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Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2018, 05:36 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,899
Posted By motherbear4
Not providing the June child support was a stupid...

Not providing the June child support was a stupid move, IMHO. I understand she is withholding, which could bite her in the future, but you should have provided the usual June amount. I would attempt...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-27-2018, 03:30 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,925
Posted By motherbear4
The issue is the child is in the wrong type of...

The issue is the child is in the wrong type of restraint system. Since their introduction, parents have been told of the potential dangers of using the wrong size/type/etc. This child is in the wrong...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-26-2018, 04:51 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,925
Posted By motherbear4
I know the feeling. My ex took the kids out of...

I know the feeling. My ex took the kids out of their booster seats long before their bodies were the right size for travelling with no booster seat. He now allows them to ride in the front seat....
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2018, 12:15 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 428
Posted By motherbear4
Kudos to my kid!

I just have to post this somewhere! ODF is the best place 😊 I don't post often, but read a lot. Thanks to everyone who has helped me without knowing it! Anyhoo, on to my chance to be proud of my S9!...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-14-2018, 12:42 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 683
Posted By motherbear4
That's just what I was going to suggest! It's...

That's just what I was going to suggest! It's certainly worth investigating.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-10-2017, 12:53 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 884
Posted By motherbear4
That's what I thought but decided to check my...

That's what I thought but decided to check my facts first. Thanks so much Hammerdad!
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-10-2017, 11:45 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 884
Posted By motherbear4
Do court orders "age out"

We have a court order dated July 2012, dealing with various issues including the parents' birthdays. The kids are to be with the birthday parent regardless of the regular schedule. We signed a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2017, 08:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,093
Posted By motherbear4
My ex has been on an email writing campaign since...

My ex has been on an email writing campaign since last fall that I neglect and abuse our kids. Extremely upsetting and hurtful. You just have to keep telling yourself that what is being portrayed by...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2017, 05:52 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 374
Posted By motherbear4
My ex's niece was on welfare years ago. She was...

My ex's niece was on welfare years ago. She was young, so no working father to claim benefits through. I am not sure if things have changed, but every month with her notice of payment, she would...
Forum: General Chat 05-15-2017, 02:27 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 5,323
Posted By motherbear4
[B]A simple glad you had a good mother's day LF32...

[B]A simple glad you had a good mother's day LF32 would have sufficed.[B][B]

Bam! Yes, a simple HMD from the both of you would have sufficed. Point proved, case closed.
Forum: General Chat 05-14-2017, 07:58 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 5,323
Posted By motherbear4
Trinton, do you wish your own family members HMD...

Trinton, do you wish your own family members HMD by beginning with the same tirade you did here? Or do you simply say HMD? One way is extremely disrespectful, the other is not. If you want to give...
Forum: General Chat 05-14-2017, 05:49 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 5,323
Posted By motherbear4
LF32, I suspect Trinton's post may be the straw...

LF32, I suspect Trinton's post may be the straw that broke the camel's back. His words and intent did not compliment each other. His best wishes should have been just that, but they weren't. Had it...
Forum: General Chat 05-14-2017, 11:47 AM
Replies: 61
Views: 5,323
Posted By motherbear4
A typically quiet member here, but I just have to...

A typically quiet member here, but I just have to say that this has missed the mark. There is no sincerity and is not about wishing us mother's having a Happy​ day. This is about how awesome you two...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2017, 03:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,348
Posted By motherbear4
Mom should loose her subsidy if she does not find...

Mom should loose her subsidy if she does not find a job within a specific time frame. I would double check your facts regarding the days missed. In Ottawa your child can miss 36 days a year. Should...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-16-2016, 09:58 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 814
Posted By motherbear4
Are they able to communicate enough that they...

Are they able to communicate enough that they agree that mom reimburse dad his portion on a monthly basis? That way FRO doesn't get confused, court is not involved, and the payments will continue as...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2016, 09:41 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,147
Posted By motherbear4
I was on the receiving end of this very...

I was on the receiving end of this very accusation just 10 days ago. Ex used the very same catch words--mental health and physical health. I simply ignored the email and let him rant. Just let it go;...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-09-2016, 11:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 397
Posted By motherbear4
Thanks Arabian and Blink. I think I should have...

Thanks Arabian and Blink. I think I should have put Petty Rant in the title line. Blink, you are right; its not worth it and thankfully I did not engage in pettiness with him. I am sure you can...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-09-2016, 05:57 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 397
Posted By motherbear4
Dental Insurance Receipt

For the first time, dental check-ups had to go through dad's insurance. Due to withholding my money, I was forced to have my lawyer send a letter to his requesting my reimbursement. Suddenly, the...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-10-2014, 09:37 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,933
Posted By motherbear4
Hi everyone -- thank you so much for your input,...

Hi everyone -- thank you so much for your input, whether its what I want to hear or not. Section 7 is a horrible grey area.

dad2bandm and HammerDad -- the exact wording in our court order is as...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2014, 09:49 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,933
Posted By motherbear4
Section 7 and Final Court Order

Hi all. Long-time lurker with a few posts; wonderful site with a wealth of information!

My ex and I have a final court order that states I have sole custody and if we are unable to agree on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2012, 10:49 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,637
Posted By motherbear4
Again, thanks to everyone. I seriously weighed...

Again, thanks to everyone. I seriously weighed the two big options, drop them off or just keep them, prior to posting here. Its a crappy road to walk trying to come to a decision. Your varying...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2012, 08:40 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,637
Posted By motherbear4
Thanks everyone, I needed to know if I was off my...

Thanks everyone, I needed to know if I was off my rocker :p Strep is contagious, but seems like everything is contagious ;) Any time he gets something bacterial, he's the most contagious person ever...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2012, 06:51 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,637
Posted By motherbear4
Yet Another Stupid Arguement

It is my ex's weekend starting tomorrow. He has sent me a text saying he MAY have strep throat, rambled on about being highly contagious, and that he will not be picking them up.

I have responded...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-13-2012, 10:37 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By motherbear4
Thanks everyone! I loved the part about replying...

Thanks everyone! I loved the part about replying the same to him as well :D The rotten thing is, I have two older children and I've been through this before with them (still do and one is in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2012, 12:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,090
Posted By motherbear4
Thank you! This one definitely requires a...

Thank you! This one definitely requires a response but was not sure if it should be a one liner or not. Am definitely waiting 24hrs before responding to keep from biting back ;)

Lots of warm one...
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