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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-22-2020, 10:49 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By Elomelo8387
I hear you and I’m trying to be fair and...

I hear you and I’m trying to be fair and cognizant of that but my ex always feels like he is the victim and getting the short end of the stick. He still is in denial of the problems of our...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-20-2020, 11:01 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By Elomelo8387
Honestly it looks like it’s getting to that...

Honestly it looks like it’s getting to that point. I just wanted to save all that money.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-20-2020, 06:56 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By Elomelo8387
Exclamation Offer to Settle- Access Motion- Thoughts?

Hi,

Looking for some insight. Trying to put together a settlement offer before my ex tries to proceed to a motion. Backstory: Ex is in Mtl. I am in Oakville. We have a 3 year old. He lives with me...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2020, 11:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 948
Posted By Elomelo8387
So he currently has every other weekend for the...

So he currently has every other weekend for the distance and splitting the holidays.
Now he wants to have a schedule for one week a month before our kid starts kindergarten. But he doesn’t want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2020, 10:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 296
Posted By Elomelo8387
What is a reasonable offer? I was offering to...

What is a reasonable offer? I was offering to continue half the weekends and half the holidays and extra time in the summer. I don’t mind giving up more time but our son is so small now.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2020, 08:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 296
Posted By Elomelo8387
Access motion and costs

Hello,

So I recently received a letter from the ex’s lawyer that they are getting a date for case conference to schedule a motion to fight for access and will be going after full costs. So...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 11:49 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 316
Posted By Elomelo8387
I have. I have tried to make a reasonable offer...

I have. I have tried to make a reasonable offer that my lawyer said would be the likely outcome but he’s not on board. Then I made another offer that was even better that should have been accepted...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-25-2020, 11:33 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 948
Posted By Elomelo8387
But if he pulls an unreasonable motion I would...

But if he pulls an unreasonable motion I would have to respond and it would cost money. In this regard would I be eligible to have my costs refunded. It seems so silly I need to pay for all of this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 11:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 316
Posted By Elomelo8387
Status Quo

If a custody access situation has been occurring for a while (i.e. a little over a year or so) with one person having taking primary care of the kids and no court order— can an eligible argument be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-25-2020, 10:06 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 948
Posted By Elomelo8387
Access motion

Can someone explain what an access motion is? I am getting threats of my ex going to pull one but logically it doesn’t make sense. He sees the kid when he can. Never have I stopped him but now...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-18-2020, 11:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 272
Posted By Elomelo8387
Mortgage renewal of joint property

Hi ladies and gentlemen,

I’m separated and I jointly own a property with my ex. The mortgage is up for renewal. We don’t have a SA agreement yet. Are these any legal ramifications for renewing a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 05:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 635
Posted By Elomelo8387
Original plan was he would join me but now since...

Original plan was he would join me but now since it’s hit the courts he is singing a different tune. The child would have always remained with me since dad was never very hands on and I had a much...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 04:45 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 344
Posted By Elomelo8387
Apreciate***

Apreciate***
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 04:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 635
Posted By Elomelo8387
Honestly his numbers don’t make sense. He is...

Honestly his numbers don’t make sense. He is paying about $1100 for CS. Not paid for daycare till this date. He has not paid any s7. He is estimating $600 for access costs per month including but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 03:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 635
Posted By Elomelo8387
So for settlement I was going to offer every...

So for settlement I was going to offer every other weekend, his choice on half the star holidays - we both work for government agencies so they are the same. Alternating Christmas breaks, two weeks...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 03:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 344
Posted By Elomelo8387
Thank you. I speculate this comment a lot. I...

Thank you. I speculate this comment a lot. I didn’t think of it this way. Your right it wouldn’t be fair to him once you put it like this unless he already agreed.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 12:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 344
Posted By Elomelo8387
Hey. I would appreciate it if you have...

Hey. I would appreciate it if you have constructive feedback in its relation to extraordinary expenses. It’s a choice and i was very impressed with the extracurriculars and program it had and the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 10:27 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 635
Posted By Elomelo8387
It’s a little complicated. I did move away when...

It’s a little complicated. I did move away when I was married but it was a mutual decision and for better employment. The marriage dissolved about a year later but we were living at two different...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 10:23 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 344
Posted By Elomelo8387
I didn’t know it was discussed. Sorry. Can you...

I didn’t know it was discussed. Sorry. Can you direct me to the thread. Thanks
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 03:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 344
Posted By Elomelo8387
Cool Private school and extraordinary expenses

Hi all,

Is private school an extraordinary expense?

I feel if my ex and I work together we can afford it for our only child but he feels public is just as good and says he can’t afford it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 03:22 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 635
Posted By Elomelo8387
Smile Medical issue and holiday time and cancellation of driving

Good morning gents and ladies,
Looking for some opinions and preferably references to caselaw if applicable
My ex and I live about 5 hours apart and have been separated for over a year. He isn’t...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2020, 01:20 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 518
Posted By Elomelo8387
Smile Points for Separation Agreement

What are some points you are glad you put in your SA or wished you had put in? I am sure this topic has been discussed so any attachment to threads appreciated. I would like to have as much detail as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2020, 09:25 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 653
Posted By Elomelo8387
Seek legal advice and make sure you have a mutual...

Seek legal advice and make sure you have a mutual date of separation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2020, 09:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 474
Posted By Elomelo8387
Ontario Courts Opening For Family Law Proceedings

Good Day Everyone,



Can anyone provide me some information or links to when the courts will open and resume taking cases again? I heard it may be sometime in November 2020 but priority will...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2020, 11:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 463
Posted By Elomelo8387
Hi The thing with Covid is that the...

Hi
The thing with Covid is that the recommendations are always kind of changing and it’s serious but life seems to be moving forward. If you deny him and he takes them anyway it kind of defeats the...
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