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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-03-2018, 12:03 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,693
Posted By HappyMomma
No one is denying him the ability to see his...

No one is denying him the ability to see his children. She's not ready to go back and I don't want to force her until she is.

I feel like you are seeing the world through rose coloured glasses. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-03-2018, 11:26 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,693
Posted By HappyMomma
If we were dealing with a rational person,...

If we were dealing with a rational person, absolutely. We are not.

We aren't talking about 'yelling' at her because she did something wrong. We all lose our tempers sometimes. We are talking...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-03-2018, 10:24 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,693
Posted By HappyMomma
How much say does 12 year old have?

Hello Everyone. It's been a long time since I've posted here. Hope you are all well.

I have shared/joint custody of 2 girls with my ex, ages 12 and 13. About 3 weeks ago, my ex told the 12 year...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-16-2016, 11:34 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 409
Posted By HappyMomma
Can legal fee deductions be used to reduce CS

Hey Everyone - I'm hoping someone has some insight on this.

Legal fees incurred for the purposes of obtaining CS are deductible on line 221 of your tax return. It's a weird spot, but that's where...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2016, 11:27 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 453
Posted By HappyMomma
I've been through this myself. The payor can pay...

I've been through this myself. The payor can pay the recipient on their own until things are set up. They will need to show proof to FRO that the payments were made. That's what I did. I paid by...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2016, 07:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,287
Posted By HappyMomma
I'm self represented right now. Do you know...

I'm self represented right now.

Do you know if the the judge can make new orders at this meeting?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2016, 01:05 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,287
Posted By HappyMomma
Disputing a draft order

My ex is disputing our draft order. He does not disagree with the wording of the order (he agrees it matches what the judge wrote), he is disagreeing with the content. In his words, "the judge...
Forum: Political Issues 02-25-2016, 09:05 AM
Replies: 69
Views: 8,952
Posted By HappyMomma
It is extremely clear who is benefiting from this...

It is extremely clear who is benefiting from this behaviour and it is NOT the child.

A parent who truly loves their child and wants the best for them would NEVER put them through this no matter...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2016, 08:35 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,256
Posted By HappyMomma
I 100% disagree with both of you. I have 3...

I 100% disagree with both of you.

I have 3 children and my partner and I have 2 together. While the first three children may call my partner by his name, he is still their step dad. We are...
Forum: Political Issues 02-19-2016, 09:17 AM
Replies: 69
Views: 8,952
Posted By HappyMomma
I feel terrible for that poor boy! What a way to...

I feel terrible for that poor boy! What a way to grow up.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2016, 10:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 602
Posted By HappyMomma
My understanding is that you can't file anything...

My understanding is that you can't file anything for 6 months. You best bet is to run down to the court house and ask though.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-12-2016, 03:15 PM
Replies: 5
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Views: 1,011
Posted By HappyMomma
If the child is with you 70% of the time then you...

If the child is with you 70% of the time then you do not pay her support. End of story. Who cares how much she makes? Put your effort into proving the child is with you 70%. Keep a calendar, take...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-05-2016, 08:59 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,942
Posted By HappyMomma
Currently, more men are the higher income earners...

Currently, more men are the higher income earners than women so of course the statistics reflect that. But that is changing, and the number of women being taking to the cleaners is on the rise as...
Forum: Political Issues 02-04-2016, 09:05 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,297
Posted By HappyMomma
I think that's a great idea Links.

I think that's a great idea Links.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2016, 08:51 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,942
Posted By HappyMomma
How about we stop using the terms 'man' and...

How about we stop using the terms 'man' and 'woman' and start using 'higher' and 'lower income earner'. I'm a woman and my ex tried to take me to the cleaners as well. Goes BOTH WAYS.

My...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2016, 03:05 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,240
Posted By HappyMomma
I was forced to file a contempt motion against my...

I was forced to file a contempt motion against my ex but it wasn't for access so my experience is not quite as relevant. I filed because my ex refused to sign passport applications which he had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2016, 12:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 726
Posted By HappyMomma
She's not allowed to not have no income. You...

She's not allowed to not have no income. You need to impute her to AT LEAST minimum wage. If your lawyer is not doing this then get a new one asap!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2016, 10:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 726
Posted By HappyMomma
My understanding is that you have to request that...

My understanding is that you have to request that some or all of the costs be considered child support for the purpose of enforcement through FRO.

If she has little to no income, they could also...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2016, 09:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 955
Posted By HappyMomma
It's actually Line 221 ...

It's actually Line 221 (http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/tx/ndvdls/tpcs/ncm-tx/rtrn/cmpltng/ddctns/lns206-236/221/menu-eng.html)that you claim the deduction on.

I do believe you'll have difficulty...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-18-2016, 02:58 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,587
Posted By HappyMomma
Hm. I don't see them on Canlii. If you want you...

Hm. I don't see them on Canlii. If you want you can PM me your email address and I can email them to you.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-18-2016, 01:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,587
Posted By HappyMomma
I'm asking that my ex reimburse me by making...

I'm asking that my ex reimburse me by making payments instead of a lump sum and we are quoting the following cases:

Lee v Lee [2003]
Laufer v Laufer [2006]
Woodridge v Hayes [2004]
De Jong v De...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2016, 12:11 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,528
Posted By HappyMomma
For a young person you are very wise YoungDad. :)

For a young person you are very wise YoungDad. :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2016, 03:39 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 6,528
Posted By HappyMomma
You are shit out of luck. Your ex does not need...

You are shit out of luck. Your ex does not need to demonstate a need for more money - it is assumed now that he has the children more than 60% of the time. The law is cut and dry on this one - you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-29-2015, 03:04 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,387
Posted By HappyMomma
OMG I'm jealous! You filed your motion to change...

OMG I'm jealous! You filed your motion to change in Aug and have a case conference for Oct??? I filed April 1st and my case conference was Aug 31. Now I have permission to move ahead with my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-29-2015, 11:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 544
Posted By HappyMomma
Proof of Job Search

At our case conference I requested my ex's job search records - as he was on EI and was required to keep records, this should have been easy for him to provide. He admitted that he has none.

I am...
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