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Forum: Divorce Support 10-13-2011, 10:41 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 7,804
Posted By Toooldforthis
I believe he was pulling the rug out from under...

I believe he was pulling the rug out from under her before the marriage began by way of how he presented the prenup to her and as to honouring her agreements....did he honour his agreement to her...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-17-2011, 08:13 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 951
Posted By Toooldforthis
Now what??

Good morning. I separated from my husband of 34 years just over a year ago. Upon first separating, my husband was giving me 800.00 per month for support and he was allowing me to continue to use his...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-28-2010, 07:44 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 6,780
Posted By Toooldforthis
Ummm...my ex for one, although being in their...

Ummm...my ex for one, although being in their right mind is debateable. Unfortunately we all don't deal with people in their right minds. I'm still trying to find out if he has really quit his 10...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2010, 12:26 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 10,499
Posted By Toooldforthis
So, if we're talking about an amount of $50,000...

So, if we're talking about an amount of $50,000 (as per your example), then it is at first reduced by 25% to an amount of $37,500 to meet the tax requirements. Split that ($18,750.00) and add 25%, so...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2010, 07:44 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 10,499
Posted By Toooldforthis
Not my post, but my situation. Thanks for the...

Not my post, but my situation. Thanks for the info. I was told at the time figures were being discussed, that my amount, as the spouse receiving the payment, would be "reduced" by 25% to cover the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2010, 07:36 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,206
Posted By Toooldforthis
Mentally and Financially Done!

Well, I think I’ve come to the point where I have to throw in the towel. We had our first case conference on the 1st of the month, and as I stated in a previous post, all seemed to go well. On the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2010, 11:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,167
Posted By Toooldforthis
Thanks for the response. Yes, that’s exactly...

Thanks for the response. Yes, that’s exactly why he quit. He left me a message on my answering machine when he was first served with the support papers threatening to do just this. My lawyer had me...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-04-2010, 10:35 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,167
Posted By Toooldforthis
Now what??

I attended the first case conference on Friday. All seemed to go fairly smoothly but we had to find out if funds from a deferred profit sharing plan could be transferred before proceeding any further...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2010, 11:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,657
Posted By Toooldforthis
Again, thanks for the response. My lawyer works...

Again, thanks for the response. My lawyer works alone except for his secretary so I won’t be able to take advantage of articling students or junior lawyers although he is only charging me...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2010, 11:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,657
Posted By Toooldforthis
Thanks for the info regarding the 'rule of 65'. I...

Thanks for the info regarding the 'rule of 65'. I do not have a solid career so I guess I would fall into that category. I have a lawyer but my funds are running out so I’m hoping he is specialist...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2010, 11:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,657
Posted By Toooldforthis
Yes, I am, but as I don’t have any marketable...

Yes, I am, but as I don’t have any marketable skills I would have to take a general labour position. Nothing wrong with that, but I have arthritis in my right hand which limits how, and for how...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2010, 07:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,657
Posted By Toooldforthis
Blatant Lies

Good morning. Just a brief review of my history: I was married for 34 years and am 57 years old. Separated 6 months ago. I filed my application for equalization and spousal support myself but have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2010, 11:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,319
Posted By Toooldforthis
I have one question now though. Since there's...

I have one question now though. Since there's been a mix up with these forms, there's been about a week lost. I've looked to see if there's a time limit I have to file these documents but can't seem...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2010, 11:26 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,319
Posted By Toooldforthis
I didn't "use" ups, the drop off point for the...

I didn't "use" ups, the drop off point for the process server is a ups store. The process servers have access to the store to pick up packages 24 hours a day. I found out what happened this morning....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2010, 07:07 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,319
Posted By Toooldforthis
Not a good start....

Has this happened to anyone here? I spent weeks preparing the forms and then went to see a lawyer with FLIC as I'm attempting to work through this process myself. I wanted to see if everything was...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-22-2010, 08:08 AM
Replies: 172
Views: 43,614
Posted By Toooldforthis
A multitude of reasons that ultimately caused a...

A multitude of reasons that ultimately caused a loss of trust and respect. I can't get past nor do I feel I will ever be able to get back the ability to believe anything he has to say. I only believe...
Forum: Introductions 04-20-2010, 11:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
Posted By Toooldforthis
No, we don't own a home. We don't have any debts...

No, we don't own a home. We don't have any debts either. Equalization should be fairly simple except for the pension part, like you said. Neither of us brought anything into the marriage either. We...
Forum: Introductions 04-20-2010, 09:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
Posted By Toooldforthis
Put that way, I don't think I have any options...

Put that way, I don't think I have any options but to take this before the courts. There is a misunderstanding regarding the pensions though unless I'm wrong in my assessment of the situation. The...
Forum: Introductions 04-20-2010, 04:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
Posted By Toooldforthis
His earnings last year were 54000.00. Mine nil....

His earnings last year were 54000.00. Mine nil. Upon doing a finacial statement to bring to the meeting with the lawyer it was determined that if we were to equalize, he would owe me about 50,000.00....
Forum: Introductions 04-20-2010, 03:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
Posted By Toooldforthis
Dilemma....

Hello: My dilemma is whether or not I should have a ‘legal’ separation agreement order or if I should go with our current arrangement. First some background. I have been married for 34 years of...
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