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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-02-2010, 10:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,048
Posted By #1StepMom
As I'm sure many of us have been told by judges,...

As I'm sure many of us have been told by judges, mediators, lawyers, etc.... when the children are in your care, you are responsible for ensuring they are cared for when you are unable to do so....
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-31-2010, 08:13 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,388
Posted By #1StepMom
Have your children tried telling their dad that...

Have your children tried telling their dad that they don't feel comfortable doing so? Perhaps encouraging them to speak honestly to him will help him realize that it's not about what you want... but...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2010, 08:11 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,988
Posted By #1StepMom
The recipient will be calling FRO today (or...

The recipient will be calling FRO today (or tomorrow) to inform them of her calculations, which match ours exactly. We just have to wait and see what happens.

It's not so much the $300 we're...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-30-2010, 08:26 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,388
Posted By #1StepMom
Or you can simply threaten with FRO... "Ex,...

Or you can simply threaten with FRO...

"Ex, I have previously expressed to you my feelings about our children being put in the middle with regards to your method of delivering their child support...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2010, 11:20 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,988
Posted By #1StepMom
Ha! If only this were possible! Any "extra" money...

Ha! If only this were possible! Any "extra" money sent her way is always viewed as a "gift" and never sent back. We've been through this in the past... with FRO withdrawing more than they should and...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2010, 08:02 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,988
Posted By #1StepMom
Are they costly? Because if we have to pay...

Are they costly? Because if we have to pay $300/hr for a lawyer, we'd rather just pay that $300 to FRO and move on. At this point, given all the headaches we've experienced (and not just on this...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2010, 06:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,988
Posted By #1StepMom
Both my husband and I have said this to them on...

Both my husband and I have said this to them on numerous occasions. Yet the continue to believe that their computer is always right, and that they must enforce what the computer tells them.

It's...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-28-2010, 05:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,988
Posted By #1StepMom
FRO Discrepencies - Any Advice?

I know that ideally, the best course of action is to take the matter to our local MPP. However, we would like to make sure that we have followed all the steps prior to doing so.

The problem: FRO...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-26-2010, 08:29 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,938
Posted By #1StepMom
I'm just wondering... is his access schedule very...

I'm just wondering... is his access schedule very regular or does it change often? For example, with an every-other-weekend schedule, it would be difficult to forget that every-other-Friday, you are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2010, 04:51 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,743
Posted By #1StepMom
This is what we ended up doing... it's simply...

This is what we ended up doing... it's simply easier that way. Even though our court order states that we may have 3 hours with the little guy on or around his birthday if we don't have regular...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2010, 04:49 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,743
Posted By #1StepMom
I assume your son is not yet in school. I hope...

I assume your son is not yet in school. I hope you have a plan for when he's school age and his birthday falls on a school day. :-)

(It never hurts to think ahead!)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2010, 11:06 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,743
Posted By #1StepMom
Our court order states that if a parent doesn't...

Our court order states that if a parent doesn't have custody/access time with the child within 3 days befor or after his birthday, than that parent shall have 3hrs access to the child on or around...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2010, 08:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,319
Posted By #1StepMom
Thanks for the ideas guys! We actually...

Thanks for the ideas guys!

We actually considered Play It Again Sports as there is one not to far from our home. I will try to find a hockey swap... after all, my husband and I go to ski swaps...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2010, 06:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,825
Posted By #1StepMom
Hello and welcome. Your situation echos...

Hello and welcome.

Your situation echos that of my husband 8 years ago.

I would suggest to wait until you determine paternity. As soon as you have proof that you are the father, it will be...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2010, 06:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,319
Posted By #1StepMom
Hockey Equipment - Extraordinary Expense?

During one of our past court dates, a judge explained that extracurricular activities and costs associated with them are included in child support, with the exception of more elite activities such as...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-11-2010, 05:16 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,857
Posted By #1StepMom
FYI - FRO will not make any changes to the...

FYI - FRO will not make any changes to the support amount unless they receive a court order. This can be an order made by the judge, or a consent order signed by the parties, signed and sealed by the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-10-2010, 02:01 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,089
Posted By #1StepMom
It seems that your husband is playing some...

It seems that your husband is playing some spiteful games. I would retain legal counsel and file a motion for divorce, especially custody and support. As for the house, it most situations the parent...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-10-2010, 11:56 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,089
Posted By #1StepMom
CMG, let me share something with you from our...

CMG, let me share something with you from our experience. My husband and his son's mother were never together, and when their son was born they decided to try to reach a custody and support agreement...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-09-2010, 02:11 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,472
Posted By #1StepMom
Thank you NBDad. You are completely correct. My...

Thank you NBDad. You are completely correct. My husband and I never speak poorly of his mother around him, nor do we act in any way that would give the child any idea that we dislike her. We are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-09-2010, 02:03 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,472
Posted By #1StepMom
Thank you for the clarification. Let me ask...

Thank you for the clarification. Let me ask you... if you - at any point in your life - felt regret, severe depression, resentment, etc., from a situation such as that which occured to my husband at...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2010, 01:42 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,763
Posted By #1StepMom
Exactly. That is the purpose of child support......

Exactly. That is the purpose of child support... especially in situations that are not 50/50. Ideally, all parents would have shared custody, but that is not always feasible. If it is possible......
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2010, 01:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 779
Posted By #1StepMom
This might help: Line 156 and 128 - Support...

This might help: Line 156 and 128 - Support payments received (http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/tx/ndvdls/tpcs/ncm-tx/rtrn/cmpltng/rprtng-ncm/lns101-170/128/menu-eng.html) and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-09-2010, 12:51 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,472
Posted By #1StepMom
Dear Billm, I thought we had settled this....

Dear Billm,

I thought we had settled this. I have already explained to you that, given the amount of new members and new situations (that aren't divorces), this is in no way ill-intentioned. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2010, 07:07 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,831
Posted By #1StepMom
NBDad, one of the first things we did was ask fir...

NBDad, one of the first things we did was ask fir a written explanation of their arrears calculations and credit guarantee. They told us they don't issue things like that.... that their computer...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2010, 09:56 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 779
Posted By #1StepMom
If you are the payor... before CS/SS is paid. ...

If you are the payor... before CS/SS is paid.
If you are the recipient... after CS/SS is received.

Quite simply, you use the amount on line 150 of your Tax Return and Notice of Assessment.
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