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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 02:33 PM
Replies: 2
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Posted By rockscan
Best time to call is first thing in the morning....

Best time to call is first thing in the morning. They tend to answer then.

Normally they send you documentation that your account is active and what you owe. You may want to check with your...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 12:51 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 63
Posted By rockscan
Depends on support paid, incomes and costs of...

Depends on support paid, incomes and costs of trips. $15 trip is a no. $500 trip is a yes. Trips in between $50 and $500 may or may not be depending on off set support, income of paying parent etc.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-23-2020, 11:21 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 181
Posted By rockscan
Threats in family law are a regular occurrence...

Threats in family law are a regular occurrence and most likely they are hoping is they scream loud enough they will scare you off. My husbands ex was self rep and the threats she had in her documents...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2020, 08:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 235
Posted By rockscan
My husband went through similar treatment. Tried...

My husband went through similar treatment. Tried to be a fair person in the divorce and only got grief. He lost all his rrsps fighting and left a lot of the matrimonial home money on the table. Then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2020, 05:28 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 244
Posted By rockscan
Your ex is not going to lose custody and you are...

Your ex is not going to lose custody and you are hanging onto things you shouldn’t. You are not healthy. You have been through a fight and now don’t know how to separate yourself from that fight. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2020, 05:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 128
Posted By rockscan
She can still get support even if she is dropping...

She can still get support even if she is dropping out because she re-enrolls. If she has had several years of this I would file to stop support as she is not in a meaningful program of study and no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2020, 11:51 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 244
Posted By rockscan
So what if your ex doesnt like 50/50. So what if...

So what if your ex doesnt like 50/50. So what if you think she won’t agree. None of this matters. You are trying to predict the future and make a decision in advance. You reached an agreement on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2020, 10:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 106
Posted By rockscan
Your argument is that she has had an additional...

Your argument is that she has had an additional two years to complete a high school education she should have completed by now. She is not in a program of study with a reasonable chance of employment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2020, 09:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 106
Posted By rockscan
Nope. They just have to prove she is in a full...

Nope. They just have to prove she is in a full time program of study.

After she turns 18 the privacy laws kick in.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 10:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 159
Posted By rockscan
4 and 6 are unenforceable. Take those out. ...

4 and 6 are unenforceable. Take those out.

Remember an offer is what you want to settle the issue before trial. It doesnt have to be an order or worded that way. It is an offer—i will give you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 10:03 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 106
Posted By rockscan
The only thing you can ask for is school...

The only thing you can ask for is school enrollment.

Your 20 yo kid doesn’t have to give you anything but proof she is in school.

As for the others, go directly to the source. Forget your ex.
Forum: Divorce Support 02-20-2020, 05:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 505
Posted By rockscan
Its over...we hope

Today my husband found out his ex had a big party to celebrate the end of the case and has been telling everyone she won and was vindicated. His “spy” called her out on it and was brow beaten for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 03:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 84
Posted By rockscan
What is the big deal with him picking them up...

What is the big deal with him picking them up early? Is ten minutes a hill to die on?

You could simply tell him that you don’t have an issue with him picking up early but could he message you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 12:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 159
Posted By rockscan
Your offer will be straight forward as it only...

Your offer will be straight forward as it only involves cs for three remaining kids.

Plus you only need to offer what you are willing to pay. It can be similar to minutes of settlement or simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 09:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 177
Posted By rockscan
If your kids are under 18 you can get information...

If your kids are under 18 you can get information from the school. Call and speak to the principal and ask for their report cards. If you get grief, go to the superintendent. Once they turn 18 you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 08:12 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 177
Posted By rockscan
You can file it but if she refuses to provide it...

You can file it but if she refuses to provide it won’t look good on her.

In your affidavit outline that she hasnt provided any up to date information showing full time enrollment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 07:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 177
Posted By rockscan
You are filing to have support stopped. You can...

You are filing to have support stopped. You can provide all of that but the other side needs to prove she is still entitled to support.

Have they provided proof of enrollment? Transcripts showing...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad,...

Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad, good thing you don’t hear what I say to my husband.

Everyone has a story from their divorce and reasons why the other person should shut up and...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 12:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded...

This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded $65,000 in expenses plus ongoing cs in her first offer. He owed her $5,000 and partial table. Offers are meant to start the negotiating. He can look at...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 12:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out...

Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out monthly for the next 30 years is better? Has his lawyer told him what he can expect for a monthly payment and the length of time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 11:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 453
Posted By rockscan
Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be...

Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be involved at all from a front end perspective. She can support you, talk to you, work with you but should have zero communication with your ex.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 11:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
Well look at what he would have to pay her. ...

Well look at what he would have to pay her.

1. Half the value of the house and his pension.
2. Her share of his cpp credits for the years she didn’t work.
3. Monthly spousal support.

The...
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 07:44 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 457
Posted By rockscan
Let her not show up, better for you! Search...

Let her not show up, better for you!

Search other methods of serving in the forum. Someone else had this problem.
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 07:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 457
Posted By rockscan
No I was saying can you find her through...

No I was saying can you find her through that—identifying info or workplaces.
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 05:01 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 457
Posted By rockscan
Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?

Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?
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