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Forum: Common Law Issues 06-12-2014, 11:36 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,785
Posted By init'sowntime
thank you serene. If my gf signs it can they...

thank you serene. If my gf signs it can they refuse it? my ex has agreed to sign first, so once I sign the agreement it's done. then I have to go pick up the agreed upon chattels. after I get them, I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2014, 11:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 679
Posted By init'sowntime
If you knew her, you would never say that. There...

If you knew her, you would never say that. There is alot more to the story, such as the reason she got sole custody in the first place, and the fact that she self repped and went to trial and won...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2014, 10:06 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 679
Posted By init'sowntime
childcare question

I have a friend visiting who has a question about childcare expenses.

She has sole custody of d9. She has asked for an increase in the amount of child support she gets from her ex. This was a...
Forum: Common Law Issues 06-12-2014, 09:27 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,785
Posted By init'sowntime
who can witness?

I'm almost at the end of this fiasco. After the separation agreement going back and forth with her changing wording, changing her mind on a bunch of stuff and generally slowing things down (including...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-20-2014, 10:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,490
Posted By init'sowntime
perjury question

if a settlement offer has been accepted, but then because of the other party not honoring the terms of the agreement, it falls through and can't be completed, is that misrepresentation valid? is it...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-19-2014, 04:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,329
Posted By init'sowntime
still playing games

I think they are still trying to screw me. We were so close. they sent me a confirmation letter for the settlement agreement. the terms were agreed to. The money to finance her buyout of me for the...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-07-2014, 08:14 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
Smile and walk away: that's such a horrible thing...

Smile and walk away: that's such a horrible thing to have to go through. I feel like I'm on the verge of losing everything. She wanted to keep the house, but refused to buy me out of it. she wanted...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-05-2014, 02:19 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
Standing on the sidelines: I hear you. Your...

Standing on the sidelines: I hear you. Your right. I have been trying to work this out for a year now, but the protection order prohibited me from talking to her. I could only talk to her through her...
Forum: Introductions 05-05-2014, 01:53 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 6,851
Posted By init'sowntime
I really feel for you...i'm a big fan of the...

I really feel for you...i'm a big fan of the video recorder because i was falsely accused of abuse. But thats only if it goes extreme as in my situation. Take pictures of every room in the house, the...
Forum: General Chat 05-05-2014, 01:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 735
Posted By init'sowntime
Anti Psychotic Drugs

Well, I just found out my ex is on Risperdal. It could explain some of the last year and the way she has acted.

I wanted to share this talk because it could shed some light for other people too...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-02-2014, 10:51 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
the waiting game

So after all is said and done the other side has had all week to draft this agreement and I've heard nothing...I'm starting to think that the stbx threw a tantrum at the agreement her parents and I...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-28-2014, 10:55 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
Hello everyone, thank you for all your support...

Hello everyone, thank you for all your support and good thoughts. the video i took of the inside of the residence sealed the deal. The damage was horrendus to say the least. I am now being offered a...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-27-2014, 04:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
this is a good piece of case law, thank you. i...

this is a good piece of case law, thank you. i know the debris can be cleaned up, i wasnt calling that damage i was calling that willful neglect. im going over in ten minutes, wish me luck.
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-27-2014, 02:09 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
i left the house a year ago. all this has...

i left the house a year ago. all this has happened over this past year. the outside most likely looks like the outside. Her fear of me coming to the house has nothing to do with me, it has everything...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-27-2014, 02:07 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
i have pictures of the summer when i was there...

i have pictures of the summer when i was there doing the roof, it shows the house immaculate, but i don't have pictures past then. If I can get into the house today i can document all the renos i did...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-27-2014, 01:43 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,017
Posted By init'sowntime
all the assets have been destroyed.

This is a continuation of my last post thread "exclusive possession question" for background on the saga look there. this is entirely new.

I did go to my house. I took a witness, and a...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2014, 12:57 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,505
Posted By init'sowntime
all i want to do is see the inside of my house....

all i want to do is see the inside of my house. that's it. i don't want to cause any trouble. she has let the outside go so much, and it needs a long list of repairs and maintenance on the outside, i...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2014, 12:42 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,505
Posted By init'sowntime
so if she wont let me in theres nothing i can do?

so if she wont let me in theres nothing i can do?
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2014, 11:55 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,505
Posted By init'sowntime
my email to her:

Hello ex,

I'm just letting you know I will be attending at our house saterday morning april 26th.

there will be someone accompanying me on my visit.

If you have changed the locks, could you...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2014, 11:36 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,505
Posted By init'sowntime
thank you all. I sent a very simple email today....

thank you all. I sent a very simple email today. What i got back was abusive threatening and hostile. Keep in mind, I have never hurt this woman, I have never had any criminal charges against me, I...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-24-2014, 11:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,505
Posted By init'sowntime
I've spoken with the police. They said they won't...

I've spoken with the police. They said they won't get involved in a civil matter (expected). he also said to me that bringing a witness is good, giving 24hrs notice is good, and also, which surprised...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2014, 11:11 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,377
Posted By init'sowntime
Thank you all for your posts. The moving truck...

Thank you all for your posts. The moving truck was seen again. the neighbour called me lastnight to let me know (it was another ten oclock at night thing). i stayed out of view and watched as the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-21-2014, 05:49 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,377
Posted By init'sowntime
the person from cpp called him on the phone. it...

the person from cpp called him on the phone. it wasn't a visit. the property isn't in danger (its a mess,granted) i just wanted to be able to see if she has indeed left. i wasn't trying to be...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-21-2014, 05:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,377
Posted By init'sowntime
i think shes bolted. what to do?

Well, I may have been right. She has not been at the house all weekend and all the blinds are shut, no lights on, and there are deep tire tracks in the driveway.

A neighbor came out to talk to me...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2014, 02:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,377
Posted By init'sowntime
lien on vehicle, i hear shes gonna bolt!

So I have a question, wondering if this is the right place in the forums. i have heard through the grapevine, that due to circumstances in my ex's life she may be planning to bolt. (long story)...
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