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Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 04:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Unfortunately she is unreasonable..it's judge or...

Unfortunately she is unreasonable..it's judge or mediation unfortunately..we had to go court for Xmas schedule..it's sad

I would forego equalization for SS buyout...the cs is different I know
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 04:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Honestly what I want to do On equalization...

Honestly what I want to do

On equalization she owes me 110k
During nesting period we agreed to accounting of joint monies spent and she spent 40k of my funds including sticking me with a 15k...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
I just checked..the interim agreement says at...

I just checked..the interim agreement says at review
All non prejudice
I do recall a few months ago when we imputted the numbers wrong on divorce mate and it showed I was underpaying her..she said...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 03:42 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Thx..the process is what I'm looking at We...

Thx..the process is what I'm looking at

We don't even really have a separation agreement..the process is assbackwards

Our agreement for cs basically says the amount based on my projected 2019...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 01:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
I have reviewed these expenses with the...

I have reviewed these expenses with the independent accountant who verifies my income. It's all good. He did an initial one in 2018 and there were none that applied that he imputted back on me (ie...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 174
Posted By Kkc
Thabks for reply She had an active RN that...

Thabks for reply

She had an active RN that she renewed at end of 2018 (for 2019)...when working for me it was not much of any patient care..I would have encouraged her to seek retraining but now...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 08:03 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
I should add I have kids 43 percent of the...

I should add I have kids 43 percent of the time...there is no yet established primary residence
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 07:41 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 316
Posted By Kkc
Overpayment of support

Another quick question

Background

Self employed...support payments set up without prejudice in Feb 2019 for remainder of year based on last four months of 2018 (worked way less). My self...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-02-2020, 09:21 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 174
Posted By Kkc
Imputting income..ex changed nursing license

Day of separation Sept 1 2018..day of marriage Sept 2013
2 kids 7 and 5 in school full-time

I have kids Fri after school until Monday am (non prejudcie 60 40 split...but that's a different story)...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2019, 09:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By Kkc
Yes so thats why I'm asking alternatives. And...

Yes so thats why I'm asking alternatives. And won't hesitate to go to trial if there are stale tactics.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2019, 10:25 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By Kkc
Arguing equalization

Just quick facts and looking for input. Now my situation is ass backwards bc she tried an emergency motion claiming I'm violent and dangerous to try and get me kicked out of the house. Her lawyer...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-07-2019, 12:48 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,984
Posted By Kkc
hi, interesting read I am just wondering how...

hi, interesting read

I am just wondering how you were able to pull off deducting the lump sum SS. My understanding is that lump sums are not tax deductible. I currently have to pay monthly SS...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2019, 08:23 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 888
Posted By Kkc
Thanks Janus...always value the opinion I think...

Thanks Janus...always value the opinion
I think only method would be that a portion goes in trust and getting to agree to it...easier said than done I know
I'm curious ur position on the set off in...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2019, 07:58 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 888
Posted By Kkc
Sigh...well maybe if I get enough leverage in...

Sigh...well maybe if I get enough leverage in this I can push for some of it to go to a trust and get creative otherwise.

It makes a conundrum that she is artificially inflating a lifestyle, can't...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2019, 10:42 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 888
Posted By Kkc
Child support not going to kids

To start...I do not agree with the offset method for shared custody. I am not here to argue my amount is not fair. What I'm concerned of is the ex has a terrible, terrible spending problem

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-07-2019, 10:19 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,290
Posted By Kkc
thx, i agree not too much that can be done at...

thx, i agree not too much that can be done at these

but there are some judges locally who would scald her for her behavior the last 9 months..and again i have evidence to back up everything i say...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-05-2019, 08:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,290
Posted By Kkc
Thx for all the reinforcement...she is...

Thx for all the reinforcement...she is unstable..this week she gets my case conference brief and will likely inflame the whole situation.
Last week I was on FaceTime with my 6 year old girl and I...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-03-2019, 11:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 326
Posted By Kkc
You can get extra compensation for making sure...

You can get extra compensation for making sure you see all your diabetics every 3 months and making sure everyone gets cancer screening. It is extremely tedious and time consuming.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-03-2019, 10:29 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 326
Posted By Kkc
Always great for advice Again it's not like I'm...

Always great for advice
Again it's not like I'm claiming a crazy amount

Also..I do think bc my lawyer fees directly stem from corp related things (figuring out finances, severing it) I'll put...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-03-2019, 07:08 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 326
Posted By Kkc
self-employed and business expense

hi everyone

im just wondering what kind of issues to expect when it comes to being self-employed and having legitimate business expenses. Basically I am a professional, so there are very obvious...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-01-2019, 10:12 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,442
Posted By Kkc
Thx for advice We do not talk about their mom ...

Thx for advice
We do not talk about their mom

Just hoping a judge can recognize this next week..we had 2 x in 4 weeks where she flat out refused to give me my kids bc they were crying
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2019, 05:30 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,290
Posted By Kkc
Yes...I will throw back that in 6 months she...

Yes...I will throw back that in 6 months she needed me to take care of things for the kids on her time...

Ie..I need u to get groceries...d2 needs a coat for school and in the states (to go...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2019, 05:17 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,442
Posted By Kkc
i have a slower day today and reading older...

i have a slower day today and reading older threads
this resonates with me because i am seeing early evidence of this in my kids

my daughter is 6 and son is 4

separated since september, case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2019, 04:05 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,020
Posted By Kkc
the link is closed...and yes Janus calls things...

the link is closed...and yes Janus calls things as they are whether you like it or not, if you disagree with it entirely, its great to get the input on his position
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-29-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,290
Posted By Kkc
my parents do not say anything my daughter...

my parents do not say anything
my daughter constantly asks us if we like their mom and is surprised when we say yes

my daughter is scared to talk about my family in front of her mom because she...
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