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Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 10:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 341
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I've been at it since 2013. Nothing in family...

I've been at it since 2013. Nothing in family court makes sense and the honest, stable, hard working parent is the one that gets screwed over btpy the system. Zero accountability! I've easily lost...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 08:09 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 380
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That is great to hear. Did you both sign? I...

That is great to hear. Did you both sign? I also had an agreement. Nothing signed that day though. Other side was going to write it up so I could sign. Well nothing followed until one month...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 03:44 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,433
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Stilbreathing, unfreakin believable! I am sorry...

Stilbreathing, unfreakin believable! I am sorry for the shit you are going through. I am in a similar boat. What a shit show! I made it to the trial list for November, paid my lawyer to prepare...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 163
Posted By Helpmyspouse
If it is truly gifted money for the kids, sounds...

If it is truly gifted money for the kids, sounds fine to me. But can also be a good way to hide $25, 000 of income. I would not die on this hill. It's not that much money in the grand scheme of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2019, 08:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 494
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I think the lawyers from legal aid just make the...

I think the lawyers from legal aid just make the money run out. They may not do it intentionally but everything can be "legitimately" stalled. Lawyers are bound by the court process and that is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2019, 07:14 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 494
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry I've been at it since 2013. Everything is...

I've been at it since 2013. Everything is tolerated. Everything takes months for one step and even that can go nowhere. Because of this stalling expect to pay your lawyer to prepare your financials...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2019, 11:22 PM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,355
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Stepmom is holding on to those girls because she...

Stepmom is holding on to those girls because she sees dollar signs. Don't give up fighting for your kids and what belongs to them. Stay strong. Prayer helps me and it's cheaper than therapy.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-15-2019, 03:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 290
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Did the bullying start after the perm hair? ...

Did the bullying start after the perm hair? Bullying is never okay but why would a parent perm a young child's hair??? Did the perm cause child's anxiety and is the reason for this intensive therapy?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-12-2019, 07:29 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 414
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Does the court order also clearly state she can't...

Does the court order also clearly state she can't interfere with showings, ie. refuse to allow the realtors and potential buyers in the home? If no, I don't see how police can assist with that as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 10:53 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 414
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I had to get a court order for exclusive...

I had to get a court order for exclusive possession and to list and sell home without my ex consent. I needed to get him out so I could clean and repair the home he was making go to shit. And I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 11:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 353
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so grateful for your replies and sharing...

I am so grateful for your replies and sharing your experiences and knowledge. A family breakup is horrible to go through. I would not wish this on anyone. I don't see why anyone would get married...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 07:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 353
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all...

I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all the logistics but I won't worry about this unless ex is requesting supervised access. For example, if we can't communicate due to the restraining...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2019, 11:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 353
Posted By Helpmyspouse
thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the...

thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the visit is only supervised for a few minutes and not the whole duration? I have a problem with this if this is the case. The visit in my situation would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-05-2019, 10:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 353
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Supervised access centers

Anyone familiar with these? What is the wait time to start access? I read up on the process which is an intake form and meeting but it doesn't say anything about a wait time or how fast the first...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2019, 02:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 339
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Conflict of interest?

My exspouse is supposed to be self-reping but he lacks the mental capacity to do so. It's a long story... Anyway, a family member on his side offered to help him faciilitate a potential agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2019, 07:32 AM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,355
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't have any legal advice to give. I'm stuck...

I don't have any legal advice to give. I'm stuck in the broken system as well losing all my equity but I do have my kids. But I know the pain you speak of. Your situation has been weighing on my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2019, 05:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 488
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You have given me hope and more information than...

You have given me hope and more information than my lawyer has. All he said was that just because my ex passed a two hour mental capacity assessment it doesn't speak to his parenting capacity and we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2019, 06:22 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 488
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thanks for the great coping suggestions. If I...

Thanks for the great coping suggestions. If I didn't have my faith that pulls me through I don't think I would be still standing. My friends tell me that if they didn't know the hell I'm going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 09:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 488
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I'm on the trial list waiting to be called within...

I'm on the trial list waiting to be called within the next three weeks window. If my case gets called and ex shows up still self repping what is a possible outcome on this day? He has still not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 07:43 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,052
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I got some really crazy demands as well. For two...

I got some really crazy demands as well. For two years ex wouldn't agree to sell the matrimonial home. He demanded and ranted that I "give him the divorce first and then we sell the home". He was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-17-2019, 07:50 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 724
Posted By Helpmyspouse
What really gets me is the legal fees the other...

What really gets me is the legal fees the other side makes you burn to defend something that will most likely go nowhere. Why does it have to cost so much money?? So much aggravation and only the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 488
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unbelievable turn of events

So for those following my saga, my exspouse was deemed special party just before the marital home was sold. His crooked lawyer and OPGT have been stringing me along helping themselves to the equity...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2019, 06:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 549
Posted By Helpmyspouse
So damn true. Kids don't come first in family...

So damn true. Kids don't come first in family court. Only lawyers do. :mad:
Forum: Financial Issues 10-24-2019, 08:12 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 264
Posted By Helpmyspouse
By court order do you mean one obtained through...

By court order do you mean one obtained through small claims court?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2019, 08:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 264
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I figured he could not dip into my share but was...

I figured he could not dip into my share but was asking if he would be able just access the funds and pay himself without my ex actually writing him a check. This lawyer is a crook and I don't trust...
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