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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 01:28 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,114
Posted By first timer
RE: For the rest of the summer- after the...

RE: For the rest of the summer- after the consecutive weeks were chosen- it's just one week with one parent, then switch?

- Yes that is correct; the regular parenting schedule resumed

I noticed...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 01:17 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,114
Posted By first timer
RE: So, what is the new deadline when they miss...

RE: So, what is the new deadline when they miss the first deadline? Can they choose their two weeks on July 3rd, starting the following day? What happens if both parents miss the deadline? Who gets...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-07-2019, 12:51 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,114
Posted By first timer
Our agreement had 2 provisions: 1. Father's day...

Our agreement had 2 provisions:
1. Father's day and Mother's Day: 6pm on the Saturday to 6pm on the Sunday
2. Summer: Even years Parent A had first choice for 2 consecutive weeks, deadline was May...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-05-2019, 10:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,814
Posted By first timer
How did you completely disengage and still...

How did you completely disengage and still co-parent with 50/50 and I assume Joint Custody?

We did not co-parent. We did parallel parenting with shared custody. We exchanged all education and...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-05-2019, 04:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,814
Posted By first timer
My agreement states those exact things about...

My agreement states those exact things about inappropriate behavior. It is meaningless, when you are dealing with an immature person. We also went to therapy when our son was 13 (he will be 18 in a...
Forum: General Chat 01-18-2018, 01:01 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 867
Posted By first timer
We had 50/50 access. At my house I gave our kids...

We had 50/50 access. At my house I gave our kids a monthly allowance that was based on their age (9 yrs old, get 9 dollars per month and put 10 percent in a savings jar). It was not based on chores...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-26-2017, 01:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,230
Posted By first timer
Thank everyone for your replies. What does...

Thank everyone for your replies.

What does your son say about school? - He hates it.

It is just hard for him or just feels pointless? - not hard, just would rather be playing games online than...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-25-2017, 12:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,230
Posted By first timer
Kid Failing Grade 10 - frustrated parent

Hi some background info: 2 kids D:18 in college living with me full time since last June when she graduated high school - her choice, stays over to her mother's 1 night a week; S:15 50/50 schedule in...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-30-2016, 03:31 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 709
Posted By first timer
Child Support Ending letter

Does anyone have or know where I can find a sample letter for terminating child support - or the correct wording to use? Thank you
Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2015, 11:48 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 776
Posted By first timer
Dinky - Our separation agreement contains clauses...

Dinky - Our separation agreement contains clauses which require us to annually exchange income tax info for child support purposes. This one is completed in June and the new amount starts in July and...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2015, 04:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 776
Posted By first timer
thanks stripes for your feedback; its my first...

thanks stripes for your feedback; its my first time with an underpayment, it wasn't much - less than a 100 dollars - still better to know what gets counted and what doesn't for the annual review
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2015, 04:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 776
Posted By first timer
Annual Review question - child support (cs)

I had a cs underpayment in 2013 which I paid in addition to my determined cs amount in 2014. My question is: when there is an underpayment from the previous year (2013) and it gets paid in the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2015, 12:22 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 744
Posted By first timer
summer extended access/travel

Below are the clauses in my agreement related to extended summer access and travel. Here is the scenario: My oldest child is getting married this summer out of province. I want my 2 other children to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2015, 12:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 650
Posted By first timer
It was included in our calculations for SS but...

It was included in our calculations for SS but not CS: In the with child support formula, the Child Tax Benefit, the Universal Child Care Benefit, the child portion of the GST credit and any other...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-05-2014, 09:06 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,378
Posted By first timer
Our Order stipulates we notify each other of...

Our Order stipulates we notify each other of any/all changes to income immediately because it does impact the other parent financially; your right though, it doesn't mean she will, case in point.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-05-2014, 12:03 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,378
Posted By first timer
I went through a similar income change with my...

I went through a similar income change with my ex; she reduced her pay by $12,000 per year when she switched jobs. I received no notification from her about this change; no reason was given. I found...
Forum: Political Issues 11-28-2014, 07:10 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 6,286
Posted By first timer
"Good post firstimer. What did you do to thwart...

"Good post firstimer. What did you do to thwart your ex's attempts to "paint me as the bad guy in the eyes of our kids"? Sounds as though you have worked things out with your ex and I'm sure there...
Forum: Political Issues 11-28-2014, 04:40 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 6,286
Posted By first timer
My kids are 13 and 16 now. I had about 80% in the...

My kids are 13 and 16 now. I had about 80% in the beginning (they were 6 and 9) until I wanted it in writing upon which I received an email telling me I would no longer have them as much because of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2014, 12:37 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,458
Posted By first timer
I have 50/50 and am paying the offset as well but...

I have 50/50 and am paying the offset as well but I do not pay 50% of all costs related to our kids.

We split the following 50/50
- any costs associated with school such as fees, school trips,...
Forum: General Chat 07-25-2014, 09:11 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,914
Posted By first timer
not a penny arabian; just my time and patience

not a penny arabian; just my time and patience
Forum: General Chat 07-24-2014, 04:01 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,914
Posted By first timer
Update: sessions ended this week; she walked out...

Update: sessions ended this week; she walked out of therapists office through the back door; then I got called in; the therapist apologized for her abrupt departure out the back and told me she is no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2014, 01:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 564
Posted By first timer
I have had a number of amendments to my original...

I have had a number of amendments to my original agreement over the years for ss and cs; they have all included the ILA clause but I don't know if my ex received ILA or not. I spoke to a lawyer about...
Forum: General Chat 04-08-2014, 09:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,914
Posted By first timer
Thanks everyone for your...

Thanks everyone for your comments/insights/advice. I considered the pros and cons of moving forward with this request. We are still raising children together via parallel parenting; co-parenting was...
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2014, 05:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,914
Posted By first timer
Therapy 7 Years Later

I separated in 2007 and divorced in 2009. I was recently called by a therapist who asked me if I would be willing to participate in therapy for my ex who is apparently still struggling 7 years later...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-24-2014, 02:03 PM
Replies: 190
Views: 13,862
Posted By first timer
For me, my "new" spouse was definitely there when...

For me, my "new" spouse was definitely there when I needed her, especially when it came to the legal wranglings of my divorce. She did not go to court with me as she did not feel that was necessary...
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