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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-01-2021, 02:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 629
Posted By velas
We let our 9 year old stay home from school as...

We let our 9 year old stay home from school as mental health days every couple months. We discuss it together and let him know that if he's feeling okay physically but not feeling okay in his head...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2021, 01:51 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,871
Posted By velas
Most parents who are married before they divorce...

Most parents who are married before they divorce have children with only the fathers last name. My daughter has my last name only and never once has it been an issue with her mother. And she has...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2021, 07:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 410
Posted By velas
If internet is a brand new expense that was never...

If internet is a brand new expense that was never incurred by her and is being used exclusively to home school the child, she may have an argument. I would ask to see proof that the service is new,...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 07:34 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,354
Posted By velas
So, the ex is paying your mortgage and your...

So, the ex is paying your mortgage and your househould expenses and supporting the children? What are you doing to support your children and yourself?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2021, 01:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 892
Posted By velas
What's the schedule like the rest of the year?...

What's the schedule like the rest of the year? Over the course of 2021, will one parent have at least 60% of the time? or do both parents have at least 40%? If one parent will have 60% of 2021...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2021, 12:52 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 508
Posted By velas
If it's a necessary procedure, then it should be...

If it's a necessary procedure, then it should be done regardless of who has the child in their care. Better to get it done if it's a benefit to the child.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-19-2021, 09:45 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,131
Posted By velas
I would have the kids change their password....

I would have the kids change their password. Unless he has 50% of the parenting time and some legitimate reason to check their activity, he doesn't need that much access. if you as the 100% parent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-09-2021, 11:17 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 375
Posted By velas
If you're with FRO, they won't end the support at...

If you're with FRO, they won't end the support at graduation anyway. He would need you're agreement that the child is no longer a child of the marriage. For the expenses, rockscan is the resident...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-09-2021, 11:02 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,489
Posted By velas
The vaccine isn't approved yet for children under...

The vaccine isn't approved yet for children under 12, so unless they end up approving it over the summer, they won't be eligible to receive it before school starts?
Forum: General Chat 05-22-2021, 10:22 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 644
Posted By velas
Angry Can minor child request support?

I have a question about a family member in my wife's family....


Is a 15 year old who has been kicked out of his house by his mom, no contact with dad for 8 years able to ask for support? He has...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2021, 05:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 615
Posted By velas
Plus you only have to pay on the after...

Plus you only have to pay on the after tax/subsidy cost. If she's earning 30k and her daycare is 800/month, she should be saving about 1800/yr in taxes, so her after tax cost is only 650. If she's...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2021, 05:08 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,382
Posted By velas
If he is going to claim undue hardship, then it...

If he is going to claim undue hardship, then it would likely apply to the child support he pays for his additional 2 children, not to his first child. I would absolutely do what you can to get the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-31-2021, 04:16 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,543
Posted By velas
I have a few.... Ex told me that it was...

I have a few....


Ex told me that it was "nice of us to invite child on our vacations". Like child was some random person.


Being sent receipts for activities as notice instead of discussing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 03:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 555
Posted By velas
You stated that you each had one child of the...

You stated that you each had one child of the marriage. Does that mean he has a child living full-time with him? And is this child also eligible for support? Or is the son who is now living with you...
Forum: Political Issues 01-08-2021, 11:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,412
Posted By velas
how often does domestic violence happen without...

how often does domestic violence happen without being reported? Probably way more often than someone hitting themselves and then trying to frame their spouse.....
Forum: Financial Issues 12-15-2020, 09:15 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 914
Posted By velas
Well, interesting development. Child has...

Well, interesting development.
Child has received a grant for $2000. Tuition for the semester is about $1900 so this is perfect. However, child also applied for and received a student loan. (her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-30-2020, 02:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,047
Posted By velas
You can also claim expenses against your 1,300 a...

You can also claim expenses against your 1,300 a month in basement apartment income. A portion of the mortgage interest, a portion of the utilities (if they're included in the rent) any expenses you...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2020, 01:03 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 914
Posted By velas
This is perfect. I expect that since she's not...

This is perfect. I expect that since she's not living at home and mom is not receiving child support, that she will balk at having to pay her portion of school expenses. Child has literally zero...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-11-2020, 01:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 914
Posted By velas
Can S7 be requested if no CS is being paid

Hi all, I am wondering if one parent can take the other parent to court for S7 expenses relating to university (tuition) if no CS is being paid by either parent? Neither parent is directly supporting...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-02-2020, 08:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 711
Posted By velas
I do have the record of enrolment which I am...

I do have the record of enrolment which I am sending with the forms.


When you say grant, do you mean the CESG? When I contributed the funds, the government matched them 20%. I didn't know I had...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-01-2020, 04:33 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 711
Posted By velas
RESP Withdrawals

So, I'm filling out the forms to have some money withdrawn from the education plan to pay for child's tuition in September. Due to circumstances from last year, I'm agreeing to pay the entire...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-01-2020, 03:35 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,896
Posted By velas
This happened to me in March but by the...

This happened to me in March but by the enforcement agency in NL. I got no information other than the other parent submitted a doctor's note for the child and I had to pay. Child wasn't even living...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2020, 05:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 556
Posted By velas
She has not lived at home since last year, but I...

She has not lived at home since last year, but I paid support up until she turned 19. My RESP will cover my share of her tuition expense. Actually, it would cover her whole degree as long as she...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2020, 04:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 556
Posted By velas
Post-secondary/ housing

Hello,


So, child is registered for university in the fall. She is currently living in a friend's apartment on their couch, as she recently got kicked out of her apartment. I am considering...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2020, 08:03 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,012
Posted By velas
Do you mean should the amount paid to the...

Do you mean should the amount paid to the grandparents be split between you and the ex? or should the amount you pay be split between the grandparents and your ex?


I would think both you and...
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