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Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 10:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 147
Posted By arabian
Equalization is/was a "snapshot" of your marital...

Equalization is/was a "snapshot" of your marital assets/liabilities. You would have had an actuary calculate your pension?

Child support is a separate matter.

Presumably you and your ex both...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 08:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 147
Posted By arabian
I make a decent living and have never asked, nor...

I make a decent living and have never asked, nor wanted child support from her. She has stable disability income, but can barely survive with the mess she has made out of her life.

You want to...
Forum: Introductions 08-02-2018, 12:24 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
IF your lawyer did up the order then I'd be going...

IF your lawyer did up the order then I'd be going back to them to have it corrected (assuming the wording was incorrect). You shouldn't have to pay for someones incompetence.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2018, 12:22 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 122
Posted By arabian
have a meeting and then consider going to binding...

have a meeting and then consider going to binding arbitration. Lawyers often don't like this because a) they are inexperienced with the process or b) don't make much money (why do this when you can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2018, 12:19 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 479
Posted By arabian
does your ex have a 'significant other'? ...

does your ex have a 'significant other'?

money could be funneled through that person. Then you are pretty much a TOL (tit out of luck) unless you want to spend significant money on a PI.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2018, 09:35 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 479
Posted By arabian
I agree, but Ontario seems to be a province that...

I agree, but Ontario seems to be a province that encourages doctors to sign the forms so that anyone can be declared "disabled" and collect benefits.

I would suggest that you plant the seed of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 479
Posted By arabian
Something I've learned through the years (from an...

Something I've learned through the years (from an ex who doesn't disclose income) is that what you really have to do is plant the seed of doubt. Ultimately you want an income imputed to her. It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-30-2018, 02:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 218
Posted By arabian
interesting he wants you to "look the other...

interesting

he wants you to "look the other way" with regards to the l00k.

Never agree to anything, ever, without full financial disclosure. I'd insist on that and then have a conversation...
Forum: Introductions 07-27-2018, 11:09 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
curious - which judge signed the order? Some...

curious - which judge signed the order? Some aren't very well-versed with the ISOs.

I really don't think you have to change anything. Talk to someone senior from FRO. Because he has to pay you...
Forum: Introductions 07-27-2018, 06:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
I would read over the maintenance enforcement...

I would read over the maintenance enforcement act. I don't believe there is anywhere that gives FRO right to hold on to arrears collected unless it specifically says that in an order. Arrears...
Forum: Introductions 07-27-2018, 12:08 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 499
Posted By arabian
How silly. I am a bit confused. Where did...

How silly.

I am a bit confused. Where did your Order originate from? (presumably Ontario as that is the residence of child).

Alberta MEP collected the arrears in full and forwarded to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2018, 06:13 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
I take offense at your remarks about doctors. I...

I take offense at your remarks about doctors. I work for a very dedicated specialist who works 7-days a week. He is not motivated by money I can assure you. The individual I work for has no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2018, 01:59 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
delusions of grandeur is all...

delusions of grandeur is all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2018, 08:44 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
^good points Janus. People often...

^good points Janus.

People often self-diagnose. Some kids are just simply unruly and out of control. Much easier to label than to seek parenting guidance. My son wasn't scoring high in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2018, 08:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 145
Posted By arabian
I was successful again last week. Judge agreed...

I was successful again last week. Judge agreed with me and decision was "res judicata" and also said "did not come to court with clean hands." Judge specifically highlighted past 4 years of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2018, 12:53 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
why pay cash? why not pay through maintenance...

why pay cash? why not pay through maintenance enforcement or at least through manner that you can prove you paid it?
Forum: General Chat 07-22-2018, 12:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 511
Posted By arabian
My suggestion is to keep on enjoying your free...

My suggestion is to keep on enjoying your free time and make sure this happens on a regular basis.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2018, 12:29 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
So okay what is the real deal here? You lost...

So okay what is the real deal here?

You lost access. Do you have employment income and a permanent residence? Have you had previous issues with CAS? Is the child First Nations?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2018, 04:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 275
Posted By arabian
sounds as though you received a form letter from...

sounds as though you received a form letter from lawyer? (Breathe a sigh of relieve that you do not have a lawyer who fires out crapola without reading beforehand).

If you do respond I'd make it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2018, 04:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 145
Posted By arabian
Every time I go to court to defend myself against...

Every time I go to court to defend myself against ex's litigation I have to complete a new form. We have been divorced for 8 years.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2018, 04:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 305
Posted By arabian
great news! hope you can celebrate a bit now!

great news! hope you can celebrate a bit now!
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-20-2018, 03:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 484
Posted By arabian
BOTH you and your husband speak immediately to...

BOTH you and your husband speak immediately to Staff Sargent. Ask that person what they propose to do. Important for you to write down specifics of altercation for your own record to review in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2018, 11:59 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 94
Posted By arabian
You want your friend to represent you in court?

I came across this interesting case law on CanLII. I'm sure many have contemplated having a friend, whom we think is well-versed and experienced in family law, represent them in family law matters....
Forum: Financial Issues 07-17-2018, 08:24 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,070
Posted By arabian
Like CRA, all maintenance enforcement agencies...

Like CRA, all maintenance enforcement agencies have fax numbers or "rat lines" that you can send information to (if you have a file with FRO, if not then it is pointless). Be sure to put your file...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2018, 08:19 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,103
Posted By arabian
Autism(at least in my children) is a food...

Autism(at least in my children) is a food problem, every meal the child eats off diet is brain damaging them. They have a kinda of leaky gut where undigested food particles pass through the stomach...
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