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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2019, 03:17 PM
Replies: 2
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Posted By iona6656
That being said- I have started volunteering with...

That being said- I have started volunteering with a women's shelter and I'm trying to set up an organization like Luke's Place in the western side of the GTA.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2019, 03:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 137
Posted By iona6656
tunnelight? lol. this sounds like a good...

tunnelight? lol.

this sounds like a good idea. but personally- not interested.

I like this forum because it's support- and I can rant on here. In my real life- I need to leave the litigation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2019, 02:05 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
Let me ask you- how did you get 50/50 with your...

Let me ask you- how did you get 50/50 with your kids? Was it because you were really involved before and your ex would've had an near impossible task to prove to the court that you weren't involved?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2019, 01:48 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
Unfair to who? the parent (let's be real- the...

Unfair to who? the parent (let's be real- the fathers) or the children?

That is exactly my point. Parenting time SHOULD be based on pre-separation care of the children. You don't get to say...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2019, 09:06 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,633
Posted By iona6656
nothing is ever really closed. They're my health...

nothing is ever really closed. They're my health records to disclose. I could subpoena them if I needed to. I usually disclose what is happening in the sessions to my lawyer as well- if there is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 08:35 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,633
Posted By iona6656
This was a two hour session as we’re trying to...

This was a two hour session as we’re trying to come to a parenting plan with her help. If I was really trying to work on our relationship and I had to pay attention to his nonsense- and try to work...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,633
Posted By iona6656
Vishnu help me. I've been sent out of our...

Vishnu help me.

I've been sent out of our session so our coparent counselor can speak to my ex privately about his behaviour in the session.

Because he keeps asking me to put my phone away so I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
I'm not singling you out in particular- which is...

I'm not singling you out in particular- which is why I said I'm not directing my rant to you....but I meet a lot of suit wearing dads who complain about the parenting split when they get divorced.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 11:15 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
I'm not talking to you in particular...but I've...

I'm not talking to you in particular...but I've seen this sentiment from many of my divorced/divorcing male colleagues and my best friend's male colleagues as well (legal and health professionals)-...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 10:35 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 86
Posted By iona6656
Thanks! Yes- I've done that- I gave him the...

Thanks!

Yes- I've done that- I gave him the address of our air bnb, flight details, and asked if/when he'd like to call or facetime her.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 10:25 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 86
Posted By iona6656
Travel Consent inside Canada

Hi all,

Do I need a travel consent letter for travel inside of Canada?

D2's dad consented to a short 5 day vacation to Nova Scotia (we're in Ontario) on OFW. We do not have a separation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 09:15 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 182
Posted By iona6656
Also to note is the progression from EOW to...

Also to note is the progression from EOW to shared parenting within a resonable period of time- depending on the child's age. E.g. adding an overnight every 3-4 months.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 09:13 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 412
Posted By iona6656
He has been trained. I've always administered the...

He has been trained. I've always administered the EPI. I worry about him knowing the signs of her reactions because he's never been around when they happen- except once where I epi'd (eyes almost...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-15-2019, 09:08 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 224
Posted By iona6656
this is tough- I'm sure there are a whole slew of...

this is tough- I'm sure there are a whole slew of other things you are not telling us.

I'm with Janus- don't unilaterally stop the overnights. Email everything- in terms of concern. Start the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2019, 09:03 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 614
Posted By iona6656
this. let's leave the paralegals in traffic...

this.
let's leave the paralegals in traffic court. where they belong.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2019, 06:19 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 614
Posted By iona6656
You know. You might be on to something here....

You know. You might be on to something here. Maybe family law lawyers are ALL legal aid. Maybe they’re like doctors. Arguably you’re going to get lesser calibre lawyers wanting to do family law. But...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 01:49 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
oh. wow. okay- my bad. OP- I'm going to...

oh. wow.

okay- my bad. OP- I'm going to take back that question.

I'm still skeptical of the OP a bit- but I also bring my inherent bias into things- I know that.

OP- have you been able to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 12:06 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 614
Posted By iona6656
meh- means nothing. changing the way family...

meh- means nothing.

changing the way family lawyers are allowed to bill. that will cause real change.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 12:05 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
So what are you doing for S16? I'm still...

So what are you doing for S16?

I'm still confused. Have you just given up hope with S16?

How exactly did your ex jedi-mind-trick your children to believing all this stuff if you were living...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 12:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 244
Posted By iona6656
I feel you. Believe me- I want to bash my head...

I feel you. Believe me- I want to bash my head against my desk right now because my ex keeps promising to send a counter offer- at each goddamn co-parent counselling session- has been saying that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 01:03 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
So all the allegations are false? You've never...

So all the allegations are false? You've never engaged in conflict enough to have CAS involved with your child(ren)?

I'm confused by your posts. You left your house last November to avoid...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 08:29 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 365
Posted By iona6656
well. you served him properly. good luck with the...

well. you served him properly. good luck with the next steps.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-10-2019, 03:04 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
have you ever been charged with anything against...

have you ever been charged with anything against your ex?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-10-2019, 02:55 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
why short motion? you should be getting...

why short motion?

you should be getting ready- and gathering all your evidence to show you are not a danger to your children. It seems like your wife is getting ready to throw as many allegations...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-10-2019, 11:11 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 760
Posted By iona6656
In that case- I don't think that pushing for...

In that case- I don't think that pushing for interim access during the OCL process is premature in any way. Throughout our OCL process- my daughter's dad had supervised access- and it actually...
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