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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2013, 01:58 PM
Replies: 12
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Views: 1,325
Posted By MiViLaLoco
When we first separated we simply exchanged via...

When we first separated we simply exchanged via daycare. One of us would drop off at the beginning of the day and the other would pick up at the end of the day.

We now do the same with the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2013, 09:49 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 751
Posted By MiViLaLoco
In our case it didn't take long to discover that...

In our case it didn't take long to discover that the "daily" quick phone call was upsetting to our child. We wanted it more than our child did and so we quickly altered it to our child calling the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2013, 11:33 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,093
Posted By MiViLaLoco
This site has a great resource called "14 Ways to...

This site has a great resource called "14 Ways to Protect Yourself Before Separation and Divorce" Ontario divorce laws - report (http://www.ottawadivorce.com/report.htm)

The best advice has...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-25-2013, 02:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,227
Posted By MiViLaLoco
I looked back through posts and answered my own...

I looked back through posts and answered my own questions...lol

Ok...so you are still in court fighting the paying of support for this "child" that is now an adult, not in full-time school, nor...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-25-2013, 01:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,227
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Is this your daughter...or the daughter of your...

Is this your daughter...or the daughter of your ex, who you lived commonlaw with? If not your biological daugher, how long were you together...and where is this adult girl's bioligical father?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2013, 06:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,508
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Everyone has given you great advice on stopping...

Everyone has given you great advice on stopping CS for your 19 year old who is not in school and working. As well as for the "special diet" for your other child being already covered by CS (after...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-11-2013, 04:36 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,286
Posted By MiViLaLoco
My ex and I separated 4 years ago when our child...

My ex and I separated 4 years ago when our child was 3 1/2. He is very high-conflict and I've dealt with negative comments right from the start.

All I've ever done is either ignore them, or...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2013, 09:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 744
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Ok...so a quick.solution. Since nothing is...

Ok...so a quick.solution. Since nothing is settled. Consider what you have already spent to be resolved in the settlement.

In the future have Dad take the children to anything involving an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-31-2013, 01:32 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,749
Posted By MiViLaLoco
I'm not sure if this has already been asked and...

I'm not sure if this has already been asked and answered...

Why not just do the exchange via the childcare provider?

My ex and I have been doing this from the start. He is very high...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2013, 01:47 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,097
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Congrats! My ex and I were pretty much the...

Congrats!

My ex and I were pretty much the same. A bit more back and forth...but start to finish in about 6 months. Majority of work ourselves. My bill just under $700. His a bit more due to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-12-2013, 01:39 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 4,551
Posted By MiViLaLoco
The starting point is 50/50. Best interest of...

The starting point is 50/50. Best interest of the child is to have 2 equally involved parents. Our child was 3 1/2 when we separated. No question of anything less than 50/50. We left each...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2012, 09:29 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 6,871
Posted By MiViLaLoco
My advice to you is to contact your local Laleche...

My advice to you is to contact your local Laleche League, or contact a mid-wife or doula. They will be better able to answer about your right to breastfeed at the meeting than a forum dedicated to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-15-2012, 09:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,561
Posted By MiViLaLoco
My ex and I realized very early on that for us to...

My ex and I realized very early on that for us to have a good working relationship with our child we needed to pick up and drop off in a neutral place. For this reason our pick ups and drop offs...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2012, 05:07 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,113
Posted By MiViLaLoco
My ex and I separated when our child was 3 1/2. ...

My ex and I separated when our child was 3 1/2. We went to 50/50 immediately and there were never any issues. Our child adjusted almost instantly. We took much longer!

Our child seeing each of...
Forum: General Chat 11-28-2012, 06:25 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 6,227
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Ok, so are you saying he wants to pay to have...

Ok, so are you saying he wants to pay to have them flown to him on New Years Day - January 1st - and keep them till Jan 10th?

My instinct would be to say sure...providing he will sign an...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2012, 12:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 637
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Check out this thread on here...has lots of...

Check out this thread on here...has lots of advice for what to include and how to word things...

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f5/sample-separation-agreement-7058/

...remember, you will...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2012, 09:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 637
Posted By MiViLaLoco
You do not need a lawyer to draft your separation...

You do not need a lawyer to draft your separation agreement if you are willing to do some research and do the work on your own. Also, if your ex is "willing and able" to work as a team to make sure a...
Forum: General Chat 11-03-2012, 12:41 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 5,256
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Oh My...my ex is very HCP, an emotional bully and...

Oh My...my ex is very HCP, an emotional bully and pretty much always wants his own way.

I "make it work" because let's face it...if we were still a couple he'd be in our child's life even more...
Forum: General Chat 11-02-2012, 07:15 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 5,256
Posted By MiViLaLoco
"For those who have children: How do you think...

"For those who have children: How do you think your children will perceive it all in the end? Will they come out unscathed?"

In my case the answer is yes...and no...

I feel our son will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2012, 04:21 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 3,420
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Many on this board have actual experience with...

Many on this board have actual experience with dealing with situations like this. So really this is just my initial thought on logic the way courts see it.

The above 5 points are really all the...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2012, 07:42 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,800
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Yes there is...I pay about him about $200 less a...

Yes there is...I pay about him about $200 less a month than he pays me...based on our incomes.
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2012, 04:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,800
Posted By MiViLaLoco
Tayken, thank you for posting this document. I...

Tayken, thank you for posting this document. I had forgotten about it, but it was one of the reasons I pushed for 50/50 "Shared Parenting" with my ex. Even though his lawyer was advising him that EOW...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2012, 04:02 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 753
Posted By MiViLaLoco
I think taking ownership, having a strategy,...

I think taking ownership, having a strategy, knowing what "areas/subjects/hot buttons" to avoid, and not engaging in the drama of the HCP are huge steps in the right direction when it comes to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2012, 07:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,818
Posted By MiViLaLoco
In our case the larger gifts like xbox, wii,...

In our case the larger gifts like xbox, wii, nintendo ds, bikes, etc stay at the home of whoever bought them.

Our child takes smaller toys (that can easily fit into the school backback or second...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2012, 11:11 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,305
Posted By MiViLaLoco
...and who sponsored her visa?? Did you have...

...and who sponsored her visa?? Did you have anything to do with Immigration Canada before or after you married?
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