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Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2020, 05:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 345
Posted By Janus
Yup. Go get it. I remember we had a...

Yup. Go get it.



I remember we had a poster once who came in and said something along the lines of "we had agreed to everything except child custody".

Yeah, that means you agreed to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-04-2020, 05:09 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 245
Posted By Janus
Alternatively, if each parent received $50 from...

Alternatively, if each parent received $50 from insurance (not sure how that would happen, since parent 2 has no relationship with insurance company) calculations become:

Amount paid
Parent 1:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-04-2020, 05:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 245
Posted By Janus
This sounds like that old math riddle about the...

This sounds like that old math riddle about the hotel room that costs $10 each for 3 people, where the owner refunds $5 and the bellhop keeps some of it and somehow some of the money disappears. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2020, 11:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 428
Posted By Janus
Bathing: Honestly, could go either way. He is a...

Bathing: Honestly, could go either way. He is a moron for refusing to give the bath. You are a not much better for harping on it so much. Make an appointment in your phone calendar for three...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2020, 10:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 260
Posted By Janus
You generally use the line 150 (well, now I think...

You generally use the line 150 (well, now I think it is line 15000) to calculate income. I don't think CCB changes that income, so it would have no effect on CS and SS.

As discussed in another...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2020, 10:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 91
Posted By Janus
Well, make an offer to the mother, and if she...

Well, make an offer to the mother, and if she doesn't agree then send in your written submissions.

But yes, if it is written like that, then you likely won :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2020, 10:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 428
Posted By Janus
The lawyers are telling her to play a gatekeeping...

The lawyers are telling her to play a gatekeeping game with the kid. If the goal is to fund their new yacht, then that is excellent advice. It is possible that EM doesn't want to burn all of her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2020, 10:36 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 428
Posted By Janus
You claim he only cares about the money. You...

You claim he only cares about the money.

You offered the money, and he refused.

Maybe he doesn't care as much about the money as you might think...
Forum: General Chat 06-25-2020, 10:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 344
Posted By Janus
The term you are looking for is occupation rent ...

The term you are looking for is occupation rent

https://canliiconnects.org/fr/résumé/34819

Who is making the mortgage payments?
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2020, 10:27 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 91
Posted By Janus
The judges pretty much always say that. If the...

The judges pretty much always say that. If the judge is asking you to make cost submissions first, then you probably won.
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-25-2020, 10:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 506
Posted By Janus
Also, how do you know that he received a photo...

Also, how do you know that he received a photo from the daycare? And why on earth are you telling him how to parent during his parenting time?
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-25-2020, 10:25 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 506
Posted By Janus
Just to be clear: 1) You think he should...

Just to be clear:

1) You think he should lose custody because he is not giving a sufficient number of baths.

2) He thinks he needs to obtain 24 hours notice to give a bath.

Both of you are...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 210
Posted By Janus
For obvious claims such as insurance benefits,...

For obvious claims such as insurance benefits, threatening legal is usually enough. People don't like to go to court if they are guaranteed to lose.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2020, 02:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 376
Posted By Janus
Both. :) The child support calculators...

Both. :)

The child support calculators assume that you will be getting half of the child support benefits. In reality, depending on the wording of the agreement, you might not actually get half...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2020, 01:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 210
Posted By Janus
I am in the same situation, my ex has a birthday...

I am in the same situation, my ex has a birthday before mine. I handle pretty much all health and dental care, so I used to pay money and then she would collect the insurance and keep it. It was...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2020, 01:04 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 376
Posted By Janus
Remember that "will consider offsetting" has a...

Remember that "will consider offsetting" has a completely different meaning than "will offset". Generally, if you have less than 40% and move up to 40%, expect child support to not change at all.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2020, 12:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 376
Posted By Janus
The answer is so much worse than you might...

The answer is so much worse than you might imagine.

The calculators assume that you will be getting half of the child benefits. However, when you try to claim shared custody with the CRA, they...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2020, 05:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 148
Posted By Janus
If you want to make parenting decisions (like...

If you want to make parenting decisions (like extracurricular activities) then you need to be a parent.

A non-custodial parent is not a parent. They are like a grandparent. They are present, and...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-11-2020, 05:38 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 376
Posted By Janus
With shared custody, you will get half of the...

With shared custody, you will get half of the child related benefits. This results in less money available for mother. As a rough estimate, I get about $4-5k a year in benefits (including the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2020, 12:31 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 274
Posted By Janus
Probably not a fake note. Doctors will say...

Probably not a fake note. Doctors will say almost anything. I’ve seen real doctor’s notes that have said really stupid things.

If you say it is fake, but cannot prove it, you sound crazy. If...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2020, 03:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 156
Posted By Janus
1) Is your son bothered? 2) Is your wife...

1) Is your son bothered?

2) Is your wife sexually assaulting your son?

3) Does your wife have a history of not respecting boundaries, especially with children?

If the answer to all 3 is...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2020, 12:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 147
Posted By Janus
Are you asking for a legal or ethical view? ...

Are you asking for a legal or ethical view?

Legal: Dad has EOW. He is nobody. He may temporarily have more than EOW but that is only so long as the mother allows it. He should pay CS, be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2020, 12:18 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 195
Posted By Janus
I would ask her in writing to provide her...

I would ask her in writing to provide her interpretation of the clause.

Then, if she says that vacations override statutory holidays, next year pick your vacation on her stat holiday. If she...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2020, 01:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 294
Posted By Janus
I thought that recently the CRA has started...

I thought that recently the CRA has started ruling that the parent making the offset payment is a support payer, and the other parent is a support recipient.

I would not be surprised though if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2020, 12:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 233
Posted By Janus
Does the probability assessment apply to the...

Does the probability assessment apply to the quoted statement?

So there is about a 50% probability that about 50% of the posts are wrong.
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