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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2022, 01:10 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 99
Posted By iona6656
Your situation is complicated. You really should...

Your situation is complicated. You really should seek legal advice from a lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2022, 01:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 294
Posted By iona6656
The problem with this- is that the people who are...

The problem with this- is that the people who are intent on litigating; the truly high conflict parents- wouldn't listen to it. They would just mosey their way on to court after pretending to listen....
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-14-2022, 01:50 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 457
Posted By iona6656
Apparently- she isn't going to be okay- she will...

Apparently- she isn't going to be okay- she will always have disabilities and likely die young. It's so tragic. This 'mother' is a monster.

As to your other points- I agree.

Unless there are...
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-12-2022, 02:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 457
Posted By iona6656
In my experience- the coaching for separating...

In my experience- the coaching for separating families- the divorce classes required both parents to attend. Catholic family services was the agency I reached out to at the beginning and they...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2022, 02:26 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 254
Posted By iona6656
How would you even calculate "profit"? ...

How would you even calculate "profit"?

Given the Tables were introduced in 2017...take a look at what has happened to housing costs, and general inflation since then?
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2022, 01:05 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 254
Posted By iona6656
Also- I just use the table amount. And I could be...

Also- I just use the table amount. And I could be wrong- but I don't believe cost of living factors into child support at all. It sucks for the parent who has primary care and is buying the majority...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2022, 01:04 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 254
Posted By iona6656
That's at least a tank of gas- and it helps your...

That's at least a tank of gas- and it helps your son. I think it depends on your financial circumstance- but I would definitely leave it alone for an extra $100/month.

Do you guys exchange...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2022, 11:21 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 254
Posted By iona6656
How far is your ex travelling to visit? How...

How far is your ex travelling to visit?

How old is your son?

Do you guys have a formal agreement?
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2022, 04:05 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 685
Posted By iona6656
so your question is what? how do you secure...

so your question is what?

how do you secure sole custody/decision making?
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2022, 12:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 685
Posted By iona6656
on the case law I've read- just because you...

on the case law I've read- just because you refuse to communicate doesn't mean that that is sufficient evidence that communication is impossible.

the flip side is my ex tried to argue that we...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2022, 11:19 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 262
Posted By iona6656
once you're making over 100k, quibbling over S7-...

once you're making over 100k, quibbling over S7- unless you're talking private school- seems silly.

also- is this the only reason she filed against you- was to correctly apportion S7? I would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2022, 09:54 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 781
Posted By iona6656
i agree with the rest of the posters about...

i agree with the rest of the posters about consulting a lawyer...

just wondering though- would OP be open/able to relocate to Alberta as well? I mean- it's just a thought. It doesn't seem like OP...
Forum: Domestic Violence 08-10-2022, 11:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,925
Posted By iona6656
honestly reading about it- and experiencing it...

honestly reading about it- and experiencing it are so different. Especially because with situations of abuse- there are are so many weird power dynamics at play. I really think the best course of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-10-2022, 11:03 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 335
Posted By iona6656
Did you or the assessor disclose to the other...

Did you or the assessor disclose to the other parent that you were sharing the messages? If not- the other parent could successfully challenge the report.

I don't know that you have the grounds...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2022, 10:39 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 1,522
Posted By iona6656
It me! I am said Stupid Anxious...

It me!

I am said Stupid Anxious Parent....I'll qualify that I have a kid who's lips swell double their size for a multitude of allergies. And my ex definitely has a some kind of mental health...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-29-2022, 11:33 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,925
Posted By iona6656
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I...

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

I was diagnosed with PTSD as well- and like you I was really kinda shocked when I met the criteria. lol. I had to work on all kindsa stuff like 'fear...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2022, 11:23 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 1,522
Posted By iona6656
I'm with Tayken- parenting time ends with start...

I'm with Tayken- parenting time ends with start of school day.

Our exchanges are done at school during the school year. For summer/vacation- exchanges are between 10-11am.
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:52 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 13,871
Posted By iona6656
Again- mothers spend the same thing. ...

Again- mothers spend the same thing.

lol@"earning" the right. No one earns anything in family court- everyone just loses.

That website is for *PARENTS* who fail to pay the proper CS. Do you...
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:48 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 13,871
Posted By iona6656
it's weird that you think in this scenario- it's...

it's weird that you think in this scenario- it's not costing the mom anything. Does she have a magic fairy legal godmother? I guess some qualify for legal aid- but not most don't.

And Table CS...
Forum: General Chat 07-27-2022, 01:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 362
Posted By iona6656
Um, not buy the house? buy a condo instead. Rent....

Um, not buy the house? buy a condo instead. Rent. If you can't qualify for a mortgage on your own- then there's probably a good chance you can't carry household expenses on your own. It sucks. The...
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:39 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 315
Posted By iona6656
Yes. you are missing something. If you have...

Yes. you are missing something.

If you have an order from the court- it typically provides for adjustment of CS.

Why would the CRA be involved in adjusting the payment.

If the other party...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 01:27 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 13,871
Posted By iona6656
^this. The rest of you "what about terrible...

^this.

The rest of you "what about terrible moms?!?!?!?!?!" are spouting made up nonsense statistics.

The stories about the father's killing themselves. Sad when that happens- but it's not on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:31 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 605
Posted By iona6656
Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's...

Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's gf/wife tried to insert herself into a mother's day event with our daughter. Quietly, of course- and likely to my therapist. But I totally get where...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:29 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 605
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you that we all have to...

I don't disagree with you that we all have to work with the partners our ex's choose to bring into our kids life- we all have no say.

However, in my opinion, I do think it's important to have...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-06-2022, 10:43 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,964
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to walk back my comment about the...

I'm going to walk back my comment about the urgent motion and agree with Stillbreathing here.

Maybe not an urgent motion. But I would be bringing some kind of action in family court. My concern...
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