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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2019, 05:58 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 129
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Iona, the other side misled me. Agreeing to...

Iona, the other side misled me. Agreeing to mediation when they had no intentions of reaching an agreement. They did it to milk more money. In mediation we reached a verbal agreement. A month later...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 09:27 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 129
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Looks like I'm headed to trial too

Other side is not negotiating in good faith. The self-serving lawyer and pgt are both motivated to deplete the equity from our home. It's disgusting. The offer they put in was so bad, nobody in...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-07-2019, 08:24 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 547
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I mourned the loss of the man I married, high...

I mourned the loss of the man I married, high school sweet hearts. He is overcome with psychosis and he is no longer the man I married. It's like he has died except worse as there is no real...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 10:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 395
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Your ex sounds unstable. Probably why he is your...

Your ex sounds unstable. Probably why he is your ex. You have done nothing wrong. It's not even about a kids backpack. It's about an unstable parent that believes in punishing his own child for a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-05-2019, 09:04 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 475
Posted By Helpmyspouse
At least you get to negotiate with your ex...

At least you get to negotiate with your ex spouse. In my case because my ex spouse is deemed special party, I'm negotiating with a public guardian trustee and his lawyer. So it's like I'm divorcing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2019, 07:11 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 481
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You don't need to justify yourself at all. You...

You don't need to justify yourself at all. You are living with a crazy man. I was there and I know the terror you feel! The fear is paralyzing. It's crippling. Your head spins and you try to keep...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2019, 01:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 244
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You can't believe what he says. He will dangle...

You can't believe what he says. He will dangle carrots. He will go back on his word. He will make promises he can't keep. He will make deals that don't make sense. He will ask for things as a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 04:30 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 402
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry I don't care what cut backs made her treat you...

I don't care what cut backs made her treat you that way and I don't care if she is having a bad day. She has no right to treat you like shit. Such insensitive assholes. I'm sorry you had to deal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 06:18 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 229
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I found the link. ...

I found the link.

https://news.ontario.ca/mag/en/2019/07/review-of-family-and-civil-legislation-regulations-and-processes.html
Forum: Divorce Support 08-26-2019, 07:42 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 308
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I tell you this from first hand experienced. My...

I tell you this from first hand experienced. My expdh started showing signs of delusions and paranoia. He was dripping of psychosis. Your husband sounds like my ex. I was accused of everything...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-26-2019, 04:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 229
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thumbs up Family law complaints link

A while ago someone posted a link where you can complain about a family law situation. Can someone repost that link for me?
Thanks
Forum: General Chat 08-25-2019, 09:29 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 372
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Stilbreathing, what you describe is spot on right...

Stilbreathing, what you describe is spot on right down to the you will have nothing left and you are still expected to provide for any children. It's disgusting what happens to families. The system...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 04:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 449
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Call CAS. They will be your biggest advocate and...

Call CAS. They will be your biggest advocate and it won't cost you a penny to have them on your side. Unlike anyone else in this broken legal system that only serves to make people go bankrupt.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2019, 09:52 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 511
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Arabian has given great advice. If you don't...

Arabian has given great advice. If you don't escalate things the situation will languish and he will drive you to the poor house. Now is not the time to feel sorry for him. He is not thinking about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 06:22 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 106
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Mediation update

So just a quick update. The written offer I received from the other side was bullshit. I waited 3 months since mediation to finally get something. The lawyer is a piece of work. You may recall I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2019, 09:28 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 862
Posted By Helpmyspouse
If you alert police know that depends on where...

If you alert police know that depends on where you live police may be obligated to contact CAS. If that happens be prepared to comply with them to protect your children who are minors. If they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-06-2019, 06:30 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 263
Posted By Helpmyspouse
My lawyer only shows the last four digits of my...

My lawyer only shows the last four digits of my credit card. But I don't think your ex seeing your financial worth should be your main concern. Your lawyer will see exactly how much he can bill you...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-05-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 510
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Arabian. You need to get him out....

I agree with Arabian. You need to get him out. Start the process cause the wheels of justice move slowly. I wasted too much time feeling sorry for my mentally I'll unstable spouse because I knew he...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2019, 09:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 288
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unfortunately, if you sell your house and money...

Unfortunately, if you sell your house and money goes into trust your lawyer will see dollar signs. You may not be able to access it but your lawyer will be sure to increase his billable hours...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 07:13 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 326
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I'm sorry to sound so negative but I've been at...

I'm sorry to sound so negative but I've been at it for 6 years. You will waste a lot of money. There is no way around it. Lawyers can't do miracles and make it go away. They stretch their...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2019, 12:50 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 552
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Another broken system that exploits families. ...

Another broken system that exploits families. Unless the braces are made of gold and encrusted with jewels, how the hell is the cost in the thousands justified! :mad:
Forum: Divorce Support 07-26-2019, 09:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 561
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I've been exactly in your place. Mental illness...

I've been exactly in your place. Mental illness killed my marriage of 20 years. Out of the blue he started with paranoia and delusions. The accusations got sicker and more disgusting. He was...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2019, 10:50 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 552
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was going to say same thing about wait until...

I was going to say same thing about wait until braces time. I just got a quote at $5500 per child.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2019, 05:33 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 694
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Been at it since 2013, first was lots of stalling...

Been at it since 2013, first was lots of stalling by ex and now lawyer stalling so he can drain us of every cent.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2019, 06:20 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 513
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Just curious how he took your child? I would be...

Just curious how he took your child? I would be focusing on getting the child back instead of decreasing the value of the home. But I don't know all the details. I'm sorry you don't have your...
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