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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2011, 04:59 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,528
Posted By locoroco
I see your point billm but it sounds like your...

I see your point billm but it sounds like your separation went quite smooth. Now try to understand how those of us who went though a pile of emotional and financial pain feel, who's children were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2011, 03:46 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,528
Posted By locoroco
I'm in Alberta and the law is different...

I'm in Alberta and the law is different thankfully. Only the difference in value from day of marriage to date of separation or trial is used. So if it didn't go up then nobody gets anything. But it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2011, 03:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,528
Posted By locoroco
Totally agree. I mentioned prenup and my fiance...

Totally agree. I mentioned prenup and my fiance freaked. Said I was planning for our failure. Well 4 months into marriage she takes off and is going after all she can. I had lots of assets she had...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-25-2011, 08:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,093
Posted By locoroco
Thanks for the info!

Thanks for the info!
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2011, 01:24 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 45,033
Posted By locoroco
I can't understand why the Ontario law would be...

I can't understand why the Ontario law would be setup so that someone could be entitled to half the house equity that was made before marriage! That law seems like it would cause a lot of people to...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-23-2011, 10:29 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,645
Posted By locoroco
Great advice NBDad. My ex can get me fired up so...

Great advice NBDad. My ex can get me fired up so quickly. I will have to remember that phrase "Radio Silence"
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-22-2011, 11:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,093
Posted By locoroco
Custody x change software review?

Hi,

Just curious if anyone owns this software and if it worth looking into? I just stumbled across it tonight while looking for parenting plan examples.

Child Custody & Visitation Calendar...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2011, 12:42 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
If I do believe that the chances are that the...

If I do believe that the chances are that the child is mine, wouldn't I be better off dropping the paternity test issue and just get a cheek swab on my own? That way I can find out for my own piece...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2011, 06:53 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
Ya theres always a chance to work up north. But...

Ya theres always a chance to work up north. But I'm tired of being gone all the time so this was a good excuse to move.

If it wasn't mine I don't want anything to do with that situation. My ex is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2011, 06:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
Absolutely they do. This is not about money.(I am...

Absolutely they do. This is not about money.(I am taking a 70k a yearpay cut to move to where she is) It's about me not wanting to raise a kid that's not mine. I dont want to go through life not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2011, 06:10 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
She has sworn in an affidavit that she only had...

She has sworn in an affidavit that she only had sex with me since she had her last period in february. She has also admitted that she had an affair in January. I do mostly believe her when she says...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2011, 11:07 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
I'm having some trouble finding information on...

I'm having some trouble finding information on obtaining a paternity test. I have already told her that I want one and she has said go ahead and I will look like the idiot since its my kid. I still...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2011, 10:01 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,533
Posted By locoroco
Planning ahead to protect my rights as a father before the child is born?

My ex is due in November and she has been quite vindictive so far in our divorce, so I am worried she will be using the kid as a weapon to hurt me. It seems like she is capable of saying whatever on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2011, 10:02 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
long delay in posting the outcome. but she was...

long delay in posting the outcome. but she was awarded 1200 a month for 5 months until the end of the month that the baby is born. She had to pay her legal fees, and I had to pay mine. In the end she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2011, 08:20 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Well my lawyer at least found out today what they...

Well my lawyer at least found out today what they are asking for.They are asking for 10,000 interim spousal until the child is born. They are willing to let me spread it over the next 5 months at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2011, 02:08 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Enquired with EI and spousal support is not...

Enquired with EI and spousal support is not considered income so it does not offset EI. Had my hopes up on this but at least I know for sure though.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2011, 05:22 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Here's a question for you. So it looks like...

Here's a question for you.

So it looks like she can get up to 15 weeks of sickness Ei pay prior to taking maternity leave.

Does spousal support offset her Ei she will receive on sickness...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 06:40 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Agreed that I'm going to pay out the nose for a...

Agreed that I'm going to pay out the nose for a while for child support. Not much I can do about that. I chose to take a temporary job up north, to work 3000 hrs a year, in hopes to setup my families...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 05:05 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
I dont have the info for divorce mate. My lawyer...

I dont have the info for divorce mate. My lawyer has not mentioned it to me but am planning on asking him tomorrow when i am supposed to talk to him.

I did put in some amounts on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 04:17 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Do you feel she will have much of a claim against...

Do you feel she will have much of a claim against me for SS after the child is born? Could the judge easily grant her 2500 per month even after birth? Because if that is the case, I will be left with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 03:50 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Hi nbdad Wouldn't you consider having to be...

Hi nbdad

Wouldn't you consider having to be off for sickness in pregnancy to be considered sacrificing her carrier. That is the way she is spinning it.

It wouldn't be cost effective to have my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 03:17 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
One things else I should mention. There certainly...

One things else I should mention. There certainly won't be 15k coming to her by way of equalization. Im predicting it will be her actually owing me a payment since she took so much marital property...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 03:03 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
I agree with you whole heartedly. And I'm willing...

I agree with you whole heartedly. And I'm willing and happy to help a lot more while I am working up here. But i can't do the same in the coming months and I will be making much much less well before...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 01:26 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
I agree that going to court is not ideal, but...

I agree that going to court is not ideal, but without her telling me what she wants per month im kind of hooped. All she is asking for is what the honourable judge deems satisfactory. Originally she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2011, 12:36 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 8,816
Posted By locoroco
Do not hold back on being harsh. I appreciate any...

Do not hold back on being harsh. I appreciate any and all critisism.

I will ask my lawyer to draft up a letter asap to ask her to chose an appraiser. The one thing i am running out of is time....
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