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Forum: Financial Issues 11-17-2021, 11:11 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 675
Posted By DHTO
If you are an accountant why do you accept...

If you are an accountant why do you accept Divorcemate for your calculations? I can see why the layperson would just go with the flow, but to calculate the proper amount isn't that difficult using...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-10-2021, 11:52 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 561
Posted By DHTO
Whoa! False charges = go to trial do not pass go,...

Whoa! False charges = go to trial do not pass go, do not collect $200. How can you possibly expect to have a productive mediation session with someone who swore a criminal complaint against you that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-07-2021, 10:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 205
Posted By DHTO
He is one of the last kids in his class to get a...

He is one of the last kids in his class to get a phone. He can text with his friends and arrange get-togethers.

Plus it would help solve the persistent issue of my ex's phone mysteriously being on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-07-2021, 08:18 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 205
Posted By DHTO
Cell Phone for 9 yr old

Hi all,

More drama on the front lines.

I want to get my S9 a cell phone for Christmas. My ex is not happy, and is bringing up issues like excessive use, inappropriate sites, isolation and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-02-2021, 05:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 293
Posted By DHTO
Rebuttal to Ex's refusing 50:50

Hi everyone,

Right now I have my kids EOW, but fighting for 50:50. My ex feels that it is not in the kids interest to see me 50:50, but is ok with EOW. No court order, no formal agreement, just...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-27-2021, 07:30 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 693
Posted By DHTO
Urgent motions would be mobility cases, cases...

Urgent motions would be mobility cases, cases where access is unilaterally cut off, and cases involving violence.

Unfortunately being pushed into the poor house is not considered urgent.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-26-2021, 10:36 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 693
Posted By DHTO
Exactly my situation. I filed my...

Exactly my situation.

I filed my application (Toronto) in early August, and my case conference is first week of January. No motions except urgent one before the CC.

I'm guessing at least 2...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2021, 10:25 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 320
Posted By DHTO
A bottle is 26 ounces, and a typical glass is 5...

A bottle is 26 ounces, and a typical glass is 5 ounces. Are you thinking of one of those big 9 ounce balloon glasses?

Maybe I'm a commoner but I see most wines in the 10.95-13.95 range? I'm not...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2021, 10:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 320
Posted By DHTO
My ex put down $150 per month at the LCBO. At...

My ex put down $150 per month at the LCBO. At $10-15 per bottle of wine, thats 3 glasses of wine a day EVERY day.

Hmmm...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 09:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By DHTO
Thanks - I will do that. It's shocking how...

Thanks - I will do that.

It's shocking how much of a tax credit ex will get. First off, the amount (up to $5K per child) gets taken off taxable income...so 20% right there. Then the Ontario CARES...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 06:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By DHTO
Tax benefit goes to the parent with the lower...

Tax benefit goes to the parent with the lower income. However, the funny anecdote is that with the Ontario Child Care Subsidy, it actually benefits me more to have her claim the credit (credit is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2021, 03:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By DHTO
S7 Expenses folded into Monthly CS?

Hello,

My ex wants to estimate the annual S7 expenses and average that into the monthly payment. I.e. if CS is 1,000 per month with my share being 1,200 of annual S7 expenses, she wants me to pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2021, 09:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 283
Posted By DHTO
I think that might be the case too...but OP's...

I think that might be the case too...but OP's first post said that they should have been paying 85/15.

Offset means that based on their respective incomes for child support assume the support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2021, 04:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 283
Posted By DHTO
There is no negotiation. At 85/15 you will need...

There is no negotiation. At 85/15 you will need to pay full table amount for that child for as long as it was at 85/15. Multiply the number of months by the difference between offset and full table...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-30-2021, 02:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 515
Posted By DHTO
This is 99% incorrect. Look up the Partition Act...

This is 99% incorrect. Look up the Partition Act of Ontario. The only time that the court will not enforce the sale of the home is if it can be shown that the applicant is vexatious or acting in bad...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 08:50 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 533
Posted By DHTO
I'm going through the same situation, except in...

I'm going through the same situation, except in reverse. My ex is refusing to move out (and refusing to pay occupation rent). No mortgage, so I'm paying rent and she's living expense free. Ex is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2021, 10:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 476
Posted By DHTO
No hearings, no endorsements...nothing. ...

No hearings, no endorsements...nothing.

Status quo is that I am getting 3/14 nights. Ex won't consent to any change.

I would like to know if there is a process to get things changed before a...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-10-2021, 11:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 429
Posted By DHTO
Unlimited high speed internet isn't more than $50...

Unlimited high speed internet isn't more than $50 per month in most cities...is she really going after you for that?

I would agree with Rockscan, internet (like all utilities) should be covered by...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 11:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 476
Posted By DHTO
Question Increasing parenting time before my case goes to court

Hi all,

I was hoping you could provide some insight into how I could go about increasing my parenting time with my kids (9 and 8).

Refresher into my situation:

Separated Oct 2019, but lived...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2021, 07:29 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,024
Posted By DHTO
Thanks everyone, this makes it crystal clear. I...

Thanks everyone, this makes it crystal clear. I appreciate you explaining the reasoning to me.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 11:24 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,024
Posted By DHTO
I don't want to be argumentative, but section 7...

I don't want to be argumentative, but section 7 (1) states:

In a child support order the court may, on either spouse’s request, provide for an amount to cover all or any portion of the following...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 10:30 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,024
Posted By DHTO
I am in a similar situation - my ex has to be at...

I am in a similar situation - my ex has to be at work at 9am, so she wants to spend money on a before-school careperson. I work from home, and can easily walk the kids to school. Instead of dropping...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2021, 05:12 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 316
Posted By DHTO
Thanks Tayken - My ex and I are both on title,...

Thanks Tayken - My ex and I are both on title, and I haven't gotten any notice of a lien being registered on the house. Is it possible for her to get an LAO certificate and register a lien without my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2021, 02:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 316
Posted By DHTO
Thanks for your response. Right now I have...

Thanks for your response.

Right now I have the kids EOW. We have no agreement in writing, just going on the status quo. I initially wanted 3/14 because I had no experience in solo child care, my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2021, 12:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 316
Posted By DHTO
STBX not communicating for settlement - LAO issues?

Hi all,

I have a bit of a complicated situation - I just want my separation to be finalized and move on, while doing what's best for my kids. Also want to keep as much $$$ away from the lawyers......
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