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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2020, 11:09 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 248
Posted By Asphenaz
Yes, both her lawyer and mine. But after 3 days...

Yes, both her lawyer and mine. But after 3 days of correcting his mistakes; we thought we got them all. There was several passages that contradicted themselves. Like this one.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2020, 03:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 248
Posted By Asphenaz
FRO will stop collection due to poor wording in SA

Long story short; my ex and her lazy legal aid lawyer after 3 years got her a very confusing and convoluted SA. The SA is very confusing because my ex's lawyer would copy/paste from previous...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-23-2020, 03:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 393
Posted By Asphenaz
They are still taking my payments. The 30-60...

They are still taking my payments. The 30-60 days may be increased by this situation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2019, 12:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 659
Posted By Asphenaz
I believe, that the judge will look at all offers...

I believe, that the judge will look at all offers to settle, then pick the one that is closest to his judgement. This will be used as the basis for costs awarded.
Forum: General Chat 08-30-2019, 10:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 987
Posted By Asphenaz
So she was 2.5 hours late in the end. As well my...

So she was 2.5 hours late in the end. As well my son was not there, she had let him go to a friends house. So I drove 30 min to go home, just to drive back to town to pick up my son. He had...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 701
Posted By Asphenaz
You may also want to ask about differing your...

You may also want to ask about differing your payments. I was able to get three months "payment" free, when I lost my job. They simply added it to the end of my renewal date.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2019, 06:12 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,118
Posted By Asphenaz
The courts can be a crapshoot. But the more you...

The courts can be a crapshoot. But the more you load the dice the better. If you think you are prepared; your not. If she had a lawyer, she's already ahead of you.

1.) in my case the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2019, 05:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,523
Posted By Asphenaz
Totally agree with Janus, it's not mean it's...

Totally agree with Janus, it's not mean it's fair. If you stop paying CS you may want to put it aside till it's resolved. You never know what will happen.
Forum: General Chat 08-29-2019, 05:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 987
Posted By Asphenaz
Rant - so she's late again

So the ex is late again, all summer and every exchange she is not there. I wind up waiting in her driveway. Right now I'm clocking in at 1.5 hrs (they went back to school shopping knowing it's my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2019, 12:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 958
Posted By Asphenaz
I would ask your friend if they are willing to...

I would ask your friend if they are willing to add all the stress and frustration on that longshot just to find out there is nothing they can do about it.

If the opposition qualifies, that's...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2019, 11:56 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,169
Posted By Asphenaz
I agree with Rockscan, it's pretty much a losing...

I agree with Rockscan, it's pretty much a losing battle. CS does not cover anything in your home. Unfortunately you are the support PAYOR, and your obligation is to pay.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2019, 11:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,440
Posted By Asphenaz
All we needed was SS, CS and parenting times, and...

All we needed was SS, CS and parenting times, and it took nearly 3 years from the first case conference was booked to trial.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-16-2019, 04:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,691
Posted By Asphenaz
LOL, My dad watched me do that when I was around...

LOL, My dad watched me do that when I was around two. Used to be one of his favorite stories to tell.

As for cannabis, it is legal, but not driving while high. It's a very stressful...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 04:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 404
Posted By Asphenaz
I would add the influence of the area you are in....

I would add the influence of the area you are in. For example, a smaller town may be more influenced by the EOW for fathers, while a bigger more multicultural city my be influenced by more modern...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2019, 09:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 930
Posted By Asphenaz
I am currently paying SS, and do not have 50/50...

I am currently paying SS, and do not have 50/50 offset as the kids are not with me 50/50. In my agreement we have a clause that she should try to find work or SS is terminated.

Yes, it would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-27-2019, 08:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 867
Posted By Asphenaz
Another option instead of therapy, would be to...

Another option instead of therapy, would be to speak with the school. Most school have staff that are trained to offer kids an outlet / safe place. Often times it is done in such a way that the...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-24-2019, 03:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 930
Posted By Asphenaz
How do you calculate SS and CS?

Hello All,

I'm hoping some of the more math minded may be able to explain where I went wrong.

I'm trying to calculate a 'what if' situation and the numbers don't make sense. As well as why...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,226
Posted By Asphenaz
Out of all the good advice already given, this is...

Out of all the good advice already given, this is an important part. Letting go is very important, so you can move on and find positives in your life.

The last part is the harsh truth, my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2019, 09:48 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 472
Posted By Asphenaz
Check out the end of the "motion to change - Self...

Check out the end of the "motion to change - Self help guide", there is a flow chart of what needs to be done when.

Self Help guide...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2019, 04:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 914
Posted By Asphenaz
Check your benefits coverage T&C's, and consider...

Check your benefits coverage T&C's, and consider it wisely. Mine like iona6656, had a clause where she was no longer covered after 3 years of separation.

Depending on the other parties health...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 842
Posted By Asphenaz
You will need a court order to modify or change...

You will need a court order to modify or change payments, especially if you have a court order. FRO is only concerned with ensuring the payments in the order are made. You can sign a motion to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2019, 11:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,317
Posted By Asphenaz
Thanks for the advice, and I agree with you...

Thanks for the advice, and I agree with you completely. I hope that's not the impression that I have given. I try my best to keep the kids out of any custody discussions. I listen to their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 04:46 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,317
Posted By Asphenaz
The SW from CAS closed the call. I asked for a...

The SW from CAS closed the call. I asked for a printout. From the brief conversation the SW had with me, my EX "explained everything" and brushed it off. The other comment was that she was not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 02:42 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,317
Posted By Asphenaz
Is this material change?

Hello All,

Both D12 and S14 want to return to week about. There have been many little things to indicate that they want to return to week about. Things like refusing to return on mid-week...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2019, 07:10 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 639
Posted By Asphenaz
I do not agree on that point. I pay CS and...

I do not agree on that point. I pay CS and received 50% of CBT. You are correct that wording needs to be very clear and your supporting docs as well.
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