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Forum: Parenting Issues 12-21-2017, 10:37 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,159
Posted By singledad99
I have tried every possible scenario of rules but...

I have tried every possible scenario of rules but he just does not cooperate. His entire focus on finding loopholes and then we are back to discussion table again. I have offered him to go to...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-21-2017, 10:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 945
Posted By singledad99
I am mentally prepared for this scenario. So if...

I am mentally prepared for this scenario. So if he is 18, how long more I have to pay his the CS?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2017, 01:35 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 945
Posted By singledad99
Child support for 18 years old university drop out

Hi

Here is my quick question.

Can my 18 years old sue me for child support? He just dropped out of university and is now doing a part time job. If you wanna read the full story, please see my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-20-2017, 01:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,159
Posted By singledad99
18 years old son behaving totally out of control

Hello group

I have been gone for several years, just busy with new wife, kids, job, other stuff.

So ten years ago I got divorced and ex gave me the sole custody. She then challenged her own...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2013, 01:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 645
Posted By singledad99
They are asking the name on the divorce...

They are asking the name on the divorce certificate should be same as it is on the marriage certificate. I had a similar para in my divorce order and seems to be a standard procedure if names on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2012, 10:13 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,582
Posted By singledad99
I think the four-way meeting could be good if...

I think the four-way meeting could be good if both parties are willing to resolve the issues. I wouldn't fight over nickles and dimes. In the end, you have to compare the cost vs. benefits of...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2012, 01:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,437
Posted By singledad99
In order for the SS to be deductible, you must...

In order for the SS to be deductible, you must have either a signed agreement or a court order. Such agreement or court order must be registered with CRA on their prescribed form. Once you do that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-15-2012, 11:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 4,098
Posted By singledad99
In my case, I made sure that the payment of lien...

In my case, I made sure that the payment of lien comes out of ex's equalization payment and got that in the settlement agreement that was subsequently translated into final order. My lawyer:

-Got...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2012, 03:07 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,038
Posted By singledad99
Best way to do this

There is a paragraph is our consent order that I can bring a motion for CS at will. But my lawyer says I cannot bring a motion because I never asked for CS in my original application. She said I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2012, 02:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,792
Posted By singledad99
I agree with Mess. Besides, once you open the...

I agree with Mess. Besides, once you open the door to exceptions it never shuts so its better to stick with the court order.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-14-2012, 01:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,852
Posted By singledad99
But it is about genders. In a case conference,...

But it is about genders. In a case conference, when the judge asked my ex how she was going to provide for our son. (my ex quit her job after separation because she was too busy with litigation) My...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2012, 04:36 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,986
Posted By singledad99
I, too, go with the consensus here. 50/50 of all...

I, too, go with the consensus here. 50/50 of all the assets and liabilities and make sure you don't assume debts from before marriage time and also don't split assets before marriage time....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2012, 03:32 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,767
Posted By singledad99
You can't force someone to co-parent with you....

You can't force someone to co-parent with you. There is really no need for both parents to be there at the appointments if one parent does not feel like it. What you can do is call the dentist and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2012, 04:53 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 3,943
Posted By singledad99
My son calls my now wife mom, purely out of his...

My son calls my now wife mom, purely out of his own choice. She came into his life when he was 9 years old. I have also seen other children doing the same. It really depends on the relationship the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2012, 04:59 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 844
Posted By singledad99
Costs when the court file is closed due to inactivity

Thought it was more appropriate to start own thread. :)

This is very useful information because I thought the ex could come back at any time and start haunting me again. When she filed the motion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2012, 12:41 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,414
Posted By singledad99
Not to hijack OP's thread but what if the...

Not to hijack OP's thread but what if the litigator does not pursue the matter anymore? My ex has made no move to her motion to vary custody order ever since she filed her dispute to OCL's report...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2012, 10:59 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,414
Posted By singledad99
I would not just let her withdraw without signing...

I would not just let her withdraw without signing an agreement that she will not bring forth any litigation in the future. Make sure you clearly state in the agreement that you are expressly or...
Forum: General Chat 10-02-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,705
Posted By singledad99
Well, in my experience most of the divorces are...

Well, in my experience most of the divorces are because of "other people". Those other people could be extended family members, people with whom spouses have affairs with, social workers trying to...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-28-2012, 09:42 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,105
Posted By singledad99
Welcome to the forum. Without any offense to...

Welcome to the forum.

Without any offense to women, yes family court system is biased against men. My ex quit her job after separation and then filed for increased SS. I had to give it to her to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2012, 02:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,970
Posted By singledad99
If there are no kids involved, you don't need to...

If there are no kids involved, you don't need to have a signed SA to go with an uncontested divorce application.

If you have kids, the judge might ask for written agreement that deals with custody...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-25-2012, 04:10 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,812
Posted By singledad99
I am one of those who have children and yet paid...

I am one of those who have children and yet paid SS for over 4 years to someone who chose to be unemployed (and still does). As a matter of fact she quit the job she found right after separation...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-25-2012, 03:02 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 5,047
Posted By singledad99
Legally, it is not your business how much her...

Legally, it is not your business how much her expenses are and whether or not she is paying anything to her parents.

If the amount was calculated based on child support table, there is nothing you...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-20-2012, 11:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 7,677
Posted By singledad99
You can't force someone to be reasonable. ...

You can't force someone to be reasonable.

Having said that, you may try sending a final offer with a reasonable deadline failing to accept which, you will bring a court application with costs.
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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2012, 10:12 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,634
Posted By singledad99
My ex too ignores my emails/messages. This was...

My ex too ignores my emails/messages. This was causing great disappointments to our son. So, one day I decided to stop bothering her. I learnt that children adapt very quickly and my son became...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2012, 02:30 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,593
Posted By singledad99
My ex and her lawyer would win the race without a...

My ex and her lawyer would win the race without a question.:D
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