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Forum: General Chat 02-01-2014, 09:13 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 5,215
Posted By Mess
There is no rule here about using vulgar...

There is no rule here about using vulgar language. There is a rule against calling other members vulgar terms, or gender-bashing.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2014, 09:02 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,105
Posted By Mess
I'm not exactly clear on your question, so here...

I'm not exactly clear on your question, so here are the basics.


Do not list the matrimonial home if owned coming into the marriage; this is dealt with separately.
For each party do the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2014, 08:44 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,189
Posted By Mess
Can you clarify if he spends any time in Canada,...

Can you clarify if he spends any time in Canada, and how much? If he has a permanent residence in the other country - which can be a leased apartment, for example, as opposed to a hotel room - and is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2014, 11:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 581
Posted By Mess
No, it doesn't necessarily mean that. It may mean...

No, it doesn't necessarily mean that. It may mean that they filed with the court, but inadvertently served you with copies of the forms they made earlier.

If in doubt, ask the other party, or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2014, 11:40 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 458
Posted By Mess
I'm not judging here, just providing information....

I'm not judging here, just providing information.

The Family Law Act and Child Support Guidelines consider that he is still a "Child of the marriage" as long as he is in a full-time post...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2014, 05:59 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,853
Posted By Mess
I believe there is a template in Divorcemate...

I believe there is a template in Divorcemate software. There is an official court form for small claims court, but none for family court that I am aware of.

You should put "Without Prejudice" at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-30-2014, 09:40 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,553
Posted By Mess
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Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2014, 09:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 629
Posted By Mess
I was going to post basicly the same things...

I was going to post basicly the same things FightingForFamily and Arabian posted, so I'm just going to add my agreement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 06:48 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,553
Posted By Mess
Serene, I have a two week calendar attached to my...

Serene, I have a two week calendar attached to my order. Our schedule is a bit mixed with a few days where each have one child, so it was difficult to describe clearly in text.

I put the calendar...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 06:45 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,553
Posted By Mess
Actually she did NOT attempt to answer it. She...

Actually she did NOT attempt to answer it. She said that she didn't know, and she didn't think anyone else would. She was correct with the first statement and incorrect with the second. Neither...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2014, 12:57 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,732
Posted By Mess
The current regulation is a result of a court...

The current regulation is a result of a court ruling. The CRA is thus following the wording of the judge's decision. (I used to have it saved, but it's lost and it is a bugger to find.)

This has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 12:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 754
Posted By Mess
Nope. If you have a final order for support...

Nope.

If you have a final order for support you may file a motion to change if you want to change the amount - which many do yearly - or if you seek to end support. There are even specific...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 09:09 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 754
Posted By Mess
I read the OP a little differently. There is an...

I read the OP a little differently. There is an existing court order, so they have already been to court at least once. This order stipulates that CS paid to the father will be subtracted from SS...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 08:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 451
Posted By Mess
I've edited the thread title so members who have...

I've edited the thread title so members who have experience with OCL will notice it.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2014, 11:20 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 808
Posted By Mess
Here is thorough explantion of the process: BCH...

Here is thorough explantion of the process:
BCH Actuarial Services Inc. Separation/Divorce – The New Law in Ontario...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2014, 06:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 563
Posted By Mess
Why are you talking to the pension company about...

Why are you talking to the pension company about splitting the pension? Is this her idea, or yours?

You are split, as far as you are concerned it is done. Is she the one pushing you to split the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2014, 02:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 441
Posted By Mess
Dealing with the child's needs should always be...

Dealing with the child's needs should always be #1. If the child requests 50/50, this is understandable, and actually reflects a well-adjusted attitude from the child.
60/40 is the same as 50/50 in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2014, 11:06 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,409
Posted By Mess
Only after a few beers.

Only after a few beers.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2014, 10:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 808
Posted By Mess
No offence, but I have to say this: In a year you...

No offence, but I have to say this: In a year you will be one of the posters who keep saying how you were hosed by family law.

If you want to have an unequal equalization in order to "end all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2014, 09:46 AM
Replies: 190
Views: 10,877
Posted By Mess
Agree with all that. I just want to add that...

Agree with all that. I just want to add that independant decision making in each home is the starting point. If the other parent has a suggestion, or an ongoing concern, their starting point should...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2014, 08:43 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 808
Posted By Mess
Yes. List your pension as "10,000 (50% of...

Yes.

List your pension as "10,000 (50% of 20,000)."

Your ex should list the same amount. If they don't, you should dispute this. Generally, her lawyer should make a correction if you send a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2014, 08:36 AM
Replies: 190
Views: 10,877
Posted By Mess
The mother of my children has no say whatsoever...

The mother of my children has no say whatsoever about what goes on with the children when they are at my home.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2014, 01:41 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 435
Posted By Mess
You need to be clearer about your details if you...

You need to be clearer about your details if you want accurate information. You didn't mention anything about children.

My remark was about spousal, assuming there has been no mention of support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2014, 12:23 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 435
Posted By Mess
I'm not clear on property division in B.C., or...

I'm not clear on property division in B.C., or what new rules came into effect.

First, I would contact the ex and see if they are willing to file a joint divorce order. This is the simplest way...
Forum: Introductions 01-26-2014, 09:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 592
Posted By Mess
Usually taking one year off school won't make a...

Usually taking one year off school won't make a difference.

If the children live with you, then support should go to you. If the children live on their own, there may be no support due at all, or...
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