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Forum: General Chat 01-18-2018, 12:01 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 499
Posted By first timer
We had 50/50 access. At my house I gave our kids...

We had 50/50 access. At my house I gave our kids a monthly allowance that was based on their age (9 yrs old, get 9 dollars per month and put 10 percent in a savings jar). It was not based on chores...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-26-2017, 12:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 812
Posted By first timer
Thank everyone for your replies. What does...

Thank everyone for your replies.

What does your son say about school? - He hates it.

It is just hard for him or just feels pointless? - not hard, just would rather be playing games online than...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-25-2017, 11:54 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 812
Posted By first timer
Kid Failing Grade 10 - frustrated parent

Hi some background info: 2 kids D:18 in college living with me full time since last June when she graduated high school - her choice, stays over to her mother's 1 night a week; S:15 50/50 schedule in...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-30-2016, 02:31 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 520
Posted By first timer
Child Support Ending letter

Does anyone have or know where I can find a sample letter for terminating child support - or the correct wording to use? Thank you
Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2015, 10:48 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 558
Posted By first timer
Dinky - Our separation agreement contains clauses...

Dinky - Our separation agreement contains clauses which require us to annually exchange income tax info for child support purposes. This one is completed in June and the new amount starts in July and...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2015, 03:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 558
Posted By first timer
thanks stripes for your feedback; its my first...

thanks stripes for your feedback; its my first time with an underpayment, it wasn't much - less than a 100 dollars - still better to know what gets counted and what doesn't for the annual review
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2015, 03:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 558
Posted By first timer
Annual Review question - child support (cs)

I had a cs underpayment in 2013 which I paid in addition to my determined cs amount in 2014. My question is: when there is an underpayment from the previous year (2013) and it gets paid in the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2015, 11:22 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 483
Posted By first timer
summer extended access/travel

Below are the clauses in my agreement related to extended summer access and travel. Here is the scenario: My oldest child is getting married this summer out of province. I want my 2 other children to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2015, 11:17 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 507
Posted By first timer
It was included in our calculations for SS but...

It was included in our calculations for SS but not CS: In the with child support formula, the Child Tax Benefit, the Universal Child Care Benefit, the child portion of the GST credit and any other...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-05-2014, 08:06 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,778
Posted By first timer
Our Order stipulates we notify each other of...

Our Order stipulates we notify each other of any/all changes to income immediately because it does impact the other parent financially; your right though, it doesn't mean she will, case in point.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-04-2014, 11:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,778
Posted By first timer
I went through a similar income change with my...

I went through a similar income change with my ex; she reduced her pay by $12,000 per year when she switched jobs. I received no notification from her about this change; no reason was given. I found...
Forum: Political Issues 11-28-2014, 06:10 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 4,887
Posted By first timer
"Good post firstimer. What did you do to thwart...

"Good post firstimer. What did you do to thwart your ex's attempts to "paint me as the bad guy in the eyes of our kids"? Sounds as though you have worked things out with your ex and I'm sure there...
Forum: Political Issues 11-28-2014, 03:40 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 4,887
Posted By first timer
My kids are 13 and 16 now. I had about 80% in the...

My kids are 13 and 16 now. I had about 80% in the beginning (they were 6 and 9) until I wanted it in writing upon which I received an email telling me I would no longer have them as much because of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2014, 11:37 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,626
Posted By first timer
I have 50/50 and am paying the offset as well but...

I have 50/50 and am paying the offset as well but I do not pay 50% of all costs related to our kids.

We split the following 50/50
- any costs associated with school such as fees, school trips,...
Forum: General Chat 07-25-2014, 08:11 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,481
Posted By first timer
not a penny arabian; just my time and patience

not a penny arabian; just my time and patience
Forum: General Chat 07-24-2014, 03:01 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,481
Posted By first timer
Update: sessions ended this week; she walked out...

Update: sessions ended this week; she walked out of therapists office through the back door; then I got called in; the therapist apologized for her abrupt departure out the back and told me she is no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2014, 12:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 415
Posted By first timer
I have had a number of amendments to my original...

I have had a number of amendments to my original agreement over the years for ss and cs; they have all included the ILA clause but I don't know if my ex received ILA or not. I spoke to a lawyer about...
Forum: General Chat 04-08-2014, 08:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,481
Posted By first timer
Thanks everyone for your...

Thanks everyone for your comments/insights/advice. I considered the pros and cons of moving forward with this request. We are still raising children together via parallel parenting; co-parenting was...
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2014, 04:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,481
Posted By first timer
Therapy 7 Years Later

I separated in 2007 and divorced in 2009. I was recently called by a therapist who asked me if I would be willing to participate in therapy for my ex who is apparently still struggling 7 years later...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-24-2014, 01:03 PM
Replies: 190
Views: 10,287
Posted By first timer
For me, my "new" spouse was definitely there when...

For me, my "new" spouse was definitely there when I needed her, especially when it came to the legal wranglings of my divorce. She did not go to court with me as she did not feel that was necessary...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2013, 01:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 604
Posted By first timer
Splitting the grant 50/50 was the intent...

Splitting the grant 50/50 was the intent initially but I am being told that it may not be doable because our health insurance providers will take the amount of the grant off the top of the costs of...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2013, 01:31 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 604
Posted By first timer
Assistive Devices Program

Has anyone else in a 50/50 access arrangement had to figure out how to allocate a government grant between 2 households?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2013, 12:02 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,328
Posted By first timer
In regards to T2202A form for transferring the...

In regards to T2202A form for transferring the tuition and education amounts; I have claimed my daughters for the past 3 years because I paid for everything regarding her college expenses. We have a...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2013, 08:52 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,241
Posted By first timer
I punched in my numbers just to see and they are...

I punched in my numbers just to see and they are bang on with what I pay; we have 50/50 shared; we use the pro-rated set-off formula to calculate our support amounts; this method was agreed upon...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-28-2013, 05:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 950
Posted By first timer
So I sent the email as suggested and miraculously...

So I sent the email as suggested and miraculously she was able to calculate the amounts of her benefits. Thanks all for replying.
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