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Forum: Financial Issues 07-17-2014, 09:19 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I just wanted to post a follow up regarding...

I just wanted to post a follow up regarding this...I've been battling CRA for the EDC since December 2013, and there still seems to be no end in sight.

Their stance is that, since the agreement is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2014, 08:48 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 856
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Exactly. The courts will consider what is fair...

Exactly. The courts will consider what is fair and reasonable in this situation, and it's based off the income, and pretty much set in stone what is to be paid.

That said, if he quit his job out...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2014, 12:48 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Just a quick update to this...I'm still battling...

Just a quick update to this...I'm still battling CRA over this. Even the ministers of finance and revenue both agree that if it's based on the offset amount, then one parent can claim the child.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2014, 12:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 856
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Not sure about the adjustments, but if he went on...

Not sure about the adjustments, but if he went on EI in order to avoid payments, you can have your lawyer petition the court to have the amounts assumed (not the right word...it's escaped me right...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2013, 03:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Looks like I may have to take this to a living,...

Looks like I may have to take this to a living, breathing human being who has more authority than the front-line CRA clerk.
I'll appeal it and indicate, providing the letters from her and from...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2013, 03:16 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Yeah, that's how it is now. Specifically written...

Yeah, that's how it is now. Specifically written out:
He pays her $x
She pays him $x
Net payment from him $x
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2013, 02:21 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
The initial agreement, signed in 2012, states...

The initial agreement, signed in 2012, states that I pay $x in support as of April 2012.
I tried to make these payments privately, by providing her cheques for the amount. She refused the cheques...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2013, 02:04 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
How does that help for last year, though? There...

How does that help for last year, though? There is a current amendment that says: He pays $x, she pays $x, offset he pays $x.

Now, I do have a signed letter from her indicating that the support...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2013, 12:13 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,450
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Tax Question

I have a question about claiming children as dependants on taxes.

I have a bit of a complex situation (though, probably not all that complex): My ex and I have joint custody of our children with...
Forum: Political Issues 07-16-2013, 10:00 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I did, yes. They seemed a little excited to...

I did, yes. They seemed a little excited to handle the case, to say the least. They asked, "Can you prove you have the children at least 50% of the time?"
"Why yes, I can."
"Do you think your ex...
Forum: Political Issues 07-16-2013, 06:29 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I have 2. And that works fun as long as both...

I have 2. And that works fun as long as both parents are being civil to one another. When one parent is as vindictive as mine...she's trying to screw me every turn she can get.
She told me to...
Forum: Political Issues 07-15-2013, 02:44 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
You're putting words in my mouth. If she's...

You're putting words in my mouth. If she's unable to work due to specific circumstances, then yes, the offset amount would work in that case.

However, if she is more than capable of going to...
Forum: Political Issues 07-15-2013, 12:50 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
If she's capable of working, and has the skill...

If she's capable of working, and has the skill set to earn a particular income, and has made such an income, then why should the father suffer because she decides to be a dickhead and quit her job to...
Forum: Political Issues 07-15-2013, 11:57 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
You must have misunderstood. The case for...

You must have misunderstood. The case for imputing income is only a contingency in the event that one parent maliciously decides to reduce their income in order to get away with paying less for...
Forum: Political Issues 07-15-2013, 08:40 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 7,455
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
For the record, I expressed to my lawyer recently...

For the record, I expressed to my lawyer recently that I feared that my ex would quit her job, so I would have to pay extra support.
He said not to worry about it, because a judge would just impugn...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-15-2013, 07:03 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,290
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I'm not talking about dehumanizing them. They...

I'm not talking about dehumanizing them. They are still humans. Just treat them like a stranger that you have to have interactions with. Be polite, and courteous, yet where they go at the end of...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2013, 12:36 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
That's exactly what I believe her problem to be...

That's exactly what I believe her problem to be as well. She misrepresented her income, I caught her and called her on it, so now she is losing out on the extra money.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2013, 12:32 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
The legal action was only out of necessity for my...

The legal action was only out of necessity for my own comfort and privacy.
She kept, and continues to, coming to the house while I'm not home. I asked her on numerous occasions to stop, and she...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2013, 08:49 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I have filed police complaints against her, and...

I have filed police complaints against her, and served her with a trespass notice because she kept coming onto my property when I wasn't around (and still does).
I'm sure my lawyer also understand...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2013, 08:07 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
For the record, she has been the one to...

For the record, she has been the one to constantly "drop by" my house to drop off letters in my mailbox, she dumped off someone else's garbage in my lawn, she constantly kept breaking into the house...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2013, 06:36 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Well, it seems I have a whole new legal mess on...

Well, it seems I have a whole new legal mess on my hands now that pales in comparison to this one.
She wrote a letter to my lawyer, essentially saying that I've been stalking and harassing her.
I...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2013, 11:55 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
I have an appointment with my lawyer on Tuesday...

I have an appointment with my lawyer on Tuesday to get a motion for change filed.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2013, 10:57 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,639
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
So, rounding the corner on this. I sent her a...

So, rounding the corner on this.
I sent her a letter, registered mail at the end of May, providing her with my 2012 notice of assessment. I also printed off the way support is calculated from the...
Forum: Divorce Support 06-17-2013, 09:20 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,290
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
And that's exactly what I want, Tayken. I guess...

And that's exactly what I want, Tayken. I guess "as a stranger" is putting it a bit harshly.
But, all in all, that's how I would like to be treated. Have no feelings toward me, so I can have none...
Forum: Divorce Support 06-17-2013, 04:47 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,290
Posted By notadeadbeatdad72
Mine has been the cause of a lot of frustrations...

Mine has been the cause of a lot of frustrations over the past couple years of separation. She just up and left me one day, no warning, and a half-assed explanation (we need some time apart, blah,...
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