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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 160
Posted By StillPaying
Many of us have been through it... It's more...

Many of us have been through it...

It's more likely to happen when you have a custodial parent playing gatekeeper to the limited access parent. It's different with shared parenting. Equals - If...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:31 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 160
Posted By StillPaying
This went on well before they were teenagers, and...

This went on well before they were teenagers, and alienation doesn't happen over night. If 50/50 access was maintained, it would counter any lies ex may be saying. Accepting no access and letting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 05:21 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 160
Posted By StillPaying
I believe the best way to deal with a...

I believe the best way to deal with a controlling/alienating ex is to be a constant presence in your kids' lives. Parents fight for their kids everyday in all aspects, which should certainly include...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:30 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 127
Posted By StillPaying
You're a self-rep'd applicant going against: -...

You're a self-rep'd applicant going against:
- self rep'd ex
- legal aid lawyer
- Side retainer lawyer
- regular lawyer

How would you play it differently?

If you're reasonable and the other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:21 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 160
Posted By StillPaying
If you're already before the court, I don't see...

If you're already before the court, I don't see how this is an emergency or urgent, or how another case conference could help. Instead of more cas or therapy requests, perhaps you can just be more...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2021, 01:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 445
Posted By StillPaying
CPP doesn't need approval and can be split well...

CPP doesn't need approval and can be split well after trial if requested.

I'm curious about the $5k though. If $5k is taken from today's income to invest in your future pension, matched by...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2021, 12:53 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 675
Posted By StillPaying
I've seen many examples of not being entitled to...

I've seen many examples of not being entitled to further spousal. I would love to see any mention of your brilliance. There are other examples of that too - WD was assigned a nice pay in one...

I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 01:14 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 552
Posted By StillPaying
Court is set up to help get you resolution as...

Court is set up to help get you resolution as quickly as possible. Learn the process, the purpose of each step, and follow it. Deviating from this only causes further delays.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 01:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 552
Posted By StillPaying
I think you have that backwards. When...

I think you have that backwards.

When dealing with a HC ex, you push trial. Each conference has a specific purpose and helps your case. If you're pushing trial, you don't delay or agree to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 12:03 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 552
Posted By StillPaying
You come off as someone with no experience or on...

You come off as someone with no experience or on the wrong side of reasonableness - everything is grossly misrepresented.

Love it or hate it, the majority of your orders are through conferences. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2021, 02:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 552
Posted By StillPaying
SC briefs include your offer to settle. Feel...

SC briefs include your offer to settle. Feel free to discuss anything and everything openly at conferences.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2021, 02:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 501
Posted By StillPaying
Your duty to support your kids will prevail. You...

Your duty to support your kids will prevail. You had notice. Get the shot and keep your job or find a job where it's not required. Job or not, you'll be imputed an income if needed and arrears...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2021, 01:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 552
Posted By StillPaying
Disagree here. Most of your orders will be...

Disagree here. Most of your orders will be through conferences!

Maybe a cc could be combined with 1st appearance, but it serves a good purpose and I'm sure saves people a lot more in the end from...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2021, 08:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 413
Posted By StillPaying
Follow your lawyer's advice. If it is as...

Follow your lawyer's advice.

If it is as you say, then there's no reason why you wouldn't get shared custody at trial. Only way you'll get less is if you agree to it.

Doesn't seem like you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2021, 02:32 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 203
Posted By StillPaying
Sorry, I read "unemployed" after child move in...

Sorry, I read "unemployed" after child move in with you. I'm doubtful the RRSPs will be counted as income but you should get cs once employment started, including credit for any overpayment. Push...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2021, 02:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 203
Posted By StillPaying
If ex wasn't working and had no income, cs would...

If ex wasn't working and had no income, cs would be zero.
You need to impute an income so at least any other cs you're paying can be reduced. In situations where there is an obvious change, you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-13-2021, 01:29 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 766
Posted By StillPaying
From your posts it appears you and your family...

From your posts it appears you and your family members don't. Vaxxed still get and spread covid, it's the degree of symptoms.



The 2 hour parent is an outsider, not apart of the bubble and is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2021, 01:13 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 561
Posted By StillPaying
I would do the motion myself if I had to,...

I would do the motion myself if I had to, according to what the judge said. Although they were more interested in shared parenting than you are apparently. Yes, it is extremely normal for fathers...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-13-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 766
Posted By StillPaying
What insight are you missing? Scared to ask from...

What insight are you missing? Scared to ask from your post but - You do understand how the vaccine works right, and why we still mask and follow protocols after vax?!



You're misunderstanding...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2021, 08:38 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 766
Posted By StillPaying
From your post, we're in trouble - Lawd help us...

From your post, we're in trouble - Lawd help us all!!! ��
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2021, 08:24 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 766
Posted By StillPaying
Nor is it suppose to.... smh

Nor is it suppose to.... smh
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 08:06 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 561
Posted By StillPaying
Mediation? They do it either because they have...

Mediation? They do it either because they have to, hope the mediator will convince other side to settle for what they want, or are actually looking to settle. OCL/CAS has nothing to do with...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2021, 07:53 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 766
Posted By StillPaying
Decisions have consequences. Just no...

Decisions have consequences. Just no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 07:48 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 561
Posted By StillPaying
100% agree with rockscan in this thread. ...

100% agree with rockscan in this thread. pinkHouses, NewDay and helenj are naive in how they think family court will look at this. Accused vs charged is a world of difference on the balance of...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-11-2021, 04:47 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 879
Posted By StillPaying
A good lawyer can make all the difference! My...

A good lawyer can make all the difference! My thinking is that if entitlement is found in a short marriage, it's more likely to be closer to 100% of length.
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