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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2022, 02:03 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 222
Posted By Stillbreathing
Take a deep breath, crack open a bottle of wine...

Take a deep breath, crack open a bottle of wine and make a toast to yourself for how well you’ve handled your manipulate ex thus far. You have taken the high road and that is something to be proud...
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-08-2022, 11:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 457
Posted By Stillbreathing
Agree with you. Separation and divorce in and of...

Agree with you. Separation and divorce in and of itself is immensely stressful and can cause someone to develop a major depressive disorder( situational crisis). Separation is also one of the risk...
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-08-2022, 09:42 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 457
Posted By Stillbreathing
Toronto RN tries to kill daughter, blames family court

Interesting article in the Toronto star about a Toronto RN who injected her 19 month old daughter with insulin, left a murder-suicide note blaming the family court judge for granting her ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2022, 08:02 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 312
Posted By Stillbreathing
Mum doesn’t have final decision making unless a...

Mum doesn’t have final decision making unless a judge orders it. A judge will carefully scrutinize an OCL or access report and will not necessarily come to the same conclusion that the OCL did. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2022, 08:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 405
Posted By Stillbreathing
Self help measures are actions you take without a...

Self help measures are actions you take without a court giving you permission in order to help yourself and without your ex’s permission. In your example above that would mean you change schools...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2022, 08:06 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 468
Posted By Stillbreathing
My ex paid cs inconsistently during our 10 plus...

My ex paid cs inconsistently during our 10 plus year litigation. He also paid about only 1/3 of what he should have been paying now that he has finally disclosed most of the requested financials. We...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-18-2022, 10:40 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 781
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your son is 13, he is NOT at an age where he gets...

Your son is 13, he is NOT at an age where he gets to decide, especially not in the case of his mother moving unilaterally across the country! A judge will put a stop to your ex moving your son. She...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 11:38 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 781
Posted By Stillbreathing
Does she already have a job in Alberta? Does she...

Does she already have a job in Alberta? Does she have a date in mind? If she does you may want to bring an urgent motion to prevent her from taking your son which you will 100% be granted.

All...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2022, 10:00 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 205
Posted By Stillbreathing
Unfortunately the dark side don’t have to justify...

Unfortunately the dark side don’t have to justify why they are requesting bank statements, they can simply request them and a judge or arbitrator will order disclosure. In my case we litigated for...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2022, 05:56 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 233
Posted By Stillbreathing
You have to disclose every asset and investment...

You have to disclose every asset and investment including your TFSA after the date of separation. You have to disclose everything, even an inheritance which is an excluded asset.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2022, 08:26 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 314
Posted By Stillbreathing
Mediation is voluntary for both parties. It...

Mediation is voluntary for both parties. It appears to be causing a problem as your ex is using it as a stall tactic and is refusing to sign the agreement. Simple solution: eliminate mediation as an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-13-2022, 08:12 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 335
Posted By Stillbreathing
An OCL or custody/access report can always be...

An OCL or custody/access report can always be challenged. According to my lawyer, the report is nothing but expensive toilet paper until it has been produced as evidence at trial and the author has...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2022, 08:46 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 335
Posted By Stillbreathing
One of the dangers of forcing the sale of the...

One of the dangers of forcing the sale of the matrimonial home is that the funds are not immediately divided up and given to each spouse. The funds are held in trust by a lawyer. If you and your...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2022, 08:56 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 537
Posted By Stillbreathing
Agree with Rockscan. In addition you will need a...

Agree with Rockscan. In addition you will need a family lawyer who also has specialized training to as an appeals lawyer. Not every family lawyer can launch an appeal for you. The retainer alone for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-04-2022, 02:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 289
Posted By Stillbreathing
Is there an order that she has to allow daily...

Is there an order that she has to allow daily phone calls on her parenting time?
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-28-2022, 08:43 AM
Replies: 124
Views: 3,393
Posted By Stillbreathing
I agree with respondent. Your actions indicate...

I agree with respondent. Your actions indicate you were NOT supervising. You were spying! A judge would also see it that way. When is your next court date? The judge will likely order somebody else...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-26-2022, 07:26 PM
Replies: 124
Views: 3,393
Posted By Stillbreathing
Agree with Kate 331. You should not be...

Agree with Kate 331. You should not be supervising ANY visits. As a supervisor you are not supposed to hide out of sight! As a supervisor you are supposed to be with the child and the parent at all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-13-2022, 11:33 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 212
Posted By Stillbreathing
During my virtual arbitration my lawyers and I...

During my virtual arbitration my lawyers and I emailed back and forth. They responded quickly and this was extremely effective.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-10-2022, 09:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 397
Posted By Stillbreathing
You should count yourself lucky. You’ve ONLY been...

You should count yourself lucky. You’ve ONLY been litigating for 5 years. Try over 10 years and still not over. My situation has many similarities to yours my ex is high conflict and has dragged out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-09-2022, 10:05 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 514
Posted By Stillbreathing
Is your ex still out of the country? Is your...

Is your ex still out of the country?
Is your matter still before the courts or do you have a final order that has dealt with all issues?
A divorce can be granted without consent during ongoing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2022, 09:17 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 514
Posted By Stillbreathing
You need to get a lawyer to review your case....

You need to get a lawyer to review your case. Anonymous strangers on the internet is not where you should turn
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2022, 11:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 787
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your arguments. 1.Payment of extra s7. Do...

Your arguments.

1.Payment of extra s7. Do you have receipts for these expenses and do you have proof that you asked your ex to contribute and she denied? If you don’t have any such evidence to...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-03-2022, 03:10 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,964
Posted By Stillbreathing
My ex assaulted our children as well. He did have...

My ex assaulted our children as well. He did have a no contact order as far as the kids but was allowed to contact me. We were not yet litigating in family court. He was following his bail conditions...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-02-2022, 01:27 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,964
Posted By Stillbreathing
There is currently a criminal court no contact...

There is currently a criminal court no contact order so that is what you follow. You or your ex can bring the matter back to family court at which point your ex may be allowed supervised access to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-01-2022, 01:48 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 524
Posted By Stillbreathing
HelenJ congratulations on not giving up, seeing...

HelenJ congratulations on not giving up, seeing it through and actually getting an order, though not entirely what you wanted, it did provide for some unsupervised access. Now take a step back and...
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