for years when my ex was either not represented by counsel or represented by an incompetent lawyer.

If you are getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 08:15 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 300
Posted By arabian
There is a "divorce support" section of this...

There is a "divorce support" section of this forum.

Reality of posting on a forum is that all anyone can do is offer opinion on what you post. It goes without saying that we don't know all the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 10:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 113
Posted By arabian
Be careful. you are walking a fine line of...

Be careful. you are walking a fine line of appearing to be 'stalkerish' and this may be used against you if it was you who took the photographs.

Review everything. What you want to do is simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 10:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 300
Posted By arabian
People 55 and 59 do meet other people and have...

People 55 and 59 do meet other people and have relationships. You are far from being at the end of your respective lives.

Very naive and short-sighted to not go through proper equalization...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2018, 11:48 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 161
Posted By arabian
yes Lawyers want to make sure they are paid....

yes

Lawyers want to make sure they are paid. Keep this in mind, particularly if you have large amount of equity in your home....lawyers will certainly help you spend it. Lawyers love it when...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 10:56 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 470
Posted By arabian
Sorry to hear of your nightmare. I have a...

Sorry to hear of your nightmare. I have a litigation-happy ex who takes me to court (thanks to the g/f who fills out all that paperwork because he is much too lazy to do it) every year just like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 11:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By arabian
ISOs (inter jurisdictional support orders) take a...

ISOs (inter jurisdictional support orders) take a long time and they are quite confusing. Often people at courthouse (and judges) are unsure of the correct process. The important thing is that you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2018, 09:36 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 418
Posted By arabian
As Blink advised, use the Our Family Wizard...

As Blink advised, use the Our Family Wizard program for communication. It is recommended by many judges.

Sounds like you don't want to have your kids on weekends. Does your ex work a Monday...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2018, 09:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 275
Posted By arabian
I'd keep things as simple as possible. Remember...

I'd keep things as simple as possible. Remember that judges have seen it all before. Think 3 minutes or average time of a television commercial. Anything requiring more time to review likely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2018, 09:27 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By arabian
My experience was as a self-represented (newly)...

My experience was as a self-represented (newly) litigant in a new province. I recall thinking wistfully to times in the past when the lawyer's office took care of all the "stuff."

I found the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-09-2018, 09:23 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 599
Posted By arabian
I recall that when I first posted on this forum I...

I recall that when I first posted on this forum I was kinda put off with some advice I received. Not many people (actually none at that time) had similar experience I was going through. Still I was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2018, 10:47 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 275
Posted By arabian
Good for you! I have a girlfriend who...

Good for you!

I have a girlfriend who started a "cottage" business and has done so well that she employs quite a few people now.

I recall her telling me that, on a good day at city farmer's...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-05-2018, 11:59 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 141
Posted By arabian
IF you are a control freak who wants to keep...

IF you are a control freak who wants to keep strings attached to your ex then you will find it difficult to let go and have FRO collect money every month for you..... therefore the answer is pretty...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-05-2018, 11:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 599
Posted By arabian
i agree with janus You have to step away...

i agree with janus

You have to step away from involving yourself with your ex's parenting time.

Focus on your own life, what parenting for you with your children will entail... how can you make...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-05-2018, 11:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 168
Posted By arabian
yes Each person will be able to look at the...

yes

Each person will be able to look at the final calculation on the CRA site as long as they are registered. You can see a statement going back to date of your first contribution (job) right up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-05-2018, 05:35 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 257
Posted By arabian
I'd go to arbitration. Process of abitration...

I'd go to arbitration. Process of abitration exists to break an impasse. You both present your respective sides and arbitrator makes a decision for you.

You win or lose. This is what happens...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2018, 02:43 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
I really don't care what you think about my...

I really don't care what you think about my posts. You continue to display an unhealthy bias against women in general; you are not taken seriously by me at least.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2018, 02:42 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
Effective parenting (clearly displayed by the...

Effective parenting (clearly displayed by the poster) is about encouraging a child to pursue a rewarding career which leads to self-sufficiency in the future.
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