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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2021, 03:41 PM
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Posted By StillPaying
At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an...

At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an agreement can be made, by way of offering opinions or scare tactics, then move forward towards trial. If it's obvious and reasonable, an interim...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2021, 07:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 179
Posted By StillPaying
You're overthinking this. It's still a...

You're overthinking this. It's still a conference so don't stress.

You need a lawyer to know whether witnesses and/or experts are needed. The judge is trying to get an idea of how long a trial...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2021, 06:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 315
Posted By StillPaying
This. If you've been living there alone for...

This. If you've been living there alone for years though and ex starts causing issues, then you may have a good case for an exclusive order.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Not everyone goes through trial, not everyone...

Not everyone goes through trial, not everyone gets imputed, but if you have no experience and are speaking in tongue, for the benefit of future observers, it is wrong. It's OK to step back a bit and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2021, 01:09 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Ex lost a disclosure request. Nothing to do with...

Ex lost a disclosure request. Nothing to do with imputation. You didn't have trial, witnesses, cross examination, etc. Linking your experience to imputation doesn't mesh.
Sorry, but I would have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 11:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 325
Posted By StillPaying
"In affidavit form" to me suggests you would...

"In affidavit form" to me suggests you would swear your answers to be true, and 3rd parties would get their letters sworn as well before providing them to your ex. Just because something is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 10:57 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
This was a motion for disclosure, not trial to...

This was a motion for disclosure, not trial to impute. Ex failed to show the disclosure was necessary or that your husband was underemployed. Disclosure and imputing are really two separate issues....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2021, 09:18 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,296
Posted By StillPaying
OCL will simply read their recommendations. Work...

OCL will simply read their recommendations. Work with your ex right away at the end of the meeting to reinstate your access. If they're delaying, and assuming it's in your favour, book a motion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 08:57 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Requesting disclosure is helping the other side...

Requesting disclosure is helping the other side prove their case. The onus is on them to show evidence of efforts. Available jobs, their resume, etc are a part of your own research, used for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 08:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 325
Posted By StillPaying
You swearing someone else is telling the truth...

You swearing someone else is telling the truth has no value.
3rd Parties swearing their own affidavit would have little value.
Calling 3rd Parties as witness to be cross examined, high value (if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 03:47 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Obviously this was not at trial. It's a much...

Obviously this was not at trial. It's a much different beast.
But you're definitely mixed up.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 03:42 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
You ask them straight up, as well as for their...

You ask them straight up, as well as for their Financials.

They're either not working (unemployed), or not making the full time income you believe they should(underemployed). Underemployed may...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 03:35 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
They did at my trial when I used Drygala to...

They did at my trial when I used Drygala to impute my ex a full time salary.



You're mixing it up. Purposely not working? They're either working or they are not.

Arbortrail's onus is to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 12:55 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
You're either unemployed or underemployed, not...

You're either unemployed or underemployed, not both.

Arbortrail22 and his ex both agree ex is not working. Proving over. Now it's on ex to prove why, not Arbortail22 and he certainly shouldn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 12:18 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Start with the premise that every parent must...

Start with the premise that every parent must support their kids.

Unemployment is easier as there are always jobs available, even if they feel it's beneath them. Underemployed is a little tougher...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2021, 10:03 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
Unfortunately, that doesn't really mean much. ...

Unfortunately, that doesn't really mean much. Who is paid their worth. Focus on what they make, what they could make, and whether a reasonable amount of time to become successful has been provided....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-03-2021, 03:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,296
Posted By StillPaying
Provide full financial disclosure, calculate what...

Provide full financial disclosure, calculate what the proper amount should be, and offer/pay that amount. If they don't believe the amount to be true, it'll be a trial issue regardless. But at least...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-03-2021, 01:31 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,296
Posted By StillPaying
Make sure you follow the rules for offers; write...

Make sure you follow the rules for offers; write it, sign it, and send to other party's lawyer.

What happened for your access to stop?
If your income was more when you just agreed to the cs...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2021, 01:24 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,093
Posted By StillPaying
The first step will be easy for you, proving...

The first step will be easy for you, proving unemployment. They are not working.

Then ex will have to prove why they can't work. They'll show evidence of efforts to find work as well as any...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2021, 11:43 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 602
Posted By StillPaying
Are you willing to cover travel costs or do the...

Are you willing to cover travel costs or do the driving?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-25-2021, 10:04 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 602
Posted By StillPaying
Is your ex fighting against the move or the $100...

Is your ex fighting against the move or the $100 (half travel)?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-25-2021, 12:47 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 602
Posted By StillPaying
The fact that you see zero affect on your child...

The fact that you see zero affect on your child tells me you're doing this for yourself and your dislike of your ex rather than for your child.

Would you accept less cs or do all driving?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-25-2021, 12:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 189
Posted By StillPaying
Access and support are separate issues, you can't...

Access and support are separate issues, you can't prevent access due to support. You should be seeking cs now regardless of access, but bio dad has full rights regardless of past wishes.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2021, 03:49 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 602
Posted By StillPaying
Speak with a lawyer before you take this to...

Speak with a lawyer before you take this to court. The debater in me sees that nothing you've said would make this a winning case for you; except that your ex agrees with it...

You've offered...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 07:52 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,033
Posted By StillPaying
This is sad. You have an agreement. You know he...

This is sad. You have an agreement. You know he is paying the amount you agreed on and you also know he is missing out on thousands of dollars over the years which you agreed to as well.

The...
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