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Forum: Parenting Issues 08-14-2013, 11:38 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,945
Posted By inseperationhell
Regardless of the type of pet, it is your house,...

Regardless of the type of pet, it is your house, your access time, your rules. I got a dog and 2 cats for the kids and my ex flipped. He hates dogs and cats, claiming he is allergic. Told me...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-06-2013, 09:54 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 5,454
Posted By inseperationhell
It has certainly been a while since I have...

It has certainly been a while since I have posted. Just wanted to thank everyone for all the support they gave me while I needed it. On the other side now. Settled in my new life and happy. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-15-2012, 09:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,398
Posted By inseperationhell
Well, went to the lawyer. And yes, I am screwed...

Well, went to the lawyer. And yes, I am screwed because as Rioe alluded to - I played nice and supported him while we were seperated but before an official agreement was in place.

I played...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2012, 06:49 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,398
Posted By inseperationhell
Thanks for the responses and I completely agree...

Thanks for the responses and I completely agree with what everyone is saying if circumstances were as you describe.
However, perhaps I did not explain the situation well enough:

The seperation...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2012, 08:52 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,398
Posted By inseperationhell
Re-negotiation of child support

My ex just formally asked that our income tax information is exchanged and the CS payment amounts need to be re-negotiated.
50/50 custody and I am paying him an offset in child support.

The...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 10:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 669
Posted By inseperationhell
Sec7 daycare and no notification

Hi,

The arrangement is that daycare is a section 7 expense. This summer, on my weeks, I am taking either vacation or having relatives care for the kids, thus no daycamp expenses.

I pay 65%...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2012, 09:46 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,598
Posted By inseperationhell
Hi....OMG you are living my situation :) or...

Hi....OMG you are living my situation :) or should I say :(....

I know very well the dilemma of the ex signing forms, getting notes etc for things on my time, not passing on the information...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2012, 09:30 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,015
Posted By inseperationhell
My lawyer gave me wise advice which I followed...

My lawyer gave me wise advice which I followed after the overwhelming feeling of looking at the property division.... 2 choices...put everything down and nickle and dime or keep the calculations to...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2012, 09:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,380
Posted By inseperationhell
Ok, maybe I should have said something to the...

Ok, maybe I should have said something to the grandparents..... what would that have accomplished? Just wondering...gotten him in trouble with them?

I don't mind chipping in the money if it...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-03-2012, 06:54 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 5,454
Posted By inseperationhell
You are wise PH.....but your advice is exactly...

You are wise PH.....but your advice is exactly what I am following....

Last night on the phone, I was nothing but positive, talking about the fun she would have while with her relatives. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2012, 06:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,380
Posted By inseperationhell
Section 7 costs my ex did not pay...

Hi,

A quick question as I could not find a similar situation on this board.

My share of section 7 expenses is 65%. We have shared 50/50 custody.

This week is his week and he sent me an...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-03-2012, 06:08 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 5,454
Posted By inseperationhell
Hi all, So I took the advice, put the...

Hi all,

So I took the advice, put the doubts behind me...I think it was that I missed the routine and missed the being with my kids each and every day (I doubt I will ever get over that). But...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-27-2012, 08:13 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,268
Posted By inseperationhell
I bought my ex out of the our house, no land...

I bought my ex out of the our house, no land transfer tax was due because I was already on the deed as owner - it was just getting mortgage approval and removing him from the deed. The valuation of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2012, 09:56 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,589
Posted By inseperationhell
I am another with twins (plus an older daughter)....

I am another with twins (plus an older daughter). I left him when the twins were 7....non involvement when they were born - YES....that was the turning point in my marriage. The comment I got when...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-27-2012, 09:39 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 5,454
Posted By inseperationhell
Hey, maybe I will have to try POF.....

Hey, maybe I will have to try POF.....
Forum: Financial Issues 04-15-2012, 09:23 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 757
Posted By inseperationhell
I bought my ex out of the house and owed 53,000...

I bought my ex out of the house and owed 53,000 equalization payment. I spoke to the bank about the situation - they crunched the numbers to see if I would qualify for a new mortgage etc on my...
Forum: General Chat 04-08-2012, 01:01 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,611
Posted By inseperationhell
I am in the same boat as you....my kids have his...

I am in the same boat as you....my kids have his name, professionally I am known by his name. However...I am in the process of changing back. Get my own identity back. There is a large percentage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2012, 12:58 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,350
Posted By inseperationhell
I am with Great West as well. My ex is covered...

I am with Great West as well. My ex is covered under my family clause until the divorce is final - while seperated, he is still covered.
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2012, 11:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 836
Posted By inseperationhell
Dealt with devils in the last year yes.... had...

Dealt with devils in the last year yes.... had angels...yes. I will be blowing out the candles tomorrow. What is better than spending Easter with my kids, looking at their joy and happiness and...
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2012, 11:47 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,246
Posted By inseperationhell
Lorac, you are every parent's nightmare....I have...

Lorac, you are every parent's nightmare....I have done the ride home many a night with my 3 angels after grandparents, aunts and uncles (all w/o wee ones in the house) have primed them with sugar. I...
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2012, 01:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 836
Posted By inseperationhell
It has been a year...

A year to the day tonight...3 am April 7th....a year since the hell ended and in a way the hell began. I am in a lonlier place, a scary place but a better place.
Forum: General Chat 04-05-2012, 08:18 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,137
Posted By inseperationhell
I would personally take the full custody and run....

I would personally take the full custody and run.

I have been months with my ex wanting shared custody which I let him have, me paying child support, him doing questionable things to the kids,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2012, 09:50 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 18,637
Posted By inseperationhell
Sorry for the long post - but it is tax law.....I...

Sorry for the long post - but it is tax law.....I was on the phone about this with CRA for an hour yesterday.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2012, 09:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 18,637
Posted By inseperationhell
I am in the same situation as you and you CAN...

I am in the same situation as you and you CAN absolutely claim the Eligible Dependent credit in the year of your seperation. As well, if you have shared custody (50/50 or 60/40) and using the offset...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-26-2012, 09:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,402
Posted By inseperationhell
It is definately ok to attend activities on the...

It is definately ok to attend activities on the other parent's time. We have 50/50 custody and I have attended every soccer game (x 3 kids), every swim meet, every hockey game and every school...
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