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Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2019, 01:00 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 962
Posted By menchia
I'll be seeking the advice of a certified divorce...

I'll be seeking the advice of a certified divorce financial advisor. In my case, it's not that I don't have the ability to pay off what I owe, it's just I cannot pay the full amount at once. My...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-06-2019, 01:00 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 962
Posted By menchia
I would've done that if it was not for the fact...

I would've done that if it was not for the fact that I'm only few years away from retirement (less than 3years). Therefore, I would rather endure the hardship for short time period and preserve the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-05-2019, 12:38 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 962
Posted By menchia
The culprit is my huge pension. I've been working...

The culprit is my huge pension. I've been working for long time now, and my salary is high. My STBX did not have pension nor any significant assets; she was kind of a professional student. The result...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2019, 03:07 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 962
Posted By menchia
Thank you all for your replies. I do agree with...

Thank you all for your replies.
I do agree with Arabian that it will not be fair for the other party to wait for too long to get the equalization payment. That being said, My x to be and I are in...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2019, 02:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 962
Posted By menchia
Period allowed for Equalization payment

I'm just wondering, how much time can be allowed to come up with the owed equalization payment after settlement?




My X to be and I are working on a separation agreement, and we are now...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
The Family court is a court of law based on...

The Family court is a court of law based on facts, and in my opinion is not a court of justice, it is not about what's fair and what's not fair. It is simply laws supported by facts. Therefore, I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 07:06 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
Thank you Janus for the heads up on arbitration....

Thank you Janus for the heads up on arbitration. The STBX does not like being in court; I'll forward your message to her.

I do not think most people here are belligerent, at least I do not think...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 06:53 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
Thank you very much OrleansLawer. That's exactly...

Thank you very much OrleansLawer. That's exactly the type of feedback that put things in perspective for me. Your response is solely based on the facts I provided, no extrapolation or reading between...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2018, 10:18 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
You are projecting your own bitter experience...

You are projecting your own bitter experience onto mine making your opinion skewed to say the least. My wife is aware of everything going on and she never would subscribe to your description of me as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2018, 08:23 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
That's really cold Arabian! I find it amazing...

That's really cold Arabian! I find it amazing that some people jump to judgement without knowing the details or the circumstances of one's struggle.

Not everyone who posts in this forum tells...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-13-2018, 05:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 581
Posted By menchia
Net Family Property and Equalization after allowed time limit

The rule for Net Family Property and Equalization: You would have six years from the day you separated, or two years from the date your divorce is final, to go to court, whichever date comes first.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2018, 02:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By menchia
The question is that the reconciliation time for...

The question is that the reconciliation time for every year is less than the 90 days time constraint. Therefore, for that year the separation period is not affected, and the separation continues....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2018, 02:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By menchia
No Standing on the sidelines, this is not my...

No Standing on the sidelines, this is not my situation. I did not say in my post this is my case.

In the period of time I and my wife been separated (about 9 years) we never attempted...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2018, 10:19 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By menchia
Rules for separation longer than the required one year

The rule says:

1)If you are using separation as grounds for your divorce, then you must be separated from your spouse for a minimum of one full year.

2)If during this one year separation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 05:45 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
Absolutely. In several occasions she even told me...

Absolutely. In several occasions she even told me that as far as she's concerned we're already divorced.

Another thing that was brought to my attention just today is that there is a time limit in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 03:09 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
1) Each does his own laundry 2)I clean certain...

1) Each does his own laundry
2)I clean certain parts and she does the rest, but never cleaned each other rooms
3)Never on vacation together after separation
4)Yes we did, but I can count the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 02:08 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
We do not have a formal separation agreement yet,...

We do not have a formal separation agreement yet, as she refuses to sign or even read one. I take care of the kids (including cooking for them and myself, etc.) in 99.0% of the time. We stopped...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 02:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
We've been absolutely separated. We do not...

We've been absolutely separated. We do not communicate directly, unless it is important (relating to the children or me asking her to pay for something). We communicate using e-mail and written...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 01:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
I absolutely do have the proof that I asked her...

I absolutely do have the proof that I asked her may times of the year to pay her share of the mortgage and house expenses (I have it in writing from her).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 01:30 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
She's not my ex spouse yet, we still separated...

She's not my ex spouse yet, we still separated but not divorced. I did not just give her the money as a "gift", it was part of a verbal spousal support agreement (some of it communicated via e-mail...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
Question Thanks Janus for the quick reply. I neglected to...

Thanks Janus for the quick reply. I neglected to mention in my previous post that I indeed paid for all my two children expenses all the time, she never paid a cent, and I have all the documents to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2018, 08:29 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,480
Posted By menchia
Question shared increase in matrimonial value after separation

Hi folks,
This is my first post, and I'd appreciate very much any advice/feedback on the following.

-Married on 1999
-Separated on 2008
-As of today, not divorced yet
-We jointly bought a...
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