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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2019, 11:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 178
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with other posters. Go check for yourself...

I agree with other posters. Go check for yourself at the court house. Don't even trust your lawyer. It's sad but true. Lawyers only care about their own agendas. Nobody can care more for your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2019, 11:07 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 417
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry My mediation was a shit show too. I finally get...

My mediation was a shit show too. I finally get there after 6 years of bull crap stalling from the other side and over $120,000 of legal fees. Do I hear lawyers racking up billable hours??? A...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2019, 06:51 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 776
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Tilt, you are so spot on. And, there is zero...

Tilt, you are so spot on. And, there is zero accountability for those lawyers exploiting their clients for financial gain. And, if you are divorcing a mentally ill spouse, I mean diagnosed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 04:08 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 770
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Just wanted to say I am so sorry for what you are...

Just wanted to say I am so sorry for what you are dealing with. It sounds so painful and disruptive. My expdh is mentally ill and I know the torture you speak of regarding trying to deal and cope...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 776
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I hear you. I've been at it 6 years. It should...

I hear you. I've been at it 6 years. It should have been done long time ago. Don't get me started about the money spent on legal fees. It's criminal what the system does to exploit families...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 07:13 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 776
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Best thing I've read all morning. Thanks for the...

Best thing I've read all morning. Thanks for the link. I will write them! I'm so angry at the failed broken system :mad:
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-08-2019, 10:29 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,154
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Same here. Travelled with two small children....

Same here. Travelled with two small children. Nobody asked to see anything. On way back child was asked where is dad. We replied he didn't come with us. That was it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-07-2019, 09:59 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,154
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Sounds fishy. Any possibility she may already...

Sounds fishy. Any possibility she may already have tickets and travel details but doesn't want to share? And, is child supposed to be returning to same school as last year? If so, you don't need...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 12:47 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 584
Posted By Helpmyspouse
My mediator is a lawyer whose hourly fees are...

My mediator is a lawyer whose hourly fees are even more expensive than my lawyer.
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-07-2019, 12:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 664
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Such amazing and spot on advice. I agree with...

Such amazing and spot on advice. I agree with all if it. It triggered memories of my own situation. Do not recant your statement. You should not be trying to help your wife right now. Your ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 12:29 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 584
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Arabian, your post makes a lot sense. Other...

Arabian, your post makes a lot sense. Other side wouldn't agree to mediation/arbitration. Asshole knew his position was weak. So we did mediation instead. Mediator sided with me so I wish it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 12:21 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 584
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry I'm sorry to sound so cynicle but mediation,...

I'm sorry to sound so cynicle but mediation, arbitration, or trial, doesn't effen matter lawyers will milk you. They know exactly what you are worth from the financials you had to prepare. They do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2019, 01:46 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 1,982
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Here's a dumb question. Can you just call up...

Here's a dumb question. Can you just call up this lawyer and tell her you are in bankruptcy and stop barking up your tree? If she knows there is no moneyfor you to pay out maybe she can stop this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2019, 12:40 AM
Replies: 55
Views: 1,982
Posted By Helpmyspouse
My ex should be in one also. Is psychotic but...

My ex should be in one also. Is psychotic but can't be forced to get care or take meds. Another broken system. So he keeps himself "disabled" and his lawyer wants me to pay him ss while he sits at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-25-2019, 11:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 179
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I've been strung along in the system the last 7...

I've been strung along in the system the last 7 years. Due dates mean nothing. Judge always gives an extension at least in my case it happened each time. Ex missed a filing date, asked for more...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-25-2019, 10:57 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 1,982
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Trying to take blood from a stone. If lawyers...

Trying to take blood from a stone. If lawyers weren't money hungry assholes, they wouldn't be taking this case. You have nothing to give him but the lawyer is trying anyway. He gets paid and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-25-2019, 09:59 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 1,982
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I'm so sorry for what you are dealing with. My...

I'm so sorry for what you are dealing with. My biggest fear is my ex doing the same and looking for financial support years from now. I try not to think about it because it causes me panic attacks....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 11:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thank you Arabian for your great advice. I agree...

Thank you Arabian for your great advice. I agree the legal fees are my greatest burden. I'm afraid to self represent. The only consolation I have is that they are bleeding by ex as well so money in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 10:55 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
The pgt is even worse than the lawyer. The...

The pgt is even worse than the lawyer. The mediator noticed right away that the pgt is completely unmotivated to close this file. He has shown since he came on the scene that he has no motivation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 10:24 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Also this lawyer does not take instruction from...

Also this lawyer does not take instruction from his client. This is the problem. My spouse is deemed special party. The lawyer is his own client. Just thinking about this again triggers me. It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 10:21 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
When I say my situation is not common I am...

When I say my situation is not common I am referring to the fact that I'm actually negotiating my life with ex's lawyer not with my ex. A stranger who has zero connection to my children and a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 09:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 248
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Mediation update

So it's been over 30 days since the mediator advised other side to prepare a proposal. I was not exaggerating when I said the other side has zero motivation to close this file. Zero. He is getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 08:48 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 439
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I hear you nikolina and I can relate. I'm left...

I hear you nikolina and I can relate. I'm left to raise two young kids on my own. If I don't get up each day to work my kids don't have a future. Ex spouse refuses medical care and medicine so he...
Forum: Political Issues 05-14-2019, 06:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 527
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with you whole heartedly. In fact, the...

I agree with you whole heartedly. In fact, the case of Elana Fric has been weighing on my heart since the last post on this forum about how from a jail cell he was able to fight for custody of the...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2019, 08:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 377
Posted By Helpmyspouse
What a sick POS. My heart breaks for the...

What a sick POS. My heart breaks for the children. And how was he even allowed to fight for custody of his children and cost the grandparents money in fighting back. The system is broken! The...
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